http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/krisj en-us Okay. I'm glad that was cleared up. I think one of the points I was trying to make was that there are many ways of bringing people to know Christ. I agree that it is important for people to understand the consequences of their sin, and this method is effective. It was also used by the Christian authors I had mentioned, Jerry Jenkins and Tim LaHaye. They wrote a book series about people who were left behind after the rapture. I was just wondering if you had read them. I would recommend them to anyone. They really challanged me in my faith a few years back. For me, the book rose the question, 'Am I doing everything I can to ensure myself and my neighbours will go to heaven? It could happen at anytime.' Maybe scare tactics was too strong a word to use. Whether the end times are near or not, I have no idea, but I believe I am ready regardless. It's good to see someone wanting to help others to prepare themselves too. krisj Sun, 26 Nov 2006 21:17:32 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/religion 28345 I think something is wrong here. The Jehova's Witnesses are not the same as the Mormons. Mormons believe in a different manifestation of God. I would definatley consider Mormons to be Christians. As for Jehova's Witnesses, I'm not certain. Jehova's Witnesses believe that, as God's son, Jesus was inferior to his father. They believe Jesus died to atone for their sins, and that he was an example of how we should serve God. As for what I think of them, I can't say. I noticed that the disscussions between evangelical prodestants (myself included (Methodist)) and mormons are mostly argumentative, each side defending their own beliefs. However, I think that the fighting between denominations has gone on too long. Undoutably, this is the work of Satan. We'll acomplish more if we work together. Fighting in front of unbelievers must look really unappealing to them. "Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother or judges him speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law you are not keeping it, but sitting on judgement on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destory. But you-who are you to judge your neighbour?" James 4:11-12 Amblessed, I noticed quite a few of your responses have some of the same themes, I suppose you could say 'scare tactics', in them. Are you a fan of Jerry Jenkins and Tim LaHaye's novels? krisj Sun, 26 Nov 2006 17:35:23 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/religion 28331 I've tried using Vitamin E oil (28,000 IU) for scars before. It's supposed to work for stretch marks too. After using it for a few months, I found my scars were less noticable but they still aren't anywheres near dissapearing entirely. If you're interested, I think the product is avaliable at most drug stores. krisj Fri, 24 Nov 2006 21:32:19 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stretch_marks_5197 28221 Men sing from their diaphragms the same way women do. The diaphragm is the muscle system inbetween the lungs and the abdomen. To practice controling your diaphragm for singing, tighten your abdonminal muscles and exhale completely. Then relax your abdominal muscles. Air will rush into your lungs. If you are breathing properly, your chest will not rise and fall when you are breathing, rather your stomach will. krisj Sat, 18 Nov 2006 22:46:27 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/singing_from_the_diaphragm 27840 Let's not tread on each other's toes here. I think this might be getting a little out of hand. Everyone's own beliefs are very important to them, which is why this is a very sensitive topic. If we practice a little respect and tolerance for each other, it will go a long way. The basic definition of a christian, regardless of their denomination, is to be a follower of christ. Mormons and Baptists alike are Christians in the fact that they believe Jesus is their saviour. The confusion I believe comes down to the difference in the nature of God. Baptists and Mormons believe in somewhat different manifestations of Him. krisj Tue, 07 Nov 2006 10:16:23 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_the_baptist_religion_the_same 26913 It's okay for when a couple first starts dating for them to not be head over heals for each other. In fact, it's normal that one would like the other more than he likes her. They just need to give their relationship time. Seeing how it is, I don't think you're in the position to really do anything about the situation. I would take a passive role and let them work their problems out on their own. krisj Mon, 06 Nov 2006 20:04:20 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/know_she_has_an_issue 26875 I hope this explanation isn't too confusing. It's a very good question. I could be mistaken, but I think that in addition to the Holy Bible, mormons also believe The Book of Mormon to be God's word. Otherwise I believe they are similar to baptisits. I don't know for sure. I am a methodist, but I know some Baptists. To be born again is a term used by many evangelical, fundamentslist, and penecostal prodestant churches to describe the way one's life has a sort of newness, or spiritual rebirth, about it when they come to accept christ as their personal saviour. krisj Sun, 05 Nov 2006 20:17:04 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_the_baptist_religion_the_same 26756 It's one of the symptoms of a urinary tract infection, I'm not sure what else. krisj Wed, 01 Nov 2006 17:47:28 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_this_a_symtom_of_something 26055 Theres not a whole lot you can do about it. Your brother has just as much right to live there as you do. I'm guessing your living arrangements must have changed from before your brother went to uni[versity?]. Talk to your parents about the living arrangements. Tell them that you could not live this way, long-term. Ask for some sort of alternative. Maybe sleeping on the couch is a viable option. Tell your brother how you feel, and more importantly, tell him not to bother your stuff. You'll maybe find living totally alone isn't as glamarous as you think. Best of luck to you. krisj Thu, 19 Oct 2006 18:19:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/losing_personal_space_need_a_solution 25153 He probably definatlely likes you. Maybe he thinks its better for him to leave in a quiet manner. He doesn't want to become attached to you and then have to say goodbye right away. If you want to be with him, tell him how you feel and ask him to consider a long distance relationship with you. I was in the same way with the guy I was dating, he wasn't a steady boyfriend, a few months ago, only I was the one who moved. I never hear from him or about him anymore. krisj Sun, 15 Oct 2006 21:11:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyz_hellp 25013 Try www.snopes.com. It has a lot of new rumors. Ever heard of fan death? One of my personal favourite urban legends. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fan_death For even more: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Urban_legends krisj Fri, 29 Sep 2006 17:08:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/where_can_i_find_urban_myths 24253 People are going to not like me after I share my somewhat biased yet insightful opinion. From my point of view, my 'advising' is partial to Sarah's best interests. Sounds like your friend really got herself into a mess. I think this guy was probably using her. She should move on. (I should too, I think, but I can't bring myself to do it either. Probably talking about myself makes this opinion more biased, no?) In answer to your questions; she doesn't have to tell the truth, at least not yet. This second question interests me. If I knew who it was, I would say the secret would be safe with me. Arn't you betraying "Sarah" by posting this question, not to be rude or anything...? She has every right to be mad at him! Sarah deserves better. He was wrong to use her. And lastly, if there's no one else interested in Sarah, why not wait? I think that's what Sarah would want to hear, even if he is scum (again, excuse the biased opinion.) krisj Thu, 21 Sep 2006 19:21:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/unbiased_opinions_please 23866 I find its easier to go to parties with people you already know. Then you can at least have someone there to talk to. Maybe the friends you have now can introduce you to some of their friends you've never met. krisj Mon, 18 Sep 2006 14:56:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_become_more_outgoing 23686 Impossible. You should ask him out. If guys are shy especially, or if they don't know you are interested, they probably won't ask. If you insist on not asking him, smile and say hi to him, every time you see him. Be friendly. Flirt. Try getting to know him better, double dating with friends is a good idea if you are new to the dating scene, or if you are uncomfortable. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 20:26:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/thee_is_this_guy 23626 It depends on where you live and what university you're considering applying to. If you know where you want to go, look into it. Is academic math an option for you at all? Would you trade not having academic math for choosing a different career path? If you have a guidence counsellor at your school, they should be able to help you access admission requirements information for post secondary institutions in your area. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 20:19:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_that_enough_for_university 23624 Thats interesting. Ever consider calling a truce with this guy you hate so much? I wasn't really sure what was going on, he stole your girlfriend? I don't think you should stop being friends with your best friend because you don't like his or her friends. Try to plan activities with your friend outside of school. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 19:07:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stupid_stupid_friends 23619 Plan fun activities to do with friends on the weekends. If the weathers nice, have a bon fire at the beach. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 07:54:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/best_year_ever 23579 Some jokes depend on timing, but if you see something you think is funny, save it for after class. When I was in high school, there was a guy who I found really annoying. I dumped a cup of water on his head. Everyone thought it was halarious and they still talk about it. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 07:51:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_have_fun_in_class 23578 Not everyone votes for the most popular student. You should figure out what some of the issues are in your classroom. Mention them, and where you stand on them, but don't go on too long about it. krisj Sun, 17 Sep 2006 07:45:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/class_president 23575 I'm sorry, I think I may have missed the point here. Why would you ask if you don't want to know? If you're that curious, why not watch it and see for yourself? krisj Sat, 16 Sep 2006 09:55:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_about_segregation_on_survivor 23514 Hormone levels can have alot to do with it too. krisj Thu, 14 Sep 2006 14:04:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_be_scared 23396 Cut down on bread and pastas. krisj Wed, 13 Sep 2006 20:31:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/weight_help_please_needed_advice 23339