http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/qerlinn Im a good hearted female en-us no,you are not a cheat just a good friend,if you have a couch or somewhere for sleepover friends to sleep besides your bed,that would be more safer for your concious.best wishes. qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:38:58 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hi_279 8135 forget about about the guy,to much stress!you need to focus on family,school,at this time,if you dont have someone to talk to at home maybe a aunt,older cousin.counsellor at school.you need a shoulder to lean on and some guidance,boys will always be there,so work on your family realationship,school is so important,and far as your friend,he has to much going on to be worried about your issues,give him his space,so you can take care of yourself,best wishes. qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:33:45 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_255 8134 well ever female is diffrent,I prefer circumcised male,and for the most of the time a female doesnt care,she is more concerned about how you respect,love her and how you please her sexaully,best wishes qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:25:47 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_worried 8133 well you should give the guy a break,aslso keep your bf interest and he wont think about the ex chick,be fun,sexy,adventure etc,and making it a nice vacation for both of you by getting rid of your jealousy/concerns.even thuogh you the room may not be as nice,the time spent in your room should be extra nice,make wonderful memories,have confidence in yourself and your realationship.best wishes. qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:19:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/jealous_of_ex_and_vacations 8132 you need to let your family know what happened to you a.s.a.p.also let your husband know also,hes been patient with you so he need to know what happened to his wife.police should be notified also,that was terrible what he did to you.please tell on him.he will do it again to someone elese.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:11:30 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_husband_and_i 8131 well sounds like you have symptoms of depression.which is an iilness there are many web sites for info on the symptoms and cures,just type in depression information.many like millions suffer with depression,like myself.please get help so the suffering can end.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:05:43 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/just_sad 8130 well either the guy friend likes you more than you know,or he might know something about his best friend that may not be good for you to hang out with him alone,or maybe he likes the best friend more than you know.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 22:01:15 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guy_friend_doesnt_want_me_hanging 8129 Hi,im in the same situation as you and i do not let the witch get to me!misery loves company,i thought about talking to her but every one said no because she is jealous,immature,controlling etc,and that she wont change.i beleive i am the most decent girlfriend he has ever had.you would think the witch would be happy for him.my bf told me himself that she and his sister was jealous of me.so on valentines she called me and told me im not welcomed at her house anylonger!i was like thats cool!my bf is suffering with brain cancer and is staying with the witch so thats hard for us.i dont trip on him about telling his mom to chill out because he doesnt need the stress due to the cancer,i know that hurt him when she told him what she did to me.well is there anyway you and your bf can get a apartment toghether?because as long as he lives with her your going to have problems,also i think its your boyfriends place to talk his mom about her descion about you,also dont let know get between your love.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 17 Feb 2006 21:57:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/difficult_boyfriend_s_mother_help 8128 let it go,as long as you know in your heart that you are sorry,plus you both have moved on,but if you ever run across her physically do apoligize. qerlinn Wed, 15 Feb 2006 00:16:32 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_too_late_to_say_you_re_sorry 8006 IM SORRY HES TO BLIND TO SEE A GOOD PERSON,HE NEEDS TO BE DUMPED,HE IS NOT RESPECTING YOUR FEELINGS,HES NOT MAKING YOU A PRIORITY,HES DISRESPECTFUL TOWARDS YOU ALSO,BASICALLY HES NOT GIVING YOU WHAT YOU NEED AND WANT!GET YOURSELF OUT OF THIS ONE SIDED REALATIONSHIP AND WORKING ON FINDING YOUR TRUE MATCH,BEST WISHES qerlinn Wed, 15 Feb 2006 00:09:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/mr_wrong 8005 well if you guys were broken up for a week then you didnt cheat,but it was a lttle quick to date someone else after you guys broke up for a week,but you are inocent,your bf is trying to hold that over your head tell hin to let it go! qerlinn Mon, 06 Feb 2006 00:47:24 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_thinks_i_cheated_on 7671 you need to tell her face to face about how you feel,and let her know you will never inntentially hurt her. qerlinn Mon, 06 Feb 2006 00:43:16 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_going_anywhere 7670 its called feelings,he has feelings for you that is why he gets a scowl on his face when you flirt with other guys. qerlinn Mon, 06 Feb 2006 00:41:02 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/jealous_guy_friend 7669 tell another adult asap about jamies suicidal thoughts.tell anyone who will take it seriously,jamie needs help quit.its to bad parents can be ass wipes sometimes,best wishes qerlinn Mon, 06 Feb 2006 00:37:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/crap 7668 well,just wait untill you are 18,that will give you time know if you like him,and he is a bit older than you,so he has more experience than you likely,also it can become dangerous when your teasing guys sexually.best wishes qerlinn Mon, 06 Feb 2006 00:31:59 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_age_make_a_difference 7666 well tell your gf you guys need to be friends and that the long distance thing is hard on you,just be honest,and tell her you will still be a good friend to her.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 03 Feb 2006 11:36:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girlfriend_yay_or_nay 7591 i think you should follow your heart,geeks need love to.and dont you ever say you are ugly!learn to love you yourself,no one is perfect,and we all have something to offer to mankind,best wishes qerlinn Fri, 03 Feb 2006 11:32:23 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_follow_my_heart_or_my_head 7590 It definetly looks like he has strong feelings for her,i think its disrespectful to you.i think it would of been a little better if he or they had contact once a month,but everyday!i think if you told him not to e-mail her he would still do it behind your back,well i suggest you talk with him and tell him how his behavoir is hurting you deeply,and he needs to choose between you ladys,i think if the cuba chick was in you guys town he would be going out with her,im sorry for your pain,and its totally unfair to you.maybe its time for you to find someone to love you,and only you.best wishes qerlinn Fri, 03 Feb 2006 11:26:58 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_might_still_love_his 7589 have you figured out what made your feelings for him fade yet?because maybe he can work on thoose things that made you loose love feelings for him?if you have come to your final answer(breaking up)then meet with him and tell him the truth about how you feel about the realationship,he deserves honesty let him know you want to be platonic friends again,please respect his feelings,reputation.best wishes and keep us posted. qerlinn Fri, 03 Feb 2006 11:15:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/be_friends_after_breakup 7588 hello,i agree you should see a proffesional a.s.a.p,and tell themm all of your symtoms.best wishes qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 23:19:56 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pains 7571 Hi,yeah i think you did the correct thing,it took alot of courage for you to put it on the table like that.i bet that messed her up in the brain in a good way.well give her a little time to shake the rebound loser guy,also i hope you too have remembered what caused the brake up so that it wont happen again,i believe you to belong together,and never give up on your true love because its so rare and precious,best wishes qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 23:17:26 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_would_the_girl_of_my_dreams 7570 Yeah,dont be cocky,respect and kindness goes a long way with females and just be you,dont come on strong with the feelings,also listen to her females really like when males lisyen to us.best wishes qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 22:53:44 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_impress_her 7568 She has to be the one to believe she is beautiful,but you are doing the right things like complimenting her,encouraging her etc,you are a loving boyfriend keep reassuring her,and never critize her,just love her,also get her to get her hair done ,pamper herself,get her books about building up self esteem,and helping other people builds your self esteem up,also she is not alone alot of people suffer with low esteem,best wishes qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 22:48:56 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girl_has_a_self_esteem_problem 7565 i guess it depends on what you said,apparently your words really hurt him,well catch him by himself and apoligize(if you really mean it)and tell him you would like for the realationship to continue because you love him and miss his precence in your life,and if he needs time to think about it you are willing to wait,best wishes qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 22:39:36 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_our_relationship_over 7564 hi,eventually your best friend is going to have to get over her crush with your man,but in the meantime make plans for you and your man to be alone,and without your best friend,thats really considerate of you to think about your friends feelings,you are a good friend,and best wishes with your bf. qerlinn Thu, 02 Feb 2006 22:32:59 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_kiss_bf_w_o_my_best_friend 7561