http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/ssrclives en-us My advice to you is go to the website AshleyMadison.com, it is for your situation...people who are happy with spouses, but need more excitment...go to the site and learn what it has to offer you in this situation..from one woman to another!Do it. ssrclives Wed, 18 Aug 2004 23:43:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/married_and_wanting_to_have_an_affair 1091 Simple, retire to the shower together, clean her and then have her clean you, then you can go down on a nice fresh clean wife! Experienced Woman ssrclives Wed, 18 Aug 2004 00:57:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/oral_sex_before_and_after 1084 O.K. I had this problem too...your jaw gets sore and you don't really feel like doing it anymore....well try and get in a couple of mouth strokes really get alot of spit going, and around the lips too, try licking him around the outside and go up for a kiss a say you want to have him NOW...that way he gets side tracked from the blow job, and wants to move on to other things...you can't make your jaw expand so why not try to suttley divert to other activities. Hope this help! Experienced Woman ssrclives Wed, 18 Aug 2004 00:54:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/blow_job_problems_he_039_s_big_and 1083 I think we all have our fantasy people in our head when making love sometimes, and when your hubby say's he's not attracted to that person who he named..I think he's to embarrassed to say he is....just like you would be to embarrassed to say the one you "always" think about...right?...the only difference is...he actually slipped up and said it out loud (Men?!) and you didn't...so don't worry...we are all in the same boat including your hubby....just keep on having fun together, maybe just remind him wittingly to try and not say it out loud, keep it in his head (where fantasies actually do happen)..That's my advice! Experienced Woman ssrclives Wed, 18 Aug 2004 00:47:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/husband_called_me_by_another_name 1082 when a girl gets aroused she will most likely make a lot of contact with you, meaning your body..if you are in the position again when you come to that point and you feel perhaps maybe she's arching her back or pushing her hips into you..then maybe first try and rub her "down there" very suttley and slowly over top of her pants..if she backs away then you know she's not ready, but if she likes it (and you'll know) then keep rubbing for a min. or two and gently try to see if she'll let you undo her pants...if she does at this point you're pretty much recieving the go-ahead...and just remember everything after this point needs to go slowly..let her enjoy it and you too. Try and be safe!. Hope this helps, Cheers.:) Experienced woman ssrclives Wed, 18 Aug 2004 00:38:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/going_farther_then_second_with_my 1081