http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/queenatnineteen en-us first, did you have unprotected sex? If you did this can be implantation bleeding, which is scanty and usually pink or brownish discharge. SO it is totally different from a regular period. dont freak out, a test is always the way to go. queenatnineteen Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:32:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_pregnant_275 313907 as a teen myself, I would have to say going through her things especally READING HER DIARY, is not the best thing to do. I had my mom do this same things to me. she read my diary, my notes from friends, looked through all my dressers, and even tried to listen in on my phone conversations. Its not cool and all, I lost myself completely. WHy cant you just talk to your daughter? For you to be an adult, snooping through all her stuff is really immature. It doesnt matter that shes your daughter, she deserves privacy. My diary was something sacret, after my mom read it...It felt useless to me. It was no longer the only one who new my deepest thoughts. I dont understand why parents cant just talk to their children anymore...It isnt THAT hard. it is also kind of pathetic that a parent would rather snoop through their childrens PERSONAL things than to just sit and talk. queenatnineteen Wed, 16 Apr 2008 00:22:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_know_if_my_teen_daughter 313902 thank you...also..do yall think that I should tell my boyfriend about my concerns? I dont want to scare him because I know he isnt ready for kids..weve been together for 4 and a half years and frankly, im not ready either. im so afraid, mostly because I always promised myself to never have an abortion...but if I am pregnant...I seriously dont know what to do.. im in college. queenatnineteen Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:14:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/so_confused_54708 285572