http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/karla I'm a quiet type of person, but I do have good opinions. en-us You're beautiful...I don't know why you'd even question it. karla Tue, 07 Aug 2007 15:09:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/yes_no 80408 Yes, it does hurt when he first starts putting it in. Tell him he has to go slow at first. The pain will go away once it's in all the way, so don't give up just because it hurts right away, it will get better. Butt sex can be very enjoyable for both of you, you just have to communicate with him & tell him if it starts to hurt so he can slow down. karla Wed, 01 Aug 2007 11:30:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_it_hurt_10236 76845 I don't think there's a problem with you, I think you just haven't found the right girl for you yet. Keep trying, except maybe not so hard. People tend to come into our lives unexpectedly. karla Wed, 18 Jul 2007 18:32:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_whole_problem_22_m 71760 I wouldn't call him. He broke up with you..give him time to realize what he's missing. That's what I did when my ex broke up with me, & now we're pretty much back together again. Just keep having fun!! karla Tue, 17 Jul 2007 19:02:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/getting_an_ex_back 71483 It sounds like you have a really sweet man. I think the saying about the door is about him wanting to explore new things now that he's with you, things that he would've never considered before. I guess I would just try to settle down & just see what happens. After all, you've only been together for 6 months, so you've only begun to know each other. I'm also in a long distance relationship, although we're not near as far apart as you two are, but I know how it feels to want to be with him so much, & never wanting to let go when you are together. I can help you out more if you'd like, just funmail me! karla Tue, 17 Jul 2007 18:55:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/internet_long_distance_love_affair 71482 When I got bored of using my fingers I went out & got a vibrator. They're not all that expensive, except for some of the more high-tech ones, like the Rabbit. karla Fri, 13 Jul 2007 19:16:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_can_i_use_apart_from_my_fingers 70465 You don't have to wait for him to ask you out..ask HIM out!! The times have changed..it's okay, & he'll probably admire you for your straightforwardness. Let me know how it goes! karla Fri, 13 Jul 2007 18:40:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/ask_me_out 70461 I think maybe you should continue to give her space & give her subtle little hints that you like her as more than a friend. If you get the same impression back from her in return maybe it's time to have a talk. If she really likes this other guy you should be careful not to intentionally try to break them up though, because that'll only push her away. She has to have alot of respect for you to put her relationship with you over her boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Who knows what could happen..many terrific relationships start with friendship & blossom into more. You're still young, give it some time. karla Tue, 26 Jun 2007 21:45:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/best_friend_1324 66803 Don't get married if you're not sure. I too was engaged when I was young, around 20, and I called off the engagement because I just wasn't sure if I was ready & if he was The One. You're still so young, don't settle for less than true love! If you need to talk to me I'd be more than willing to help you, so send me a Funmail if you want! karla Thu, 07 Jun 2007 14:10:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/confused_807 61771 Before calling it quits I think both of you need to go to marriage counseling together. Think back to the old days when you two were so in love & you did things together...try doing things that you used to enjoy doing together & maybe it'll bring your marriage back to life. karla Thu, 24 May 2007 14:51:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_145 58625 I'm almost 28 & I just recently figured out how to make myself how to cum when I masturbate. Different techniques work for different people. You just have to find what works best for you. I get off almost every time I have sex, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. karla Thu, 24 May 2007 14:41:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_663 58621 I don't understand how these women could not want to have sex! I would have sex every day of the week if I could--especially with a man so willing to please me. Couples need this sort of intimacy to keep the relationship going. karla Tue, 22 May 2007 23:12:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_wife_hates_sex_i_can_t_get_enough 58217 He probably has what is called rapid ejaculation. It is defined as persistent ejaculation with minimal stimulation. It is the most common male sexual dysfunction, but the good thing is that it is also the easiest one to treat. Remember that in order to be called a dysfunction this has to occur almost all of the time for 3 months or more. It can be caused by fatigue, diabetes, prescription drugs, neurological diseases, androgen deficiency, performance anxiety, a fear of pregnancy or STD's, or negative learning about sex. I suggest talking to your health care provider to get the best possible treatment for his problem. Hope this helps you. I know it can be frustrating, just know that it is not your fault. karla Tue, 22 May 2007 18:48:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_wrong 58172 You have to talk about these important issues & try to come to a middle ground that you can both agree on. Maybe he should do the cleaning & she should balance the finances. You should each do what you are best at, and divide chores in that way. karla Mon, 21 May 2007 21:34:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/finding_balance_125322 57904 Orgasms don't hurt...they feel very good. For a woman her muscles get tight & then when she orgasms tremors will go throughout the body, and the vagina will expand & contract. I don't know what it's like for a man. karla Sun, 20 May 2007 21:49:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/orgasims_130 57674 Talk to your friends to try to sort out your feelings. You may even want to consider talking to a counselor. Me and my bf just broke up 2 weeks ago & I've been experiencing some of the same feelings also, and friends can be a big help. It's very hard. If you need someone to talk to, I'd be happy to. Wish you the best. karla Sun, 20 May 2007 21:42:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stressed_out 57673 This guy is very confusing to me too. I think you just need to ask him what's going on, not other people. I'm trying to get over my ex too right now...It's very hard to do. In order to make him regret losing you I would suggest making yourself a better person, and pay special attention to your looks. Try to look extra hot when you know he might be around. karla Sun, 20 May 2007 21:24:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guys_are_confusing 57668 You can't make anyone feel love...it comes with time. You may just not be her type, and she just wants to be friends. You can't try to push anything on her, it'll just push her away. karla Sun, 20 May 2007 21:12:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/one_sided_loved 57663 At first it seems like love, but it doesn't usually last long & is based mostly just on looks. karla Fri, 18 May 2007 19:18:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_at_first_sight_3069 57243 Sorry to tell you hun, but yes I think he is using you. Find another guy who actually has some respect for you, and doesn't just call you when he needs some head. karla Fri, 18 May 2007 19:16:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_he_just_using_me 57242 I think that you should go talk to a counselor. You can't live just for your boyfriend, you have to live for yourself. karla Thu, 17 May 2007 22:46:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_feel_alone_1250 56994 Wow...I've never seen so many responses to one question! Anyways, me and my boyfriend of 10 months broke up about 2 weeks ago, and I really think that I'm gonna have a hard time getting over him also. He also caught me at a strange time in my life, a time when I didn't even want a boyfriend, but he captured my heart & we fell head over heals in love with each other. We live 6 hours apart and he's also in the process of getting a divorce....he's been separated the whole time we've been together (not my fault). He also has 2 kids with her. Anyways, his ex has been making his life a living hell & he just couldn't take the stress of everything anymore, so he broke up with me. Now he's saying that he doesn't feel like we'll ever get back together again, and that he's starting to move on with his life. We're still friends, we don't talk on the phone anymore, but we instant message each other from our computers. I just can't see how after all we have been through & how much love we had for each other, how he can just let go so easily. I still love him very much, and I probably always will. I'm almost 28, and he's the best match I've found yet. We could talk on the phone for hours about nothing. karla Thu, 17 May 2007 22:20:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_get_over_my_ex 56989 Were you actually rude to her lately? It's definetely difficult to try to move on after someone has broken up with you....I'm going though the same thing right now. If she really loves you back then she'll come back to you. Sometimes it just takes a person time to realize what they're missing out on. Go on with your life & try to be the best person you can be, & if she comes back to you, she comes back to you, if she doesn't then she didn't love you as much as you thought she did. karla Thu, 17 May 2007 21:07:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_gf_broke_up_with_me_n_i_really 56976 Every male has this happen to them about 3-5 times a night. You must just wake up at the right time. karla Thu, 17 May 2007 20:47:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_i_wake_up_like_this 56966 Yes, it's okay to do things alone sometimes. I go to the mall alone all the time, not because I don't have friends, but sometimes it's my only option. Get out & do things that you like to do, even if it is by yourself. Often times you'll find new friends that way. Good luck! karla Wed, 16 May 2007 19:03:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_i_do_about_my_close_guy_friend 56629