http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/soccermom31 en-us i wish i had a sister TO fight with. families waste too much time fighting and screwing each other. soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 20:11:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/shouls_i 50293 your adoptive mother took the chance when adopting you that you would one day ask questions and be curious about your birth mother. tell her you're curious about "the lady who gave birth to you". soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 20:01:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/more_family_issues 50289 this is just MY outlook on it but...my husband's mom and i were okay from the start and now we are the best of friends. that's ONE good thing. MY mom and my husband hate each other and have for 11 years. will never change. i think you can tell from the very beginning how the future will end up being. so now it's YOUR choice. like i said, that is just MY outlook. soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:53:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_s_mom_doesn_t_like_me 50286 tell your mom that she will always be the only "mom" you'll know. she should feel grateful that you have a step-mom INTERESTED in you. some others don't care about their step-kids. there are other ways for your step-mom to get on your dad's good side so you know she's for real. soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:45:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stepmothers_and_real_mothers 50284 if i have any doubt in soemthing then i just don't do it. obviously you have doubt. enough to submit the question, right/ soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:40:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/black_shoes_with_navy_suit 50281 can't say that it's normal for EVERYONE but i wanted a baby when i was 16, got p.g. then at 17 had my son. i don't regret him but i do regret not making a life for my kids BEFORE they were born. i mean by making myself more financially secure. i don't have a career. my kids can't go on the big trips, stuff like that. also, my son is now 14 and i want him on the right path. i'm trying to teach him the "right "ways regarding girls and sex, and to be aware and use good judgement. it hurts that i want to be a good parent and role model but my son asks me why i was having sex so young. rethink having children so young. establish yourself in life first. if you won't think about YOUR future then think about your CHILD'S. sorry to be so blunt, just helping. soccermom31 Tue, 24 Apr 2007 11:30:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_normal_1534 50136