http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/russellplatypus en-us I have two bits of advice to give to the women writing into this site. The first is based on my situation as a married man. LEAVE YOUR HUSBADS! The thought of my wife having an affair is terrifying, but the thought that my wife is unsatisfied with me as a husband and is fantasizing about another man/men is many times worse. And don't you think he can sense it. Don't you think he's going to bed every night wondering what he did wrong or what more he can do. If he doesn't, then you should feel no remorse for leaving him. If he does, I can tell you that while leaving him would cause tremendous acute pain, it would also release hiim to find someone else as well. The second bit of advice is based on my humanity. We go through this life only once and for a very short while. I know that we are educated to put family above all things, but following and finding passion is something that should never be suppressed. Don't let better-than-thou moralists tell you otherwise. I would rather regret the things I did than the things I was afraid to do. russellplatypus Tue, 22 May 2007 14:01:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/married_and_wanting_to_have_an_affair 58076