http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/lisa33089 en-us test the waters by: when she pecks you on the lips, try pecking her again immediately after...a couple times in a row and make it flirty... and if she goes for that and you get good vibes...then you know you can take it a little further by making out for a short about of time, (like 5 secs)... once you guys start doing that...then like slowly stick your tongue in her mouth...but make it gentle...the least romantic thing is a tongue jabbing down your throat. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:56:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_589 288566 thank youuu :) lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:45:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_coffee_bad_for_you_or_not 288562 ok so you have two lips and above is where you pee...a little below the lips is where the hole is...you have to stick your finger in it for it to actually widen...its not just a hole ...u just have to push on it kind hard with your finger...but honestly if you want pleasure...most girls just get it from the outside. unless your trying to find your gspot... lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:43:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/were_do_u_stick_them 288558 a lot of animals thats what happens...I think lol well in my physical anthro class, they said apes swell up A LOT when they're ready to have sex...so its seems like it wouldnt be anything to worry about lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:38:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_it_get_swollen 288556 this is not fair at all to the guysss. you dont like hurting people but thats what is going to happen either way...more so if you dont fix the problem...so you need to sacrifice your comfort in order to just tell these guys the truth... some tips for stomach problems...stay away from bad sugars and white carbs such as rice, pasta, white bread...etc ...anything carby and white. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:34:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/to_many_problems_to_have_in_this 288549 well try saying somthing like this to him when he says I love you. "well you know I care about you and like you a lot, and I love how you tell me how you feel, but I feel like you should really get to know me more before you say I love you...because we have a lot to learn about each other and it will feel sooo much more special if we wait it out...how do you feel about that?" and have him share how he feels...he may be a littl hurt or embarrassed, but if he gets angry, then thats really immature. and if it resolves nicely...then you should show him how much you care that he listened to what you had to say...like a kiss and hug...just make him feel better if hes a little hurt. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:29:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_128 288542 use your imagination...sometimes when you imagine scenarios that turn you on...it helps...like for me, I imagine doing it in public, because that gives me a rush and helps ALLL the time. also find out what feels good to youuu, and then tell him what to do. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:24:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_cant_seem_to_cum 288537 well you need c**t stimulation... dont try sticking anything inside u...its not going to do much...put anything that vibrates over your area...(on the outside, above where the "lips" are)...just move the vibrating object around. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:22:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_masturbate_165153 288534 I think it helps the climax when you pee and get it over with before you continue...even though it may be a bit annoying...your partner should be fine with it, if not, thats messed up lol lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:19:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/have_to_pee_while_having_sex 288531 I dont agree with tmsharp...I dont know how long uve been with him , but if its been more than a year (just cause your age) than you can explore sexuality a little. just because you're exploring, doesnt mean you dont have affection for each other. its human nature...just dont go far quickly... really...if you want to show him you want to further the relationship, you can hint (without having sex) by the way you touch him...instead of cuddling...start by massages, rubbing his thight with your hand...just take it slow...by all means dont do "it" soon... if he starts taking the hint too strongly, just kindly push him away...if he doesnt AUTOMATICALLY take that hint, then that is bad news. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:12:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_you_know_if_you_are_ready 288523 bj is a LOT easier yeah...theres a vein that runs up the underside , up towards the tip...its quite sensitive. and thats a spot to focus on...put presssure with your hand around the base..but not tooo hard. eye contact like juliajordyn88 says a lot of guy like when you grab the balls too while you do it. for hj...just put one hand around the base, and with your other hand rub quickly and hard from the middle, up to the tip...the tip is the key... for bjs... somee guys have different fetishes...so find out what he likes, try different things, ask him what he likes...cause my boyfriend like me to bit it really hard...but most guys would HATE it...just be open with the guy lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:05:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bj_hj 288515 okay I've totallly been there!!!you need to stoppp putting yourself down.. guys dont mind insecure girls, but they dont like girls that keeep putting themselves down and cant take compliments...he probably wants to have more fun with you, but you're insecurities are preventing you from having fun. what else does he says he dislikes about you? what me and my boyfriend did to get over our problems is we made it into a game...like "okay every time you insult yourself, you lose a point" or "everytime you start an argument, you lose the game" and if both partners are willing to actually play, it helps a lot. it saved my relationship...we would argue constantly until we play that game...and we eventually got used to NOT arguing, because it ffeeels so much better. and we got to focus on having fun together. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:58:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_is_it_so_hard_to_change 288509 I would walk towards him casually and then just press my body up against his really quickly and then run my fingers down his chest and start biting on his ear...thatd do it. haha lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:52:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/lets_make_this_interesting 288502 he's probably confused because he used to be striaght...this is new to him...he really needs time...keep friendly and just show him you can have fun with him and that you're understanding...if he really loves you and wants to be with u, u'll knowww...just give it time lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:50:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/iv_loved_him_for_a_whole_year 288496 if uve never been with a guy...then you're considered bi-curious. if you would actually hook up and be in a relationship with a guy, then ud be bi...I think :) lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:47:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_straight_or_bi 288494 just talk to her about her interests and ask her about her life experiences...when you find something in common...just something little...then branch off of that...its easy once u find some stuff you have in common... lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:45:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/response_quick_what_can_i_talk_to 288493 im surreee your father just worries for your own sake. theres no where at the age of 16 that you can go in legally and just do it. unless you have connections...people that will let you use their space or whatever. you could do it in public somewhere where people dont go, but thats still very illegal, especially at 16, where "doing it" it already illegal. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:24:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/were_and_when 288460 well you be understanding...you give your partner the space they need to be themselves, dont pry too much. stay playful and fun...but also have a serious side when appropriate. the worst thing you can do is focus on every flaw and mistake your partner makes...just throw away your score card and focus on what makes them special.. an amazing book to read for this question is called "Don't Sweat the small stuff in Love" its made my relationship become better than ever lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:21:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_become_a_better_girlfriend 288454 your a girl?? is it close to the side of your breast? if so see a doctor. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:10:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/large_lump 288437 totally listen to spartan...I've got a boyfriend that is up to his head in problems and depression...just keep going. the word hope exists for a reason... good luck! lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:09:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_493 288434 crackers and bread!! plain food...eat it in little nibbles to make sure you dont throw it up...sip on water. soups good, but its best to eat plain foods if youre feeling reallly sick lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:07:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_to_eat_when_i_m_sick 288430 it was more painful to me than any of my piercings...even lip... but everyone has different pain thresholds lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:06:05 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bellybutton_ring 288428 there are lasers and creams...its a hard thing to get rid of though...like sooo many people have it...even people you dont expect. it comes from puberty but also several life style and environmental factors. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:02:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/cellulite_sally_lol 288420 white carbs do some of the most damage...like white pasta, rice, bread...ect...along with excessive sugar. lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:00:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/losing_weight_just_on_my_tummy 288416 oh sorry I put happy songs up there too...I didnt read the whole question oh also "Ashes and Wine" by a fine frenzy...makes me cryy a lottt lisa33089 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 21:49:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/songs_69034 288392