http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/songbird69 en-us Well,you need to move on because believeit or not your hurting your new boyfriend without him knowing and if he found out you still loved your ex he would be crushed. You are probably just remembering all the good things about him, your mind is more powerful than you think. If you think something long enough, your mind will make you believe it, and in your case that is still loving your ex. If you really do still love your ex than you need to end your relationship w/ your boyfriend unless yo can truly and permanently fix the problem. Also...I know this would hurt you, but talk to your ex and find out if he is dating "the one", and if he is face that he has moved on and that you should too. Hope I helped!! songbird69 Fri, 31 Dec 2004 17:56:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_get_over_my_ex 1403