http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/lovenkc93 en-us my sister had her first child a year younger then you and it didn't screw up her life but it didnt help with her school work. I was only 7 years old and was really not sure what was going on, there more fights and lots more crying. she got kick out of school and still hasn't gone back to get her deploma. BUT her son has turned out to be the light of her life and for the first five years of his life he was the center of mine. it was hard and money was tight for her but she made it through with no one but me to help take care of her son. And now my friends sister is going through the same thing, at first it might come in between you family and life but in the end my family became closser and my sister is a great mother. do what makes you happy and dont let what people say get in the way. Jess lovenkc93 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:12:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_almost_17_i_want_a_baby 265327