http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/rav4kat en-us it doesnt really matter if people tease you abut being a tom boy but smtimz it goes out of hand and can b prtti mortifying so do dez things durin d summr vaction and suprise every1- 1.Have a bright personality, bubbly and happy. Don't giggle all the time, because people will find that really annoying. Instead, make other people laugh, and be really cute. Don't take yourself too seriously. 2.Be clean and neat. Being dirty and grubby has never been girly and never will be! Have clean waxed or tweezed eyebrows. Either get a professional to do them or do them yourself at home. Also have neat finger and toe nails. Have regular manicures and pedicures. Either get them done in a salon or do them at home. 3.Make your room more girly by having pink walls and bed spreads. If you can't paint your walls, then cover them in posters of all your fave celebs! 4.Stay lean and fit! Your supposed to eat junk food at a moderation anyways, so just eat healthier and get exersize. Drink half of your weight in ounces of water every day. Get 8-10 hours of sleep. Do workouts from your favorite magazine. Listen to some music for something interesting! 5.Wear some make-up! Make-up shouldn't be a chore, it should be fun! A slick of sheer lip gloss, mascara, bronzer and you're done. If your below age or your not allowed to put on make-up, dont worry! A dab of lip gloss and a few strokes of pink blush on your cheeks and that's it! 6.Have fun with your hair - straightened, curly or wavy if your going to wear it out. If you have naturally straight hair, then great! You can just leave it out how it is, or you can wave or curl it. If you have wavy hair, then you can leave it as is or straighten it..or you can make it more curly. If you have naturally curly hair, you can leave it as is, straighten it or make it wavy. You could also tie your hair up in a cute style - pony, bun, etc! You could add accessories like head bands and flowers - the styles are endless.You can also wear low bunchies or pigtails they look well cute and girly especailly if you have wavy or slightly cury hair. Most importantly, keep your hair clean and never use vilonce 7.Get girly clothes - skirts, cute shirts, accessories, jeans, cute shorts...anything pink is good. Make an effort to look around. When you first start coming out of your "comfort" zone you won't like anything and will keep saying, "No" to everything you see. Go to EVERY store you can. You might get tired of walking around, but just looking is a big step! Go with your friends who HAVE style or with somebody who has any style different then yours! Let them help you, but develop your own style and don't just copy theirs. 8.Wear jeans that fit. Don't wear low cut jeans if you don't feel comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you. Not tight, not baggy. A belt is ok, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands, styles, cuts and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy. If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble getting your shirt off of your back, then it's too tight. If your shirt is so big that you can pull it up and see your belly button then it's too big( nothing against belly button shirts)! Things like camisoles are supposed to fit tight. 9.Play sports - although everyone thinks sports are for boys, they can be girly - try cheerleading, dancing, and tennis! 10.Listen to music that is soft on the ears and is opitmistic. 11.Consider your fashion. Most girly-girls wear pink, sparkly, feminine, lacy/frilly, and neat clothing. Buy clothing that people would consider very girly. Skirts are also very popular for girls. 12.Choose a scent. Buy shampoos, body wash/lotion, shaving cream, deodorant, perfume, etc. that has girly scents. Some scents would include: flowers, roses, fruit (strawberries), etc. This also covers the subject of hygiene...You must be clean and smelling good. 13.Do daily beauty treatments, like self-tanning (2 times a week), face masks (1 or 2 times per week), deep conditioning (once a week), bubble baths, manicures (at least weekly). You can make a schedule to do everything. 14.Keep your teeth nice and white. There are several ways to get the perfect dazzling smile. If your teeth are crooked, don't shy away from braces. Just think of them as jewelry for your teeth! For whitening, you can either do it yourself at home with a store-bought product (such as crest white strips) or go to a dentist that also has expertise in the area of cosmetic dentistry to get them professionally whitened. 15.Be modest; this includes clothing AND personality. 16.Be neat and organized. This is a common trait shared among the feminine types. 17.Girliness is also associated with romance sometimes. Be sure to read/write romance novels and develop a keen interest in poetry. You can also make this your music style by listening to love songs. 18.Hang out with gal pals. Girls love the mall, shopping, and almost anything associated with beauty. Get a group of friends and have a shopping spree, makeovers, a sleepover, or any girl-related activity. 19.Accessorize. Don't forget the jewelry! Always have a nice pair of earrings at hand. 20.Earrings are a total must-have. Chandelier earrings are especially nice. Also, don't forget a purse! You MUST have a nice purse if nothing else! 21.Keep your nails and toenails polished in a stylish way. The most popular style is the "French manicure/pedicure." 22.Be slightly emotionally sensitive. 23.Be delicate and careful. This includes GOOD MANNERS and being POLITE at all times. 24.Always smile that beautiful smile. Remember every smile is beautiful. 25.Have confidence, but still remain modest. hope this works and remember dont change completely be yourself with just a lil more of girliness and hapiness! [edit] TipsTry not to worry what others think! Say more hi than hey. It's more girly. Never contemplate releasing any form of gas from your body in front of anyone under any circumstances. Don't ever allow a foul expletive to exit your mouth, it's not ladylike. Don't over do it. Don't bend over to pick something up. It's not ladylike and nobody likes having someone else's backside in their face. Remember, wear lots of pink! White works well with pink! Keep your grades as neat as your wardrobe. Follow Paris Hiltons and Samandas style and fun, bubbly personality. [edit] WarningsPeople might be jealous of you...try and ignore it. Be yourself, not someone else, that's never good. Rumors can happen when jealousy occurs. Try to be calm about it. Try simply saying you don't know the whole story. Be nice to all people. Remember: What goes around comes around Try to stay away from drama as much as you can and don't get so caught up with boys. People may think of you as a 'skank' or something. [edit] Things You'll NeedShiny lipglosses Cute, girly clothes girly accesories(head bands, necklaces, earrings, etc.) Make up(mascara, eyeliner, lipgloss, blush, eyeshadow, etc.) A pretty smile a cool handbag rav4kat Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:21:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/shaveing_7476 327148 I would be pretty angry I am havent we crossed the face of boys are god's gift and girl's devil's, but its still not your brother's fault I mean he's still a baby and moving to court is a good choice but even if you win the court case you have to take care of your brother no matter what but you still can get a job and earn your own money so you can supply yourself with some stuff I mean you still need to live right... rav4kat Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:44:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dad_left_everything_to_baby_brother 327097 use a good quality deo or perfume, mostly under arem prespiration is caused to unwanted hair so wax it out rav4kat Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:34:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_you_stop_your_underarms_from 327080 a fibre rich cereal,a cup of milk(or coffee,tea,etc),toast(brown bread) and an orang are perfect 2 get you through out d day awak most of d time rav4kat Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:31:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/easy_healthy_breakfast 327075 your mom didnt do anything right to you anht to be angry at you and I think what your d you have all right to be angry with her but I think your mom need phychatric treatment. you should console a doctor and maybe go into rehab, I think you should go find a job and keep away from your mom for sometime.if you are below 18 you will have to be sent to a house but I am sure you are 18 sp you can get a job and stay at your place. even though your mom maybe angry at what you after she gets better she'll understand why you did it another option is going to college, just work hard there and you wont be in your mom's company and your just securing your own future rav4kat Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:16:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_i_do_in_this_position 327055 one thing about stage fright is that it can be the worst experience but in the ned you have a lot of things with you, for example a diva style and some great memories but one way of solving stage fright is concuring your fears and that means kareoke night...ok everyone knows its difficult especially your first time so lets start with people who have no chance of laughing at you like your parents, 1. get a kareoke machine or practise a dance or whatever you want to do and how much ever you have done completely perform it in front of your parents wait for their comments and they have to be good but incase they are not dont stop over to your room note it down in your head and make sure you dont make that mistake again. 2.if you think you have practised in front in enough wth your parents or are simply not having dont worry there's an other option, gather some friends who like the same hobby as you and practise it with them you will have no chance to drop out and just imagine the amount of gossip you'll be missing without. 3.if your prepared after parctising hard enought by point 1. or 2. then lets get on stage and not alone with your buds or your parent(but make sure they are good!) or siblings or relatives...anyone but not alone your not that ready yet but in a group you'll feel that you have someone to depend on even if you do something wrong which is not possible with all that practise. 4.ok so its time to go solo and for good maybe not in a dance cause they look better in a group but something, dont let a couple of people race you away fom your goal but if your still scared I am sure your parent will be there and after performing in front of them so much your comfortable so keeping your eyes focused on them and not on anybody else act as if there are only you and that special person and then everything will be perfect and you'll get over your stage fright but always remember nobody's perfect cause we'r in a world of imperfection so if you make a mistake put it in your scrap book and the next time you look at it try laughing it'll help a lot... rav4kat Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:18:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_are_some_ways_to_help_stage 322115