http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/m3ll0wy3ll0w en-us I think he's just saying those things because he's hurt and upset over the fact that you like another guy. So he probably wants to hurt you like you've hurt him. m3ll0wy3ll0w Fri, 18 Apr 2008 15:29:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guy_problems_help 316923 I don't think you can make him fall in love with you all over again. What you should do is take a break from him. You shouldn't hang out or talk if it can be avoided, because you need to move on. Maybe when you both have time away from eachother you will see that a) you were meant for eachother and that you should get back together or that b) it was better for you two to break up and meet new people. I went through a situation where a guy I dated told me he wanted to be best friends and that we might get back together once he got over what he was dealing with. I was upset and didn't know what to do, but after having time away from him I realized that we weren't a good couple, and that he said those things only because he didn't want to hurt me. He cared about me, but didn't want to be with me, or be friends with me. Your situation could be the same. Give him space and give it time. If its meant to be, its meant to be. m3ll0wy3ll0w Fri, 18 Apr 2008 15:24:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/broken_heart_771 316918 1. 3ish. Its not that bad at all actually 2. I'm guessing it doesnt :S 3. mine cost 50 4. usually 16 5. a second 6. I don't think so. unless you're terrified of needles 7. lol I'd say no. but it depends 8. YES. It is the hardest piercing to heal. You have to make sure you clean it multiple times a day. 9. no! 10. my piercer said 3 or 4 months. It takes about 6 months to a year to fully heal. If it does. A ton of people I know had theirs reject. mine, thankfully, has not rejected and its been about a year and a month. m3ll0wy3ll0w Fri, 18 Apr 2008 15:15:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/lots_of_questions_about_navel_piercings 316912 I like when a guy gently bites my lips as we makeout. I find that hot. m3ll0wy3ll0w Thu, 17 Apr 2008 12:01:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_have_hot_makeout_sessions 315693 Lol my size is 6.5 :P. But I have girl friends who have size 10 or even 11 feet. So you're not the only one lol. I just happen to be really short, which is why my feet are so small. m3ll0wy3ll0w Tue, 16 Oct 2007 14:13:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_any_other_girls_on_here_have_43384 113542 Yeah. You should definitely leave this asshole. All he is going to do is make you feel worthless. You need to find a guy who loves you for who you are. No matter what your body is like. I'm sure you are just perfect and beautiful the way you are. Don't let some guy put you down and tell you how you should look. You're worth more than that. m3ll0wy3ll0w Mon, 15 Oct 2007 14:30:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_was_wondering 112999 It sounds like he might like you. If he keeps sending you signals like this, I suggest that maybe you say something to him. Like ask him to hang out after school and see how that goes. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 19:08:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_he_or_doesn_t_he 112770 Talk to him to see if there is a reason. Don't accuse him of anything or attack him. Just tell him that you feel like you don't spend enough time together. You want him to spend time with his friends, but you also want him to spend time with you. I'm sure that if he cares about you he'll understand and try to devote more time to you. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 17:21:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_feel_im_only_needed_when_he_has 112646 She obviously has some insecurity problems. And i'm not sure if you CAN find a way to show her she can trust you. You should ask yourself, does she REALLY love you if she has cheated on you so many times? Is this relationship causing you more grief than it is happiness? I know I wouldn't want to be in your situation. I suggest you just try talking to her. reassuring her she's beautiful etc. I don't know how much help this will be though. If she continues on like this, maybe a break would be good. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 17:19:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_needed_girlfriend_insecurity 112644 I totally agree with the above advice. If he cheated on his last gf, he's likely to cheat on you too. But, then again, just because he did, doesn't mean he will again. Its complicated. I agree that you should take it slowly and see how things go. Try not to get too attached too early, because if he does cheat it will make it much harder for you when it happens. I'm not sure how close you are, but if you feel he will understand when you tell him how you feel, then do. If you're not sure, wait a bit and see how things go. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 17:15:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyfriend_issues_5157 112641 YES! Unfortunately you can. So please use protection! m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 17:06:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/herpes_38187 112635 Have you tried talking to your girlfriend about how you're feeling? I'm personally a strong believer in discussing your problems with people you care about. But maybe you are falling apart and falling out of love, and the best thing to do is break it off. I suggest that if you do break it off with her, you give yourself some time to heal before moving onto the next girl. You'll probably have some leftover feelings from the last relationship, and all that will do is hurt your next one. No one likes to be the rebound date. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sun, 14 Oct 2007 06:50:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/falling_out_of_love 112333 I think you should keep your feelings to yourself too. I don't think you'd be very happy if you were dating a guy and some other girl told him that she had feelings for him. I know I'd be pretty pissed off. If he does like you, maybe when he becomes available things will work out. Until then, I say you leave him alone. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sat, 13 Oct 2007 21:58:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_t_stop_thinking_about_him 112198 I think you should talk to her about it too. And like mrscobainx3 said, don't accuse her of it. Just tell her how you've been feeling. Do you know why you've been feeling this way? One of my exes cheated on me, and I found that the next time I dated a guy, I was terrified it would happen again, and I started to believe it was. I was just being insecure though. Maybe something like this has happened to you, and you're doing the same thing. I'm not sure how long you've been dating, but I'm sure that if you both care about eachother she'll understand and reassure you that nothing is going on behind your back. m3ll0wy3ll0w Sat, 13 Oct 2007 21:53:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_keep_getting_the_feeling 112197 To tell you the truth, there is no way for you to break up with her without hurting her or making her cry. Its going to hurt her because she obviously likes you a lot, and is most likely in love with you. You just have to try to break it gently to her. Assure her that it has everything to do with you, and nothing with her. She's going to be upset and hurt, but really, its the best thing to do. Especially if you're not feeling into being in a relationship. It'll hurt her more if you drag it on longer. Just try to be really sincere and truthful. And do it in person. Not by email or msn or the phone. m3ll0wy3ll0w Fri, 12 Oct 2007 20:56:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_break_up_with_a_girl_without 111720