http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/marianneg en-us Give her space. THe key here is to allow her to express HERSELF. So be friendly. Visit more often. Offer to help with her son. And when she does talk (about anything as she may be testing you first), LISTEN, really listen. BUT Dont offer advice unless she asks for it. THis is a mistake too many people make in circumstances like death, miscarraige etc. She needs counceling even if she may not think so. And a councelor who can tell you how many similar case studies she / he had had. My thoughts are with your families. marianneg Wed, 14 May 2008 13:38:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_be_sensitive_and_helpful 348743 did you ever get to make this home made vibrator? We are considering this. I love my mans shape of his penis. He wants to make one to his own mould with an attachment that goes all the way over my clit. Sucks onto the area around the clit (but only slightly the way I like it) and then have either licking or vibrating actions on the clit area as I wish. The penis to vibrate either by pulsing or by constant buzz and with the head moving up and down slightly agains the g spot. Off of thiss interior (the bateries and motor inside the penis area) and the exterior thin and sucking onto my whole vulva area thus not moving around as I go about my day. All of this will work with a remote control. If it works. would you like to know more? mail me marianne.g@webmail.co.za marianneg Wed, 14 May 2008 13:34:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_make_a_homemade_vibrator 348737