http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/piker187 My names bobby, just turned 21 yrs old and work as a security guard. I bombed out of college my 3rd semester and have no ambition to go back. I like to drink a lot, favorite liquor is Vodka, and favorite beer is Bud. I have the best family and friends anyone could ask for. I drive around in a 95 dodge neon, piece of sh*t. . Dream car is a Honda prelude, post 92 model. And i guess i can't complain about life even though i do. en-us I have my moments, but for the most part not really. the only thing thats gets me is how lucky I've been. it really does seem like something or someone has been watching out for me. just because of the close calls I've had and made it through. just the tinyest coincidence would happen, and it would seriously save my life. happend several times. piker187 Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:40:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_athiests_ever_have_thoughts_about 432857 if he flirts with your friend too its obvious that even if he does like you, he doesn't care about you that much. a guy can like you, but what does it matter when he flirsts with everyone else too, relationship would be dooomed before it even started, just my opinion. piker187 Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:16:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/damn_i_wanna_kno_if_he_likes_me_or 432825 violence, greed, and manipulation. those are the 3 biggest ones that makes our world what it is today piker187 Fri, 18 Jul 2008 11:59:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/humans_72625 432795 im just f*ckin with ya piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:43:29 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_youre_joking_around_what_do 431146 lol, right up my alley. it doesn't matter what you do. you say no, your going to get a boyfriend at somepoint and he'll stop coming around. or he'll still come around but be mad about it. its a loose loose situation unless you go for it. even guys can't control the emotions they have for women, and it just gets worse if you stay friends. I've been through it, and I wish I would have told that b*tch at 16 that our friendship was over. I sucked it up, but im pretty sure she f*cked my head up a little, lol piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:41:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/best_friends_97499 431142 wow, im the godfather to my friends child, and nobody believes that we've never fooled around. its just one of those strange relationships that people who have not experience it will never understand. because it seriously is odd, but thats just how it works out sometimes. your friend sounds just like me, he must be one cool guy, lol piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:28:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/are_they_reading_to_much_into_it_192243 431124 ok, I had a really bad experience with that sh*t. it seriously depends on how much you like her, how much she likes you. and how strong you are, most people would have blown their own heads off if they went through what I did. being just friends with a girl you like or possibly love is almost impossible. unless your an emotional rock, which is what I though I was, but it will get to you. who you think she's going to talk to about her boyfriends that treat her like sh*t. it just depends on how much you like her piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:15:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_two_friends_who_like_each_other 431098 all our f*ckin rights are starting to dissapear. the government just takes em away so slowley that they think the people won't notice, and guess what, they don't. but freedom of speech is the hardest one to take away, true it is restricted. but I wouldn't say its dissapearing because if you need to use it, its still there and you can get the job done with it. unless you have examples of instances that I don't know of. piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 11:29:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_think_free_speech_in_america 430904 lol, don't jock? what the hell is that. and no problem, I apologise, know this though. I was tossed over a fence once by one of the guards, lol. and im sure a bunch of teeny boppers will piss them off real quick, lol piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 11:12:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_we_give_me_some_advice 430876 lol, dam have some self control girl, they suck piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:56:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_we_give_me_some_advice 430849 im sorry to hear that. you say your in college right, there are quite a few options to get the hell out of there. your almost 18, your an adult now. you shouldn't have to put up with any of that sh*t. its not expensive at all to get your own place with some friends, or even just other girls you don't know but need a roommate. I don't know your financial situation but a student loan and a part time job would take care of all the bills if your splitting it 3 way's. because your situation is extremely unhealthy for you, if no one else will help you you must help yourself. as I said, your an adult now, you can't expect a housing officer or anyone for that matter to help you out if you choose not to go to the police. and I don't know if you have a boyfriend but if you do look intto getting a place with him, if not, find a good boyfriend, im not trying to sound like a d*ck im just laying out some options. I moved right out at 18 to go to college with no help from my parents, just a part time job and two friends. I am sorry to hear about your situation, no one should have to go through that. if you want to talk just send me a funmail. im a good listener, you'd be suprised. piker187 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:17:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/need_someone_to_listen_and_help 430782 first job was Mcdonalds, its good just to get out there and actually learn what the working world is like. its more of a b*tch than you think. most jobs suck, where I work now I actually don't mind it. piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:52:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/good_job_for_the_first_time 429313 its wierd but the healthiest relationships I've seen argue a lot. I don't get it but its what I've seen. piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:23:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/let_s_quit_arguing 429245 probably piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:17:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/doea_he_like_me 429231 lol, not bad piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 12:10:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/earthquakes_on_mars 429100 I seriously can't control my drinking, its insane. its been a couple weeks since I went a day without alcohol. just turned 21 too so that doesn't help. but I've been drinking since about 13 every weekend. but recently its just been overkill, I just can't have a few, it turns into 10 real quick. I've been on this path of self destruction my whole life, and I just don't give a sh*t. I know it will be the death of me, my friends encourage it and its a part of our way of life. I drank probably a whole 30 rack myself last Saturday, you know what my friends say, good work. last night I went to the bars after drinking a couple 40oz's, I have to wake up at 7:45am to start getting ready for work. needless to say I was late, and that happens a lot. its out of my control. 2 weeks ago went to the bar for the first time, don't remember how I got home. second time this last weekend, I had to have an arm around each of my friends as they dragged me home. woke up with cuts all over me, and thats seriously normal to me. you guys just couldn't believe the amount of alcohol I can consume, its insane. and its f*cked up because im proud of that. all my friends are. the next day I don't know if I was going through withdrawls or what, but I thought my hart was about to explode. so I drank a couple to calm me down, I was f*ckin scared. and I still got wasted last night. I really don't know why I do it, all I know is that im not going to stop and I just don't care. f*ck it, thats my policy for most sh*t. I need to change my view on life, I've alway's figured I'd die young, so why not have the most fun I can while I can. piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 12:04:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/affected_by_alcohol_you_parents_friends 429090 lol, im at work right now piker187 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 11:21:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bored_at_work 429045 denial of the inevitable piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:15:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_does_it_mean_to_u_to_be_a_christian 427316 ha ha, RISK, the game of global domination piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:25:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_s_your_favorite_board_game_game 427213 I though it was pretty good piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:15:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/almost_famous_movie 427200 na its easy, once you work at one store you know how everything works. they'd have to be pretty stupid for it to be an inside job, lol. but all I have to say is we're going to be seeing a lot more of that in the future. get ready for all hell to break loose piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:05:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/7_000_worth_of_gas 427184 I have the 360, I love it. but I have to admit a lot of people complain about em. mine has given me quite a few problems but it still works. havn't really heard anything bad for the ps3 except for the fact that there's more games out for the 360. but the ps3 is more expensive too. I'd go for the 360, more people have it for the online play piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:58:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/whats_better_xbox_360_or_ps3 427172 for 20 bucks you can't really go wrong. im pretty sure they have a link cable so that you can play a few games with friends in the same room, but not all. an no, can't get on the wi. for 20 bucks though it doesn't matter. I might go pick one up now, lol piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:53:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/game_boy_advance_questions 427163 to late now, the troops are on the way, lol. and im joking too, or am I piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:49:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_are_americans_all_fat 427158 ya well this fatty country could take Ireland over in a week, lol. you think im kidding. we'll do it piker187 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:46:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_are_americans_all_fat 427150