http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/overcast_melody en-us you did NOTHING wrong. of course, i don't know the guy, but if he's as high maintenance as he sounds, it can't be a fun relationship for you. he can't expect you to be his slave. if he is going to get this upset about something so little how would he handle a more serious situation? marriage is full of compromise and there are always problems and if he can't handle THAT then how can he possibly handle marriage? i don't know what you should do but if this is a frequent thing, it wouldn't be worth it to me to stay in a relationship like that. hope everything goes okay! overcast_melody Tue, 13 Dec 2005 17:38:08 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/did_i_do_wrong 5891 oh by the way, my doctor has told me that if you miss one it could potentially be a risk for a month, but that might depend on the type of birth control pill you are taking overcast_melody Tue, 13 Dec 2005 17:33:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bushqueta 5890 i've made the same mistake. luckily, it worked out fine for me. there is always that chance though so next time you are supposed to get your period and don't or if you notice any of the symptoms that can indicate pregnancy, buy an at home test. i'm sure everything will be fine. :) good luck!! overcast_melody Tue, 13 Dec 2005 17:32:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bushqueta 5889 mymissy, did you notice the last followup i posted? i said i was SORRY and that i didn't mean to come across the wrong way. please don't call me hun, i find it insulting. i do, however, thank you for caring enough to comment in support of this site. honestly, i think when i posted that question it had just been a bad day and some questions on here DO verge on the ridiculous. forgive me for my opinion. overcast_melody Tue, 13 Dec 2005 17:28:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fake 5888 wow what a horrible situation. im so sorry. i have to tell you, i know it IS possible to be in love at 15, i was. you're probably right, you probably won't get back together with him, and it's probably not a good idea to try to force or pressure him; he wouldn't be happy and that would make YOU unhappy too. have you talked to him and asked if he would help you out even if he didn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore? are you keeping the baby? have you considered giving it up for adoption? (i'm sure you've considered it) but it might be different now that you're pretty sure he won't be coming around much... overcast_melody Sat, 26 Nov 2005 12:01:52 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/confused_778 5412 Thanks sikashimmer. I do eat a lot of soy products. After talking to the nutritionist I'm trying some different supplements to see if the ones i was taking were not agreeing with me and if that doesn't work she has a few other ideas. One thing she said was that I could possibly be gluten intollerant; allergic to wheat... so hopefully that's not it! Thanks though overcast_melody Sat, 26 Nov 2005 11:56:02 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stomach_problems 5411 Oh I completely agree. I think that this website is important for people. And I do think that people should respond seriously to the questions... it was just kind of a comment after reading some pretty ridiculous questions... I didn't mean for this to come across the wrong way. I also think though that people posting questions should take this seriously, and I'm just not sure if some people are.. that's all. Sorry. overcast_melody Sat, 26 Nov 2005 11:53:54 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fake 5410 thats a sad situation. i think in your case you should talk to a professional of some kind, explain the situation, im sure there is something that can me done to help you. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 21:23:52 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/he_is_not_intrested_in_sex_anymore 5352 i agree, this does sound kind of fake for a number of reasons. the way you were writing sounds like you're 12, not 18. and if you're 18 then you're kind of young to be pregnant. also, if you really had "cervix cancer" you probably would have said cervical cancer and not cervix cancer, because that would be the correct wording of it. and, typically cervical cancer has no effect on a pregnancy - unless of course you have had it for about 2 years with no treatment or if treatment failed. AND it would be a different situation if you two were married, then i could see choosing a baby over your own life, but sweetheart you aren't even married to the guy. it would, in this case, be more rational to choose your life and wait until you are married to try having another baby. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 21:18:57 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_love_or_not 5351 how old are you? if you aren't even in middle school, you don't need to be making out with anyone. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 19:05:56 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_you_make_out_365 5349 im not sure there's much you can do. just try to be supportive of your sister. if she asks your opinion, give it to her, but if not just try to be there for her. listen if she needs to talk, that kind of thing overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 19:03:09 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_worried_about_my_sister_s_boyfriend 5348 i'm a senior this year and i still have no idea what i want to be! don't worry it's normal. i have friends in college who still don't know. just choose a college based on what you like (what you know you like so far) and as long as you choose a pretty general kind of college you will figure it out through the classes you take. when it comes to helping people with problems- are you interested in psychology or counselling? if your high school offers a psychology class you should consider taking it. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 19:00:51 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/no_idea_what_to_do_after_high_school 5347 how old are you? i'm a senior this year and one thing i can tell you is that everyone wants to fit in around middle school and early high school. that's just how it is. evenutally you will figure out that fitting in isn't want will tell you who you are. i know i have changed a LOT since freshman year. don't worry too much, you will figure it out. just give it some time. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 18:57:38 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_a_real_diffrent_person 5346 I have gone to doctors. My normal doctor had no idea after pepcid didn't work. i saw a gastroenterologist who wanted to put me to sleep and put a scope down my esophagus right off the bat so i didn't like that... i just saw a nutritionist on friday and she had a few ideas, but i was curious as to whether anyone else had ideas. overcast_melody Tue, 22 Nov 2005 18:33:47 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stomach_problems 5344 Have you talked to him about it, i mean REALLY talked to him? and asked him all of the same things you asked here? because that is what i would reccommend. overcast_melody Sat, 19 Nov 2005 02:48:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_please_i_beg_of_u 5257