http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/metalheaddude my names Vince, i work at a full-time job painting. I like playing guitar i like listening to heavy metal i also like drawing. I'm not in college. All of my friends are mostly into music like myself. en-us Yeah your real cool Captian trying to pick a fight with someone over the internet LOL -claps- You accomplished so much good for you man. metalheaddude Tue, 13 May 2008 22:46:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_very_picky_do_i_need_to_change 348275 captianassassin you did not answer my question at all, how am I shallow if I'm raising my standards on women?? LOL that does not make any sense at all. If I was shallow I wouldnt be afraid to date fat chicks ever seen the movie Shallow-Hal with Jack Black ring a bell??? yeah thanks for the advice NOT! metalheaddude Tue, 13 May 2008 08:11:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_very_picky_do_i_need_to_change 347587 You shouldnt be ashamed I'm 20 years old and I'm a VIRGIN also I know exactly how you feel. I get made fun of all the time by my friends I feel like Steve Carrol from the 40 year old virgin. There always like: MAN IM going to GET YOU LAID! and yelling crap like that and really it offends the hell out of me I just want to smash there face in and tell them to shut up. I really dont know what advice to give you because I am in the same situation you are in. I am still waiting for gorgeous women to take away my virginity. What also sucks is a lot of girls hate guys that are virgins so I have to lie all the time to these beautiful women like oh yeah I'm not a virgin, so lets please get down to business (So you can finally make a man out of me for christ sakes). I know you ladies hate us virgins but please give us a CHANCE! I dont want to die like this GOD! metalheaddude Mon, 12 May 2008 17:42:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_19_year_old_boy_and_i_am_still 347166 Because you have someone emotionally close to? It really sucks if you live your whole life being single I'm still on that road I have yet to find the certian someone. People need a boyfriend or a girlfriend because it gives you a "purpose" you're able to spend your life with someone I mean who has to say that we were destined to not share our lives with a special person to make us feel like our world is complete and our lives would be so much happier. I know I may sound like a panzee freakin queer right now but I am comfortible with my sexuality. And love is a wonderful thing, I mean why the hell would you want to miss out on something like that for the rest of your life?? metalheaddude Mon, 12 May 2008 17:35:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_you_have_a_bf_or_gf 347151 I dont think you should be a single mom. I'm not a parent but I do have some common sense. This child is going to need a father figure as well, thats just my oppinion if you dont think so then thats your deal. But I think the child needs a mother and a father. And you need a husband your 27 years old for cryin out loud. If I get to your age which will be like 7 years from now and I'm still on my own I'll probally jump out a 10 story building just to make one less useless human around. I'm sure you got dozens of studly men lined up at your dispossal if your finacially equipped like you said you must be one dazzling looking babe. So you should take a pick get a husband and a kid be happy! for christ sakes. metalheaddude Sun, 11 May 2008 23:14:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_be_a_single_mom_133776 346472 Learn from there mistakes and trust your instincts were all human and we will all make mistakes. You're parents love you, and this is not your fault. This kinda thing happens because you're parents just seem to have a hard time dealing with eachother. I mean love is a hard thing to endure its not an easy task so take note of that also. It takes more then love to make a marriage work, it also takes commitment, faithfulness, some finacial aids to take care of the billings that come in. What you need to do is really go for what you want to do in life, dont worry about you're parents because you love them as much as they love you. Go and make your dreams come true go out and be somebody. metalheaddude Sun, 11 May 2008 23:03:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_get_over_my_mom_dad_divorcing 346470 You just need to get out there and connect. Go to bars or go to something like a club that suits you that you enjoy doing like a "Music-club" or Baseball game if you enjoy baseball. You basically just need to talk to people. I found out for a long and enduring time you will not get any friends if you are a really really Shy person that keeps to yourself. Because most of those people just stay alone, hell man just find some people that have some stuff in common with you. For example of myself. I'll go to a show or maybe go to the mall I see a group of kids that look like me ya know, skater-kids, goths, metal-heads, dirtbags whatever you want to call them. ill go up and introduce myself or just say hey Whats up!? and begin a conversation. I make friends like that all the time because they have stuff in common with me like Music. metalheaddude Sun, 11 May 2008 22:52:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/friend_20149 346468 Friends with benefits is not ok, because the two of you base the relationship on making-out or having sex. I mean yeah I bet its fun the first few days or whatever but after a while all you do is look at eachother as a sexual thing not someone you could hold a relationship with. I mean sure I could look at a really hot girl as a piece of meat that I just want to bang, but I cannot have emotions for her??? thats a little messed up because after a while once I'm getting real close to her I will want to actually develop some feelings for her just seems morbid and wrong if I didnt. I would basically be degrading them because of them offering there body alone to me and not there feelings of love. metalheaddude Sun, 11 May 2008 22:33:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/friends_with_benefits_328 346453 I didnt have my first kiss until I was 17. I'm 20 now and trust me once you start doing it, its not as fun and great as everyone is "Hyped" up about it. I mean yeah when you first start doing it, it feels really good and its fun, but after a while once you start doing it constantly it actually gets really "Boring". trust me. And thats good that you want to make your kiss "special" I kinda wish most of my kisses I had with my ex girlfriends were "special" and "romantic" with meaning behind it but they werent. I mean whenever I was with them it was all about "making-out" constantly there was no talking just kissing. And it got very repeatitive and it seemed boring. My first kiss was with a girl that was 15 and we ended up breaking up like 2 weeks later I got myself into the dumbest situation because all I wanted to do was kiss a girl. There was no relationship behind it Lol. But after a while when I started dating more girls all we did was kiss and it gets stupid. So dont feel bad if you havent been kissing your not really missing out on anything so just be happy. metalheaddude Sun, 11 May 2008 22:24:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/first_kiss_276 346449 Dude its ok your not the only one who has masturbated constantly. Jerkin it is actually clinically healthy for your penis. But what I would recommend is not let it become a bad habit like for example you were late for work because you were beatin it in the bathroom Lol. Masturbating is not a wrong thing in fact its good to masturbate because you are actually practicing sex before you actually "do it" and lose it for the first time. You're getting a little experience before you go and jump on the boat. Infact a lot of my friends tell me that when you actually do it you actually last a lot longer because you are "really" getting it on instead of being alone by yourself and letting it become a nervous habit. I would just not do it so much and kinda concentrate on other things. Avoid porn and dirty magazines and sexual thoughts. I mean dont get me wrong man its almost entirely impossible to not have perverted thoughts alteast once in a day. I mean I work at a job where I see beautiful women walkin back in forth and hell man its summer time and you can see there bikini lines and stuff and I get really hard in a situation like that. But I dont let it become such a turn on that I have to go home and wack it just because it was there. Just use your good instincts and good judgement. Good luck man. metalheaddude Fri, 09 May 2008 19:16:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/mental_problem_con_t 342768 My dream woman I'd want a woman who is loving and caring, and wont judge me by the way I am. accept me for who I am and what I do in life. And of course I'd like it if she was beautiful but if shes average then thats fine also I'm not asking for the most hottest babe around. A woman who can listen and also speak her mind and give me advice, a woman who is there for me whenever I need her. Pretty much in a nutshell thats what I'm looking for. metalheaddude Wed, 07 May 2008 10:58:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_most_guys_dream_woman_look 338361 Honestly I hate the word "Love". Its so overly abused now these days no one knows what it really means anymore its just something you say to eachother to make you feel better. I think it would be nice not to say you love someone but to just show it, like either of you could show eachother you love eachother without having to say it. Because when you get in that position where you have to say you love someone, its almost like your having to prove to yourself that you do love them because they may not trust you enough that you do which I think is stupid. And to me there is nothing wrong with Lust, I mean you find someone sexually attractive and they feel the same way about you. There is nothing wrong with doing what god created us to do. If you make love to someone to me thats just proving enough that you do love someone. You love them enough to have sex with them. metalheaddude Wed, 07 May 2008 10:43:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_really_love 338342 Oh well in that case I guess you taking some exotic pictures of yourself will make him happy. metalheaddude Tue, 06 May 2008 20:15:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wanting_to_give_him_a_sexy_gift 337873 You just talk really dirty on the telephone with your lover. Which I really dont like to do, to be honest because I think its retarded. I'd rather just tell my girlfriend in a bedroom voice to her in person like: Oh yeah baby I want to *** you so hard. Instead of doing it over the phone because usually it just leads to masturbation. And whats the fun in that if she isnt there??? its almost like Cyber-sex. metalheaddude Tue, 06 May 2008 09:40:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/phone_sex_2639 337221 Yeah your not the only one. Everyone goes through this stage ALL the time. I guarantee by like a few months maybe even more he will be completley out of your head. I have dated lots of girls. And I hardly remember any of them and to be honest I really dont care to because I havent found that special someone yet. metalheaddude Tue, 06 May 2008 09:24:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_help_now 337197 Why give him the pictures it would be better if you just gave him the bedroom experience of his life-time. You should like hire some guys to build a golden pole in your bed-room like next to the bed, and have him like wait in there. And then like come out just wearing like a black bra and thong and start pole-dancing for him. I guarantee he will love you forever. Hell I'd love a girl forever if she did that for me Lol. metalheaddude Tue, 06 May 2008 09:19:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wanting_to_give_him_a_sexy_gift 337187 No I only like white girls. Cause I'm a white guy. metalheaddude Tue, 06 May 2008 09:10:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/would_u_date_out_of_ur_race 337170 You're having a crush, its more of a bubbly cute feeling of thinking a girl is really pretty and it makes you blush. Its actually kinda humorous. Because I could do that all the time and after a while you just laugh about it and let it go. when you get down to business and think you can actually start something with her you're always going to have that 50-50 % chance its going to work. either shes already taken like most attractive women now in America, or you get lucky as hell and she is single and you have an oppurtunity to take a shot at it. metalheaddude Fri, 02 May 2008 22:07:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_know_759 333839 A good moment is when you two are alone and you just stare into eachothers eyes adoring eachother ever so gently. That emotional stare you give eachother alone is a symbol enough that you are saying "I love you" to eachother. then settle it with a kiss. metalheaddude Fri, 02 May 2008 21:48:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/different_ways_to_say_i_love_you 333829 I'm agreeing with uberalex0 thats pretty much what I go for. but doxuxcxdimxlightx7 is also right the heart matters a lot because they can be really gorgeous on the outside but a total psycho on the inside. metalheaddude Fri, 02 May 2008 21:45:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_type 333824 Why would you think about him? if you were willing to flirt with someone else while you were dating?. You got caught fooling around with someone else thats why its over between you to. You think he is going to want you back after he found out you were messin with someone else while you were together? metalheaddude Thu, 01 May 2008 21:40:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/not_over_w_my_ex_but_yet_do_i_want 332780 He is having one there is no doubt about it there are 2 factors that already prove he is. 1. You havent had sex with him in 1-2 years. That is a VERY VERY long time to not have any sex I mean I'm supposing you did at some point but to never do it at all for those long years. That is a very long time that means he doesnt want you and he is out looking for something else. 2. That text message: "Did you sleep well"??? ...he's denying that is hilarious. Did you sleep well means the girl is asking him did you sleep well from last night because we had some amazing wild sex. This guy is caught red handed. If I were you I would leave him and go and have sex with whoever you want. metalheaddude Thu, 01 May 2008 21:33:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_my_husband_having_an_affair 332767 Yeah thanx I'll just stay single forever! metalheaddude Tue, 29 Apr 2008 00:10:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_so_depressed 329184 Wow thats pretty crazy how you call us White-men "Mean-spirited and Racist" that alone what you just said is racist. Not all White-men are stereotypically mean and hateful arrogant and believing only white women should date white men. Thats just something thats been apart of the white-men culture for a very long time here in America. Don't you remember back in the 50's? when the White-man was so prejuduce against black people in there highschools? that went on for a long time. The reason is White-men have long been the far superior commanders even though what they did was sometimes wrong for example: White-men use to have african americans, and indians, as slaves because the White-man was in charge in America. Our culture has a strong past of white-men being the heavily ones in command of everything but now things are different people have there own rights, freedoms, styles, and even there own beliefs. Like myself I agree with the girl way above, saying what does it matter on the color of your skin? its not what your skin is. Its what your heart is. If you have a hateful and unruling heart only set out for sticking to the most racial views then its going to get you no where in life. You're going to be believing in something wrong, we are in America a nation of freedom. metalheaddude Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:01:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_white_girls_want_to_date_black 327617 You're just going to have to take the plunge and go for it. And remember love is not perfect. It can be the most beautiful thing in the whole world and it can also be the most heart-breaking painful experience you will ever have. Its just something youre going to have to deal with dont feel bad if it doesnt work out. Do you have any idea how many people are constantly breaking up at this moment??? MILLIONS!!! people love and hate all the time and cannot even get a real grip on what they want out of life its just all a big fantasy to them. Makes me want to jump off a cliff and die, I'm sick of people playing games with eachother. But thats just reality deal with it we live in a sick world with sick people. metalheaddude Sun, 27 Apr 2008 21:47:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dating_599 327598