http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/pleaselisten en-us YES! There is something wrong with a guy if he can't get a girl his own age and has to go after the young ones!!! RUUUNNN!!! pleaselisten Mon, 08 Oct 2007 15:41:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_age_matter_965 109631 Stand out from everyone else and WAIT!!! Wait until you are truly ready. Your mind grows and changes and you won't even know who you truly are until you are in your mid to late 20's. I wish I would have waited for marriage. I am 26 and I have only been with two people. I am the only one my husband has been with because he wanted to wait until the right one came along (We started dating when he was 21 and married when he was 22, he's 30 now). But he is an exceptional person and I am so lucky to have him. I just wish I would have been strong like him and not pressured into something that I really wasn't ready for. pleaselisten Mon, 08 Oct 2007 14:31:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/virginity_losses 109579 You need to tell her as soon as possible. She will be mad because she knows what you are about to go through and trust me, you can't imagine how much you are about to go through. Your life is about to become very, very hard. Trust me, I know! But this isn't about me. You may want to think about adoption. But if you truly feel like you can provide this baby with the life it deserves then you can only make that call. Being a young, single mother is hard and scary. When your baby isn't feeling well and won't stop screaming and you've had very little sleep you will start to feel like you might lose it. You will never be able to go and do what you want because your life will revolve around your baby. It's not going to be fun and perfect like you are probably imagining it. At times you will feel like a horrible mother and then you will wish you could turn back time and had made better choices. Babies are a wonderful blessing, but you need to be ready to receive that blessing or you won't see being a mother as a positive thing. Good luck, I wish you and your baby the best! pleaselisten Sun, 07 Oct 2007 15:50:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_125 108957