http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/salle021 Im a person who loves music and loves everything that surrounds me. I have a loving husband who means the world to me, I wouldn't change him for the world. I go by the saying: Life is what you make it, and I try to make life as enjoyable as possible. I try to look on the brighter side of things and avoid all the negative. There are only so many hours in a day, so I try to live my life so that I have no regrets! P.S. Im a huge Colts fan (grew up in Indianapolis) and I love to play the drums! en-us yeah its good you're sharing it, but you need to be reasonable! I assume that you sharing means that you want help, but when you dont take the advice thats given, people start to wonder why you are still having an issue! yOu know what I mean? salle021 Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:15:57 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 199030 I hear you girls! you're right! salle021 Fri, 11 Jan 2008 06:41:03 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_cheat_over_the_interent 184408 Yeah, I will say! You're only 14 years old...and you think you have it so hard. People have been through worse things then you but you are only focused on yourself and all the bad things that happen to you. YOu are holding on to negative energy and it sounds like you like you like living that way, because if you didnt like it then you would try to change what happens through positive behavior. SO what you moved, I did too...I went to five different elementary schools alone. YOu're dads an alcoholic...so is mine. We use to get beatin all the time for nothing...my brother is a drugy who lives under a bridge, his kids got taken away from him...My sisters husband is cheating on her...my mom was wanting to retire, but now she has custody of my brothers two children...and you know what...if you knew me you would NEVER think that I had a backround like that. Actually, you would think I was spoiled...when in all actuality we were dirt poor. Im going to tell you right now. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and quite living on everything thats negative. You should feel lucky that you have a roof over your head, or that you have a sister, and a dad. Some people are living on the streets with noone, and no education. You say fu*! everyone, but you get mad when everyone says fu*! you to you. Treat everyone the way you want to be treated and step up. Start reflectong on what you have and whats important in your life and you might feel better. Im sorry but your attitide has pissed me off. take care of your sister and show her what she deserves. dont be selfish. salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 20:25:18 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 184072 yeah, I can understand that. You're an online camera performer! haha! Whats that, it is what it sounds like, and do you get paid, sweet! Yeah it looks like she's going to do that...I am not for sure yet. I will have to talk to her later on today and find out. Thanks for the comment pink pearl! = ] salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 11:54:41 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_cheat_over_the_interent 183453 Well, my sister was anorexic for a long time, and bulimic for a short period. Being anorexic is a disease that occurs when a person thinks their fat and does not eat, even if they are all skin and bone. Some anorexics are on the verge of dieing because they are so thin but still think they are fat. A bulimic thinks they are fat and instead of not eating, they will sometimes binge eat and then feel fat and vomit everything they eat up into the toilet on purpose. They gage theirselves with their finger. Its very sad and serious. salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:35:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_on_a_school_thing 183316 Also Captain, you said that you***doubt very much that most partnerships are threatened by a quick on-line rendezvouis*** and then you talked about the divorce rate being high...dont you think thats why its high? If your wife was tallking to another man sexually, and thinking of meeting up with him would you be mad? I would (my husband I mean, lol). salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:31:36 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_cheat_over_the_interent 183311 It feels god to know that you guys are interested in this topic. I read all of your answers and enjoy doing it. Keep it up! Thank You! salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:25:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_anyone_beleive_in_god_anymore 183306 Hey Captain, this first paragraph is for you...When you said that women tell their men to put it away...thats not always true...I never say not to my husband, but he has said no to me before, so thats not always the case. In fact, I want sex more than he does. I think it might depend on the age of the guy, teenagers and men in their lower tweenties have higher sex drives then when their in their thirties. ON the other hand...my sister's husband always says no to her...she wants sex but he will never give it to her, and then she finds out he's talking to these girls that he use to work with (so he knows them). She just found out yesturday evening that he's flying out to where she lives...who knows he he's going to cheat. What do you think of that. salle021 Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:06:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_cheat_over_the_interent 183292 Wow! Thanks for your comments...I know she loves him a lot, I know she will be disappointed when I tell her other people's views on this matter. We'll see what she says. salle021 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:45:28 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_you_cheat_over_the_interent 181997 Hey thank you for your comments...Yeah I have done the BMI before...I was just curious as to what the average was in america compared to other countries...It would be interesting to compare. salle021 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:41:19 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/average_american_weight 181995 Clinique Happy for men! Its young, hip, and smells amazing to women. salle021 Tue, 08 Jan 2008 06:14:23 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/cologne_under_18_ladies_give_me_your 180962 YOu need to eat less calories then your body needs...and then exercise. Try the olipticle machine...it will give you a great work out. Cut down on sugar and eat small meals throughout the day. You might be use to eating larger portions because you were feeding two...to tel you the truth, weight watchers works...its not really a diet...it just helps you to eat the correct proportion of foods. Americans tend to over eat, and weight watchers will help you see what is ideal. I weighed 193 pounds in high school and now I weigh 150 and Im 5, 8" Im still working off my last ten pounds...you'll be fine. salle021 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:13:24 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/baby_weight 180641 If you go to google and type in BMI (body mass index) they have a special calculater to where you can type in your height and then your weight...this will calculate your body fat percentage. Its pretty standard...so if you have more muscle than the average bear than it might not be completely accurate. salle021 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:08:06 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_bmi 180634 Also, Cetaphil is dermotologist approved. Its in a white bottle with a green cap...you can get it at CVS, Walgreens, or Walmart. Its usually toward the bottom of the fash wash istle...you'll find it! Good Luck! salle021 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:04:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/acne_in_adults 180629 I had a mild case of adult acne...I used por-active and it worked for a couple of weeks but then I broke out again. It got to the point where I went to the dermatologist and they told me to wash my face with Cetaphil...its over the counter facewash...and then she said to mosterize with Cetaphil mosterizer. She priscribe mean acne medicine, but now I dont even need to use it unless I get a pimple here or there. You can spot treat your zits with benzole. I will say it wont go away over night, but if you consistantly wash your face morning and night (not too much or you can irritate your skin) and mosterize, it will help. At least it did for me. salle021 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:01:09 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/acne_in_adults 180620 I love hearing all of your views...It's inspiring! Thank You! salle021 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:53:47 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_anyone_beleive_in_god_anymore 180612 Thank you all for your comments. Im not going to lie...I havnt actually sat down and read the bible by myself, however, I do go to church. I beleive in God, but sometimes I dont feel like I have a relationship with GOD...there is a huge difference. I beleive in doing whats right no matter what the consequences, and I am really open minded. I was just very disturbed yesturday at the material I was reading. Reading about people wanting to cheat on their husbands really hurt me. If my husband ever cheated on me I would be so hurt. Furthermore, its not that I think premarital sex is horrible, I just think sex sells these days and people are abusing it. It almost like sex is like walking your dog. its not a big deal; however, it is to me. Im just saying that some people are losing value in whats inportant these days. To me its family! salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 12:19:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_anyone_beleive_in_god_anymore 178833 Yes! I beleive in God! God is who keeps us sane...he helps us to live our lives to the fullest, and directs us to do whats right. The problem is that nobody seems to want to litsen to his guidence anymore...even me sometimes, litsen to him, he loves you and wants whats best. salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:59:22 -0800 178375 Condoms can help reduce the risk of STD's and AIDS! They use to call Aids the gay mans diease because gays were the most likely to get aids. I have a gay brother, I hear all types of stories. salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:43:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/gays 178355 Dont do it! If he finds out, you will lose your marriage and your kids. If you're unhappy then it is better to get a divorse then to be sneaky. You would be lieing to your kids and yourself if you go sleeping around. Is a little excitment worth losing everything? Dont try to please other people...do the right thing...theres a reason why you're feeling guilty. Dont be dishonest to your family...they are really all you have! salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:40:34 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/married_and_wanting_to_have_an_affair 178352 I wish you the best...remember, your life is a blessing. I beleive in you! salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:33:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 178343 Tell me more about it! Im sure I have been through it or know someone who has! killing yourself is something that you should never ever think about. Your living on the negative! be positive. salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:25:16 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 178334 Mcdonalds...I worked there when I was 14! and you're only 14! wow! litsen to me! You have a whole life ahead of you! You should not be killing yourself! I was miserable when I was a teenager...I think everyone is...you need to face your problems. look them in the face and say...im not afraid of you! salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:23:45 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 178328 she cares about you? why else would she ask about your boo boo! salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:20:11 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 178320 It can change...the change starts with you! move out of your dads house...get a job and take you sister and live the life you deserve! get an apartment! or move back to where your girlfriend is... salle021 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:19:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_should_i_live_10405 178319