http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/paola31 i found this site very interesting... joined to learn more from people and ask questions.. :) en-us i agree with locoluna dont be his doormat.. i know u love him and its going to be hard letting him go because you guys have been together for soo long and u guys know each other like the back of ur hand but DONT DO IT... he is trying to use u and trying to have sex with 2 gurl.. thats nasty.. dont u think of it?? hes doing in a another gurl and then going in u.. no dont do it gurl.. u r wayyy better than that.. i would find myself another man that loves me and my kids f*ck that liar.. thats what he is a liar to u and to his gf.. hope thats good 4 u paola31 Wed, 15 Aug 2007 12:55:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_627 85239 ok gurly heres my point of view... this is you body is ur responsability and is ur and ur boyfriends baby.. to have an abortion u r the 1 who has to sign the papers to have it without sighing the papers u dont have to have an abortion.. so dont worry.. just sit down and tell ur dad that u want the baby and their is nothing and no 1 that could stop u from that... u have to know what big of a responsability it is to have a baby and your boyfriends has to know 2.. the only 1 that has to agree of having that baby is u... and if ur dad is so vilent and tell u that hes going to kill the father tel him that that will cause ur baby not to have a father and that that is going to be worse on the baby and u.. good luck gurl take care and go get checked. paola31 Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:38:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_dad_doesnt_want_me_having_the 85174 well the first time i got fingered it did hurt a lil bit because i was still a virgin so yes it did fel kinda like a tac.. well i will sudjest to use more lub or to have him go down on u and leave it real wet.. lol and yes sex does hur the first time.. it hurts for only a couple of minutes untill ur vigina opens up to the size of his penis..the first time at the beginig is going to hurt and the second time a lil too.. but is not pain u cant take u just fell a lot of pressure.. soo i hope that helps u.. take care gurly.. always use protection remmember.. :) paola31 Mon, 13 Aug 2007 10:09:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fingering_and_sex 83960 well in my case i had a boyfriend that had a really big penises and i had nooo pleasure at all because it hurted me.. so when i had sex it wasnt fun at all i was in pain most of the time.. so i think that a big penises is the answer to good sex i think average size is fine and they just gotta know how to work with it.. :) lol hope that was helpfull ;) paola31 Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:56:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/superb_question 83956 no their is nooo way.. wait did u F*ck a dog or something if u did wow that nasty.. :( paola31 Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:52:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnant_1084 83954 yes u probably r.. thats how i felt when i was pregnet.. i felt dissy my nipples hurted.. somethings that i loved tasted different i smelled everything like 20 times more.. i felt soo tiard all the time..i wanted to puke in the morning just from smelling tooth paste.. uhhh horible.. my cat smelled like bacon.. lol but yeah i think u should go to the doctor and check it out or get a test from a drug store..:) good luck gurl..;) paola31 Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:50:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnancy_2528 83953 hey gurl.. well i had the same problem as u.. when i was seven teen i had a boyfriend that was 23 we r still together but the thing is that im 18 now.. :) well this is what i did... i waited untill i turned 18 to move out with my boyfriend.. at the beggining i didnt do it because he could of gone to jail because hes older than 21 so he could go to jail and ur parents have the right to press charges and win the case easy and simple.. They will lock him up i think is for 5 years.. i already looked up all the info because i was worried just like u.. i will tell u if u take any pictures make sure ur parents dont see them any proof that they could use against u hide it because for sure then he will get in big trouble.. well in the appartment thing i will sudjest to get a job and try to see if they do let u rent in but i dont think so i think the legal age to have ur own place here is 18.. or u can work and tell ur bf to put it under his name and u just give him the money.. both of u guys should be paying for that appartment.. but n-e ways if u need any more advise hit me up.. hope everything goes good. take care.. paola paola31 Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:37:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_a_minor_move_out_at_17 83946