http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/starlife2000 en-us Ok, ladies. My boyfriend, the love of my life, always loved drinking and having fun with his friends more than he loved me. I always forgave him of this and let him treat me like rubbish because I loved him so much and told myself it didnt matter. Then he broke up with me because "he wanted to be single and spend time on his own". (In man language this means he wants to be a player and go out and get with lots of different girls because he cant stay faithful to one). So I got sexy, I let him see how over him I was, I flirted with other guys in front of him, I showed him how much fun I was having now that he was gone. It worked. After a lot of grovelling, him saying how sorry he was, crying, telling me I was always too good for him and how he was so guilty about how he treated me, he asked for me back. I was ecstatic. I got what I wanted. I made him promise to treat me better and then I took him back. We were together another year and half but this is the important information here: Nothing had changed. After a couple of blissful months it turned sour again. He was going out with his friends again getting drunk every night, ignoring my calls, not being there for me when I was going through difficult times and spending a lot of time with girls who clearly fancied him despite me telling him how uncomfortable they made me. I became depressed and jealous and always felt bad about myself but still let things slide because I loved him so much. And then finally he dumped me for again. But after 2 years of being with this guy I was a lot less able to get over it. The truth is, as much as you dont want to believe it, that people NEVER change. The problems that happen the first time aorund will happen again and again. So if you do get him wanting you again and begging for you back...please dont have him. It is more painful than you can ever imagine to get over these break ups twice. I've lost 2 years of my life and all my confidence to this manand it is going to be such a struggle to get over it. I just wish that when he wanted me so badly and I had the upper hand again I didnt take him back. Please trust me ladies. You're better off without a man that breaks up with you because he wont change but you can always find a better person to be with-despite how much you love him or how much you think he's the only one for you. There are millions of people in this world and it doesnt make sense to ruin your life and become powerless because of just one. So look hot, feel confident, make him jealous just dont go back to him because that makes you weak. By all means make him feel bad- just like he made you feel -but then leave him and continue to greener pastures and better things which is what you deserve. Then we'll see how he likes that. starlife2000 Mon, 01 Oct 2007 03:26:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_make_a_guy_jealous 105996