http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/loveoutloud en-us This is your chance in life to change. You can look at this as the biggest mistake of your life, or as a blessing. I know you're only 14, but maybe this was suppose to happen, maybe this just gave you a reason to turn your life around. Babies are always a blessing!!! loveoutloud Tue, 02 Oct 2007 14:26:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_125 106673 Get a baby - sitter for the evening, or if you have relatives in town see if your 8 mos old can stay overnite, and give you two a date night! Dont make it about sex, make it about #1. Do something fun. Go out to eat, buy something pretty for yourself. If you think you need to make yourself have sex, its not gonna be fun, or fulfilling to you. Take time to remember why you fell in love with your husband in the first place. After i had my baby sex was the last thing i wantd!! Give yourself time and remember, you can always find other ways to sexually satisfy your husband until you're in the mood. Get creative, but remember its all about you. loveoutloud Tue, 02 Oct 2007 14:12:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_to_make_myself_have_sex 106660