http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/kay_kay I am currently a high school student, and I love helping people. My dream is to be an actress on Broadway, but if that doesn't pan out I'd love to be a pshychiatrist. :-) I'll answer any questions you may have and I'll do my absolute best to help! en-us Yes, it is a sin. In the bible, it says that when a man looks at a woman with lust in his heart, that he has already comitted adultery with her. Adultery is a sin and is stated as such in the ten commandments. Hope that helps! kay_kay Sun, 10 Feb 2008 12:30:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_watching_pornography_a_sin_for 217577 Calmly tell him how you feel. People tend to avoid this conversation because they're afraid of "ruining the friendship", but the truth is that friendships don't suffer from being honest with eachother; just the opposite! It may be awkward, but it could very well be worth it. As of now, your options are to either tell him how you feel or keep on rationalizing your reasons for not telling him. Best of luck!! kay_kay Fri, 23 Nov 2007 10:47:17 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_in_love_and_it_s_not_good 141161 I notice that you are from Pakistan. I don't know much about Pakistan, but my guess is that marriage between cousins is acceptable there. If you care for her, then do whatever is customary in your society to begin the process of courting her. Talk to your parents or other relatives or even a close friend it you are still unsure of the steps to take. Best of luck!!! kay_kay Fri, 23 Nov 2007 10:41:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fallin_in_love 141159 Try wearing it down and with a deep side part. Thats always cute! You could also curl it. That sounds like it takes a lot of time, but with the right curling iron (I like big curling irons) it's a snap. kay_kay Fri, 23 Nov 2007 10:31:04 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_better_hair_styles 141153 I'm not sure if you are familiar with the game "Clue", but that would be a cute theme. If you aren't familiar with it, its a game based on a murder mystey kind of thing. Everyone would be asked to come in old fashioned clothing, and some people can come as the characters from the actual game itself, such as Miss Scarlet, or Proffesor Plum. If you want to take it to the extreme, you could plant clues around the area of the party as to who killed Mr. Body (the guy who was killed in the game), in what room, and with what. If you've never really played this game, do, because it is really fun and this would make sense. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 23:06:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/party_theme 116474 His behavior is very immature and irritating. If you didn't like him to begin with, then don't concern yourself with his actions. If it gets to a point where you absolutely cannot stand it, straight up tell him that he needs to stop. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 23:01:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_best_friend_s_ex_bf_hates_me_and 116472 You say that it is unfortunate that you never had the chance to go out with this guy, but it sounds like a stroke of luck on your part. It's hard not to feel something for your first kiss, but you most likely just liked the idea of him rather than really liking him because of who he is. We've all been there, trust me. The hardest part is realizing this, but once you do, you will be free to move on and to find better things. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 22:55:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_jealous_but_hurt_at_the_same 116467 You most likely have nothing to worry about. Your period can be late for a variety of reasons, including stress, insufficient nutrients, or sudden weight loss. If you skip it entirely, talk to a doctor. You are most definetly not pregnant as long as you didn't have sex. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 22:48:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/its_lateee_now_wat_do_i_do 116460 I really like Wyatt, but what would the nickname be? I really like the name William, and you could call him Will or Liam. For a girl, I like Bernadette. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:10:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/baby_names_10404 116056 Talk to your parents about it. Nothing is worth doing if your parents don't know about it. You may be pleasantly surprised by their reaction. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:07:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_normal_to_want_to_act_so_bad 116053 Hmm, I don't think so. To be categorized as anti-christ, they would have to slander the name of God or glorify the devil in their lyrics. I may be wrong, but I don't think that their lyrics fit the bill. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:02:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_m_confused_117 116051 This isn't really an issue of what your friends think, but what you think of yourself. It seems to me that you would not have asked this question if you were sure of yourself and the "new you". The best thing that you can do for yourself is this: quit smoking, it's horrible for your body and your breath will smell really bad, and stop having sex. I know that that may sound drastic, but you will never regret waiting. Also, if you haven't already, get tested for STDs and pregnancy. Take care of yourself! kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 06:59:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_change_back 116049 Do something unique and unexpected. Maybe spend the money on an activity that you could do together, such as a nice picnic. Good luck! kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 06:53:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/helppp_birthdayy 116047 The DaVinci Code is outright slanderous, so I hope that anyone who has read that book will have the good sense not to believe it. I also hope that anyone who doesn't believe in God will one day find Him. If anyone has any questions about faith, please funmail me! kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 06:49:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/this_is_to_the_ones_that_believe 116046 This is not a religious issue. Any individual, no matter what they believe, is capable of doing bad things and making poor choices. The human tendency to be tempted with what is wrong is a natural affliction. There are, unfortunately, corrupt people most everywhere, and making their religion the scapegoat for their wrongdoings is an unfortunate mistake. kay_kay Sat, 20 Oct 2007 06:45:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_possible_41 116045 No, it is not a good idea. Numerous studies have proved that the divorce rate is much lower for those who wait until they are married to have sex. Also, no matter how strongly you feel for your current partner, your future spouse is the person that you will spend the rest of your life with. Even if you think you will marry this person, you'll feel so good on your wedding night knowing that you both had the strength and love to wait instead of succumbing to sexual wims. kay_kay Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:25:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_before_marriage 113637 Don't tell her!!! It is WAY too soon! I hate it when that happens...i've only been dating my b/f for a week and last night he ended our phone conversation with love ya and now i feel super awkward. it pretty much killed it for me. kay_kay Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:20:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_to_tell_her 113632 Also, it is very likely that he slipped the "date rape" drug into your drink, and you should be tested for STD's and pregnancy. kay_kay Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:16:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/date_raped 113601 You should NEVER compromise yourself for the sake of being "cool". The coolest thing is when people have the confidence to say no and do what's right in spite of what other people are doing. So, basically as it stands now, you can either; 1~go out with this guy. people may think you're cool for a while, but it will be fleeting at best and from what it sounds like you will be put into bad situations. OR 2~you could realize that you are worth so much more, and that self respect and virtues will last far longer than popularity. kay_kay Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:14:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/date_raped 113599 Yup. kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 17:03:29 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/jfgsgafdsgfhgsd 102596 AT LUNCH??? WTF!!! In all seriousness, that is really horrible. That's one of those things that you'll never be able to share with your wife because you'd be so ashamed. kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 17:01:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/masturbation_with_panties_on 102595 She's moving away, so be nice to her!!! It may seem impossible, but the time will go by quicker than you think. You will never regret being kind, but you will regret hurting someone. If you absolutely must, talk nicely to her about toning it down a little, but it would be really good of you to just stick it out. Good luck! kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 16:53:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_i_have_a_problem_545 102594 Yes, it is. Suicide is a mortal sin. There are circumstances in which it is not sinful, such as someone commiting suicide because they were very depressed or mentally ill. Otherwise, it is sinful. kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 16:49:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_suicide_a_sin 102591 OOh, very clever. Please funmail me the answer! :-) kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 11:19:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_124 102463 Aww, yes I do. I don't have a special someone right now, but I have a guy friend that I really like. But he's off limits...:-(. kay_kay Sun, 23 Sep 2007 11:16:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_u_do_this 102460