http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/nekta Fun , outgoing, responsible sometimes, and all the rest...... en-us Your hair obviously has a red base to it, so you probably won't be able to completeley bleach it all out. The idea is to bleach it untill you get it close to blonde, then use a toner (ash blonde colour), which will cover the orange and give you the desired effect. nekta Tue, 10 Jul 2007 21:40:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bleaching_hair 69793 There are gay bars, clubs, social groups, web dating sites. You live in the states, there is probably a gay newspaper that circulates in your city? nekta Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:04:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/find_gay 47748 If you're gay, there is nothing you can do to stop it, the ony thing you can do is accept it. If you're not gay, then there is nothing you can do to make yourself gay, so again you don't have a problem. So, I would suggest going with your instincts, your gut feeling, your sexual interests, and that way you will be able to find the real you. Don't be scarred to experiment, or you'll never be sure of who you are. nekta Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:00:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/gay_problems 47747 You can't do anything to win a guy's heart. The only thing you can do is be yourself, and then a guy may fall for the person that you are. Just be you, that's the secret. nekta Fri, 13 Apr 2007 20:54:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_help_me_on_this_guys_please 47745 It seems like she's interested, but you can never be sure. Do you want to go, or go out with her? If yes, then go. What have you got to loose? I think go to the zoo and then play tennis too. nekta Fri, 13 Apr 2007 20:49:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/art_class_girl_bella 47744 Hey, tat's can be cool, and you too look cool together to, so I think go for it! nekta Tue, 10 Apr 2007 23:30:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/tatooing_ur_husbands_wife_name_on 46966 I think you have grounds to be worried. If it were a jacket or a beanie I wouldn't be worried, but a ring's a ring. I believe it symbolises something more between couples. So if he's wearing the one his ex got him, I'd make an issue of it too. nekta Tue, 10 Apr 2007 21:54:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_be_worried 46944 I spent 5 years in a relationship, which came to an end, pretty much without any sex, And I thougth the same, I though sex wasn't that important. And it isn't everthing, but it is important. Don't underestimate it. Hmmmm I don't know what advise to give you though from here on, sorry. nekta Tue, 10 Apr 2007 00:09:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_2_cope_with_an_uphappy_penis 46801 I think we hold onto past relationships when there’s some unfinished business. Could it be that there was something you wanted to say, that you didn’t say. Like stay, or sorry, etc It’s never too late to say these things, or send them in a letter, or just write them. I know with myself, I found it hard to move on because I never apologised to my ex for the things I did wrong. I always felt guilty afterwards. I’m only talking from my limited experience, I could be wrong. nekta Mon, 09 Apr 2007 23:42:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_get_over_my_ex 46799