http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/nataliad0624 en-us its called... youre not gonna believe this... but... "LETS TALK ABOUT SEX" haha. nataliad0624 Wed, 05 Sep 2007 21:37:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/any1_no_the_song 95098 someone once told me to write out the alphabet with your tongue in his mouth. well.. that was the wrong advice. it was like a 26 minute long makeout. a bad one. hahaha. just practice on a friends arm or a mirror or something so you can see what it looks like. what i would be mroe concerned about is to just not keep your mouth openthe entire time like your waiting for something and dont throw your tongue in his mouth a bunch. close your mouth to make that smoochy sound like once every five seconds. so its like kissing, not tongue-tieing. and relax. decide BEOFRE you start making out how far you want to go with him so that the pressure of making out doesnt pressure you to do something you dont wanna do. like, "okay if he tries to touch my boobs ill let him, but if he tries to put his hands down my pants, ill touch his hand to stop him and tell him "not now"" tell me how it goes! but ya, trust me, a year from now, you wont even need to think about it, it will just come naturally. just dont think about it when youre doing it. let it flow. nataliad0624 Wed, 05 Sep 2007 21:35:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/making_out_360 95097 Okay. Stop freaking out. haha. I dont know if you shave or not, but judging by the fact your bf fingered your down there, im assuming you do. in which case, it is not weird to get that. I get it every few times i shave down there. its just razor burn, i know that razor burn usually just looks like a red rash, but it also can have those little red dots that you can see the white on the top and you can pop it. trust me haha. im not a freak STD girl or anything and i have been tested after each sex partner so i know for a fact that i am "clean" and i get those as well. so if you shave, i would just say use a razor with as many blades on it as your can or put on after shave or "dove feminine wash" on it after you shave. and DONT ITCH! p.s, i know you cant drive to a testing place, but maybe instead of saying "mom, can you take me to planned parenthood so i can get a new shirt?" haha, maybe you can just say "mom, can you take me to annas house, and tell her your meeting her at the pizza place or something and to drop you off there. (across from a facility). if you are very concerned about that is. or you can just go to a friends house and walk there with your friend. also, places like that have a STRICT confidentiality policy, which basically means they cant tell your parents, its illegal for them to. so dont be scared about getting a call to your home phone or a letter in the mail from "yourdaughterhasherpes.com" or anything. which you dont by the way so dont worry. haha. good luck! nataliad0624 Wed, 05 Sep 2007 20:46:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/quot_zit_quot_down_there_is_that 95071 Since you have only been having your period for about a year now, your period is not regular yet. That is COMPLETELY normal. I have talked to a million adults that say "I get my period on the 24th of every months for five days exactly" which means its obviously VERY REGULAR, but then again they have been having them for a long time. I am 18 years old. I started my period for the first time in seventh grade and mine are STILL not regular. One way to regulate your period and to minimize the side effects is to go to your school health clinic (what i did) or to go to a planned parenthood nearby. (you dont have to be sexually active to go to those places) and ask them to put you on birth control. if you get on "the pill", it will undoubtably regulate your period as far as frequency and severity is concerned. trust me. ive had to do it for the past year and a half, and i know exactly when to keep tampons in my purse and i always know 2 or 3 days before my period that its coming. good luck! nataliad0624 Wed, 05 Sep 2007 20:39:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/period_madness 95067