http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/rumblechick female,57,TN,motorcyclist en-us Biggest risk is if the seller's do anything in the mean time to de-value the property...removing appliances, damage, etc. As the owner, you would also be liable if they were injured in "your" house. This arrangement occurs many time in real estate transactions & many times is the only way the selling party can have the money they need to complete a closing on the new home they might be buying. Just make sure the arrangment & stipulations are in writing if you decide to go this route. I allowed my seller to continue to use the garage for storage of their belongings for 2 months while their new home was being built, in exchange I had a source of ongoing information about things in my new house, and required that they provide me with a product that they sell. (Very large stuffed bears for outdoor displays!) rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 14:53:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_to_take_possession_upon_closing 26383 Try workamper.com rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 14:39:05 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/campground_jobs 26377 Good for you! Sounds like you are intelligent & responsible & just had a short time of having your emotions turned around by the wrong guy. Hope the next time you get involved with someone it is with someone who won't ask you to hide from anyone!! At your age a difference of 3 or 4 years is very big in most cases. In your 20's a few years doesn't make much difference. And this guy sounded like trouble in a big way! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 12:25:48 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_wait_or_leave 26340 Suck it up & move on! Thank your lucky stars he doesn't show signs of leaving his wife for you....would your REALLY want a man who would cheat on his wife. If he was really in love with you he could have been honest with his wife (painful as this would be for all concerned!) and admit his attraction to you. Sounds like he might have problems with committment & responsibility anyway! Been with her for 9 years, but only married for 1 & with a 6 year old & an 8 month old....seems like he might have been having problems of some kind all along! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 12:15:36 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_falling_in_love_with_a_married 26337 This may seem harsh, but since your last question was about the possiblity of being pregnant...you need to learn to practice either birth control or abstinence! Take him to a nice dinner or concert, involve his friends in your activities...reconsider using sex as an appropriate gift unless you'd like to end up giving him a "gift" that will continue to remind him of that fateful day for the next 18 or more years! Children can be a blessing, but consider if you are are ready to make that kind of a committment! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 12:07:00 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_81 26335 Unless you want to encourage him sexually, why would you want to? Are you just getting off on asking for trouble or are you trying to tease him? Not advisable in either case! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:58:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/grind 26331 The simple answer is yes. But you might want to ask yourself "What am I doing to encourage his interest?" If this has been an ongoing problem for you, perhaps you're not showing enough enthusiasm or imagination when you're together? Just a thought! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:54:55 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/men_i_dont_get_them_lol 26330 I commend you for trying to protect your friends. If you haven't discussed this with your parents please consider doing so. A situation such as this has the potential to become very nasty & your parents should be better equipped to take care of it. They will have more resources available to help. Do NOT consider retaliation or bringing a weapon to school for protection, it would just escalate the problems. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:51:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_friends_and_i_aren_t_safe 26329 Hiding the new relationship from the old one will destroy both in the end. Sounds like the old one hasn't truly made up his mind about you, and wants to hang on to you until someone else catches his eye! The behavior he is showing is NOT that of a best friend....if he really was your friend he would be glad that you've possibly found someone who help you be happy. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:45:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boy_problems_2375 26328 If you love someone, set them free....if they come back they are yours....if not, it was never meant to be. Now, to be brutally honest, from looking at your picture & seeing the screen name you've chosen for yourself plus the number of questions you seem to be posting about guys you are attracted to....you are kind of young to be making lifetime committment decisions. Hopefully you will continue with your schooling & grow into a well rounded young woman who values herself in her own right & not based on what a guy thinks of you. You have plenty of time....don't be in such a hurry to find someone. While it's fun to have someone to share things with, you need to learn exactly who you are & what you want from life before you commit to someone else. It's not necessary to have a man in your life to be a complete person. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:40:43 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/in_love_with_thw_impossible 26325 Yes, but depending on your own age & the gap, it might not be wise to get involved with someone unless the maturity levels are similar. Sometimes things will work out anyway, but it's much harder when you don't have the same goals & hopes for your future. Women tend to mature faster then men & it is possible to become annoyed when your maturity level catches up with his & even passes him. Suddenly things that you found to be mature in him will become silly to you & the growing apart gets to be too much to continue. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:30:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_age_matter_336 26324 Depending on your income level....a CD he might have mentioned liking, or one by an artist he likes....tickets to a concert....if you can sing or play an instrument, perhaps a recording of a performance by you....a gift certificate to a local music shop or membership in one of the download sites....if he drives & has Serius radio, extend his subscription...burn a CD or MP3 compilation of his favorite music. Hope some of this will help or give you more ideas. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:21:07 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_can_i_get_my_boyfriend 26321 A decent & free web site for dating is plentyoffish.com Good search features without all the "fanfare" of the paid ones. You can post pictures, search by area, age, etc. Good luck! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:15:57 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/are_there_any_older_unattached_men 26320 Not really, but if you're doing it so much you are too tired to do anything else or it's interfering with other activities, then you should probably try to cut back some. Or if you have a partner & still feel the need to "do it yourself" then you need to discuss the lack of satisfaction you are having in the relationship with them. Seek out professional help from a doctor or counselor if it has become a problem. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:11:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/masturbation_270 26318 Without knowing your age, it's hard to say for sure, but why don't you consider just asking them? rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 11:05:41 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_help 26317 You didn't mention your age, but if you are old enough, I'd suggest volunteering at a local vet's office. You'd be learning a lot, have a place to ask for advice, find out where different animals could be taken care of, etc. It could also help you decide if you will want to pursue this as a career & if you do, it will help you to have learned so much before you start the study courses. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 10:43:55 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/taking_care_of_stray_animals_but 26311 Sounds to me like she is in heat. I'd suggest having her spayed in case she gets out again. The constant meowing is usually to attract male cats that she may sense are in the area. Also some cats are just more "verbal" than others. If there is some Siamese in her background, then she is just "talking" to you! rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 10:36:27 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/noisy_cat_driving_me_up_the_wall 26306 Looks like a "caged animal" situation to me from the picture, somebody has to feed them or they will starve! Other than that, feeding wild animals causes them to become dependent on humans & is very dangerous..also messes with their hunting instincts & they could end up starving in the wild if someone isn't continuing to feed them. rumblechick Fri, 03 Nov 2006 10:26:21 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/isn_t_it_dangerous_to_feed_wild_cats 26303