http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/nicksy Hey everyone! by the way... im the short 1 in the pic hehe! As u can see my name is Nicole and i love animals. My passion, hobby and sport is horse riding hehe. I enjoy having a good time and going out partying. Im always ready to help people with their problems, i always have an answer hehe im a sensitive person and depend my decisions a lot on my feelings, even when i shouldnt but sometimes i do listen to what's right rather then what i want. i can be hard-headed at times but i can compromise and admit that im wrong when i should say i am. anyway thats enough about me, take care now XoxoXoxoXoxoXoxoXoxoXoxoX en-us tell ur mum to buy the big house and go live with her, but first try and talk a lil wit ur dad. try and get him to let out wat he's feeling. stress is a lot worse wen u dont release it. try and get ur dad to tell u wats wrong. talk to him wen he's calm and let him know that u want to help him. also reassure him that u'll love him for who he is, for example wen u finish talkin wit him always tell him "love u dad" remember it could be the last thing u'd say to him... God forbid anythin bad happens to him. well to wrap it up, go live wit ur mum but help ur dad first. no matter wat u'll always be his first and little girl, even if ur 56 he'll still love u like u wer a month old. take care now and good luck nicksy xoxoxox nicksy Sun, 25 Jun 2006 15:01:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_cant_make_a_choice_on_my_dad_or 15253 get a trim on the ends, use a good quality shampoo and conditioner and really rub ur hair well wen u use the shampoo and conditioner. u can always just shampoo ur hair, then towel dry it and use a leave in conditioner. nicksy Thu, 01 Jun 2006 06:50:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dry_looking_hair 14165 well apparently if u use different products then they deff wont go cos u start to irritate ur skin and u start to mix all the different chemicals in the products. secondly u have to keep ur skin with a daily cleanser, toner and moisturiser and those pore strips dont rly work unless u do them properly.. read the instructions carefully nicksy Thu, 01 Jun 2006 06:47:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/black_heads 14164 sweety its just that u like the attention he gives u. us girls are babies but guys r even bigger babies lol he didnt have a right to be jealous cos after all its ur life and being the best friend he calls himself to be should be happy for u. us girls love attention and none of us can deny it hehe u just felt like all of a sudden he stopped givin u attention thats all. technically u r kinda jealous not cos of the girl that he's with but she gives him a lot of attention which makes him give it to her back so that way he's kinda leavin u out. if she starts pulling him away, tell her "if u love him then u should trust him cos there is no relation without trust so if ur gettin jealous cos i talk to him then that means u dont trust him" nicksy Sat, 27 May 2006 08:33:02 -0700 13836 whenever u get a moment wit him, reach out for that moment and kiss him! dont let that second thought cross ur mind, just kiss him. even if u do get other moments and u didnt kiss him on that particular moment, the feeling wont be the same and u'd feel a little bit disappointed that u didnt take that chance when u had it. nicksy Sat, 27 May 2006 08:07:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_get_him_to_kiss_me 13834 ok first of all how old are you?? second of all, do you have many friends? trust me you arent depressed. tests like that are jack shit! those tests only come negative so that u'd go to a psychologist... all for money! I asked if you have friends because friends give you attention. calling urself ugly and hating urself is just being selfish, its a way of getting attention from every1. thirdly you should open up and say wats going on in your life. if your 1 of those people that is asked for advice, your probably taking your friends problems and making them your own. well you shouldnt! you shouldnt carry them on your back, you should put them under your arms so when your tired you can put them down for a minute and then pick them up again. if your a woman, it could just be your hormones or period. what you call a "depression" could just be stress and tension. people who are depressed dont know that they are depressed. sounds stupid but true. the worst you can do is keep on saying to urself "im depressed, im depressed" otherwise you will end up depressed! your mind is like a computer, if you dont want to feel like this then you wont, thats a sign that your just doing this for attention. but your doing this unintentionally, meaning your doing it without even knowing you r. hope this helped and hope your not just being selfish and pittying urself. yours truely nicksy xoxox nicksy Sat, 06 May 2006 07:43:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_depressed 12768 first of all, to pursue means to follow...meaning run after u, not in the literal sense of course hehe well because he mentioned u to his friend, doesnt mean that ryan likes u for surely but he could be best friends with this friend of his and so he probably tells him everythin (dont mean to burst ur bubble there). i'd say give it more time, he could be going through rough times and a gf is the last thing on his mind probably. dont keep on trying to get to him, let him come to u. dont keep on giving urself into him cos he's gonna take u for granted in the end and he's see u as an easy-to-get-wit girl... get me?? u said that his friend asked u if u like ryan right??....well technically that is another sign that this ryan guy probably is interested in you. give it some more time and hope for the best. if things dont go ur way.... its a sign that there's some1 better for you ;) yours sincerely nicksy xoxox nicksy Fri, 05 May 2006 17:39:34 -0700 12751 a disadvantage about belly button piercings is that wen ur pregnant, the area around the ring will stretch :S and (sometimes) even if u take care of it well, it can still have other reactions such as inflamation, depends how sensitive ur skin is. nicksy Fri, 05 May 2006 13:35:10 -0700 12734 even if u decide to lose 2 pounds, dont lose it cos u dont want ppl to look at u differently. first of all how u look is non of their business and its ur body anyway. secondly u shouldnt care about wat other ppl think (some are hipocrates) and thirdly u should look good for urself and for no1 else so as to be proud of urself nicksy Fri, 05 May 2006 12:20:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/weight_problem 12730 Dont give her what she wants, u are only making her think that she is gonna get more and more of what she wants if u keep on giving in to her. dont be afraid of her, just let her say what she wants cos she has no clue about what she's saying. one day soon she'll realise that she was just being a little b***h nicksy Fri, 05 May 2006 11:18:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_daughter_hates_me 12723 i had the same problem as you once... and i know exactly how you feel. i dont want to tell you you're wrong but going to your aunt's house was not a good idea. that is somewhat running away from the problem. keep in mind your mum might be having problems of her own. i didnt realise until today that some of the things i do really worry my mum, thats why she used to end up screaming at me... not cos she wanted to scold me but because she cared and was just angry. being the only person close to her (physically) she will take her anger out on you straight away which isnt correct becos you are her daughter and she should control her temper. try and talk to your mum, tell her you are sick of this (i advise you to take your aunt along with you so you have someone to support you). if she wont listen, then consult a councellor. nicksy Thu, 04 May 2006 10:43:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_mom_says_i_did_it_to_start_an 12631 another good exercise would be going up 1 step and going back down for quite a while with some speed in it nicksy Thu, 27 Apr 2006 11:38:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_other_activity_could_i_do_o 12264 U shouldnt dye your hair every minute! u should have left at lease 8 weeks before redying it. to help ur hair become healthier, use special products to rinse out the dye and to repair dry hair. TresSemme is a good product. Also get a hair cut to remove the ends and every so often trim ur hair so that u'd slowly slowly be removing the dry hair as healthier hair starts to grow. best i can do, take care and dont dye ur hair at least be4 8 weeks every time u dye it nicksy Wed, 26 Apr 2006 09:59:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bleeched_my_hair_way_too_many_times 12189