FunAdvice Advice from: sjalldayy

Re: I like my best friends girlfriend

sjalldayy — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 00:08:18 -0700

I think you like her this much because you can't have her. Think about it, honestly if you had just met her and she hadn't been going out with JR, then I bet you wouldn't be so interested and desperate to be with her. So just tell yourself that they are happy together, and don't encourage JR to stay with her or break up with her, let their relationship go its course and in due time, when she is available and if you really do like her still, then you can go for it.

Re: Why is he always flirting?

sjalldayy — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:20:07 -0700

same thing happened to me. trust me, dont give in to his flirting. he is with his girlfriend for a reason, and if you let yourself get caught up in liking him & flirting with him you will end up crushed. and speaking from experience, thats not a place you want to be. just avoid the flirting, or flirt but dont let yourself get emotionally involved.

Re: How to stop the flirting

sjalldayy — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:16:48 -0700

dont say anything to him. when he asks you a question or says something that requires a response, give a one word, very stoic, generic answer and try to walk away and go someplace else or talk to someone else as soon as possible. guys like attention, and if you dont give it to them they will seek it somewhere else.

Re: What to do after cheating on my boyfriend?

sjalldayy — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 18:00:18 -0800

Trust me, I know exactly the kind of guilt that you are feeling, and how hard this is for you. People always say its hard for the person that got cheated on, but it's also so hard for the person that does the cheating. You have so many emotions and you are confused about so many things - I can relate. What you need to realize, though, is that though you feel that you love your boyfriend, he obviously is not the "one" for you if you are letting yourself do things with another guy. And once you have come to that realization, the only fair thing to do is get out of the relationship - it's not fair to either of you to stay in the relationship while you are having these feelings. Hope I was of some help. good luck girl

Re: How do you use a pic in your headline on Myspace?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 15:30:06 -0800

go to photobucket. find the picture you want. copy the direct url. put this code in your headline and in between the two " " put the url of the picture (without the spaces in there). save all changes!

Re: Why is it people like to see others sad ?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 15:23:59 -0800

They are insecure, they have problems of their own and it makes them feel better about themselves when they see other people having a hard time.

Re: How to add someone to my friends on Myspace secretly?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 15:16:39 -0800

Nope. You can either make a fake profile and add them but that will be hard to make the fake pro look convincing, or if you know a friend's password log onto your friend's [with their permission of course :D] and add them from your friend's.

Re: Should I make him get tested?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 15:14:26 -0800

Ok, I really hope I don't sound stupid, but can't he still have an STD if he used a condom?

Re: What's the saddest film ever?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 15:02:14 -0800

Some of these have already been said, but: The Notebook The Titanic Castaway Radio Flyer & City of Angels

Re: Ideas for a 16th birthday?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 14:59:57 -0800

I just celebrated my sweet 16 in december, I didnt do anything extravagant I just had about 15 friends over. You DONT need a big house to have a party. make the party kind of short (mine was 5-9) so that there aren't a lot of dull moments and people don't leave thinking it was a snoozefest. plan at least two fun games to play. (Have you ever/ten fingers are always fun and it lets everyone get to know each other better). The two most important things are: HAVE GOOD FOOD ON HAND EVERYWHERE AT ALL TIMES, and HAVE A GOOD THEME FOR YOUR PARTY. doesn't matter what the theme is, but whatever it is, decorate everything including invitations, streamers, balloons, wall & table decor, EVERYTHING, according to the theme. make sure you feel comfortable and relaxed at your party and just have fun!

Re: Are you on the school team Odyssey of the Mind?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 14:50:18 -0800

I was on my elementary school's OM team in fifth grade =) We were pretty good, we went to the state finals where we got second place in our category . That qualified us for the World Competition in Iowa, but we didn't go because we couldn't raise the money for all team members to make the trip. I can understand why you love it so much though, it's great fun.

Re: How do I stop popping my knuckles?

sjalldayy — Sun, 13 Jan 2008 12:22:30 -0800

I used to crack my knuckles all the time, it annoyed everyone around me but it was such a habit I couldn't stop. what I ended up doing was just stopping cold turkey . its easier and faster than a lot of other "methods." it's difficult for the first day but just DONT ALLOW yourself to do it and it gets easier. after about 3 weeks you should be totally broken of the habit .. just dont start again after that!