http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/mzlala82 en-us It is not your fault. Talk to your mom. It is happening everyday. Talk to someone. This needs to stop. You should not have to carry this heavy burden. You did not chose to have an indecent relationship. He broke the trust and took that from you. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are a victim, you need some pity as a child. the last 7 years have not been a natural childhood for you, because of this. You deserve to have all your dreams come true. You only get one chance in this world, it is your world. No one can decide how you live. Just stay strong. When the time is right you will make your choice. Until then, you can talk to us about anything mzlala82 Tue, 26 Jun 2007 17:39:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/raped_please_help 66754 Well honey, its is very hard to face that kind of problem. You have to listen to your heart. Like you said family is family. You are a part of your mother she will love you forever. You said you have not been able to tell anyone. Well today you took the first step of being a survior. You told us. I am proud of you. It will hurt when you go back in your thoughts to think of it. But keep fighting it to make you stronger. It is not too late. I never told my parents they found out somehow, 3 years after I was molested. There is a new movie out called Georgia's Rule. It invovles this kinda sutiation with 3 generations. if you feel you can not talk to family or friends, it is important to resolve how you feel comfortable. I became stronger, by getting invovled with the community. I want to help prevent this from happening to anyone else. lets talk. Reply anytime I will respond as soon as I can. If you need anything. Remember it is not your fault you were only a child. Remeber you are beautiful, and can have the world in whatever way you want mzlala82 Mon, 04 Jun 2007 17:23:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/raped_please_help 61089