FunAdvice Advice from: kanka http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/kanka en-us Re: MY BOYFRIEND IS IN JAIL, what SHOULD I DO Well, I cant tell it is not easy. And no matter what people say, they cant feel as you do. I know it, cause I used to say the same crap untill I met my man. Unfortunately I had met him a moth befor he has been locked. It is 14 moths now. And I dont regret. But I would lie to you if isaid it is simple. Because It is not! It is the most complicated thing in my life. There is no one to talk to about it because people look down on you. When someone is in jail- it means he's a devil and you should be afraid of him. This is a truth, this is how people say. And it will never change. Only you and his famile know how he is. I found my man a wonderful person. The only problem is- he's in jail. And sometimes I sit on my bed and think - am I right? what to do? should I stay with him? should I be afraid? Its human that you are afraid. And you should face the problem. And I dont know. Honestly I miss him so much that I dont even feel it. Its sad but I always try to look ahead and think about future. The most important thing is for him to understand that it affects not only his own life. Lets hope our boys will understand that and will never do that again. Because than, I would not trust again. And well, I decided to risk and stay with him. Do what you feel... And you know, sometimes I wonder why other guys cant be as good to me as he is ;) weird how it works. Good luck everyone! kanka Fri, 16 May 2008 15:30:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_is_in_jail_wat_should 350764 Re: Want a tongue piercing but scared it will hurt Well, I think you will never be able to know if you dont try. I encourage you because its so worth it. And if you dont like it, you can get rid of it. It is not so bad as it looks like. I didnt feel anything. Remember that toungue is a special muscle. It doesnt have many nerves ;) think about it! plus when they do it, they stretch it and blood goes down ;) its a comon sense. But hey if you are afraid- dont do it. And well, this is what I think abouit it, but in the same time you must remember that everybody is different! I decided to make my toungue and belly button in the same time. And everybody says that belly b. does not hurt! And guess what??? .. . . . it has hurt as hell! ;) I have very tight skin and muscles there and the girl stopped for a split sec in the middle of doing it... she couldnt get through. I am glad she made a quick decision to do it. Because I would never let her start from the beginning!!! No way! Finally I have it. And it was worth it. I was very lucky to do it with professional. But as I said, if you dont try, you will never know how it is! ITS WORTH IT!!! kanka Fri, 25 Apr 2008 10:49:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/peircing_84439 324560 Re: Want a tongue piercing but scared it will hurt hiii! Listen! First of all - toungue doesnt hurt! This is a rule! You can see how they do it on YouTube. Looks creepy but doesnt hurt! I suggest you to go to proffesional salon or find a person who knows something about it. They should do it with a special equipment, loook at them, ask questions, talk as long as you find out everything you need...as long as you feel comfortable. They should answer your questions. The place where they do it should be clean. They should feel very comfortable and cant be nervous (no shaking hands!!!) and thats all! If you do it, I can tell you what to do later. I did it with my toungue and belly button. Know something abouit it. ;) message me if you like. See ya! kanka Fri, 25 Apr 2008 07:52:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/peircing_84439 324409 Re: Foreign attraction Its simple... because it is something different, something new ;) kanka Sat, 29 Mar 2008 12:38:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/foreign_attraction 287721 Re: Get rid of the smell of cigarettes? you can chew a mint leaves kanka Sat, 22 Mar 2008 08:46:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/get_rid_of_the_smell_of_ciggarettes 276199 Re: Hamster biting I dont think you're going to change this. Hamsters are like this. Weird animals and with trust...well, I used to have many of them. I couldnt change the way they were. some of thema were nice from the begining, some other - bad and its just about character. On the other hand, its still an animal so I suggest to try with something nice like a special cookie hamster. It might work... Good luck ;) kanka Sat, 22 Mar 2008 08:42:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hamster_biting 276197 Re: For the christians I was brought roman catholic...God has many faces ;) Who said we should close Him in one name "Christ" Lets not do it okej. kanka Sat, 22 Mar 2008 08:37:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/for_the_christians 276194 Re: Where is my period? wait with this test ;) it happens sometimes that the period is later than it should. Sometimes it comes after a month ;) be patient and dont wory! XX kanka Sat, 22 Mar 2008 08:28:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_question_of_the_day 276191 Re: Why do europeans hate americans? hey, canadian are not european and not americans at all! they are totally different! and by the way... americans are a bit like british people. weird on their funny way! kanka Sat, 22 Mar 2008 02:26:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_europeans_hate_americans 276033 Re: Unknown well, you will need some time I guess. The time will come when they will have a sex and understand you ;) Time! kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 10:24:25 -0700 274848 Re: What religion is right? you know, its the same like I would ask...which language is proper to use...or which language is right... there is no answer. ;) God is the same He just has different faces (for me anyways!) kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 10:15:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_religion_is_right 274834 Re: Sheep/sheeps? http://www.rala.is/beta/mapnord.htm http://student.britannica.com/comptons/article-207938/SHEEP http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheep kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:58:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sheep_sheeps 274788 Re: Can you have sex when your on your period? Sure you can. As long as you guys feel comfortable with it :P but having sex during your period is a bit different - your vagina is a...let me say - bigger, wider and it can happen that you will not feel your partner as much as you always do. And by the way. Its not so messy. Enjoy! kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:32:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/just_wodering 274741 Re: Nipple piercings on large breast? if you plann a kid one day and want to have your milk...dont risk ;) plus you can hurt yourself like ...above. anyways good luck and by the way, I think its hot! kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:25:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/nipple_piercings_on_large_breast 274728 Re: Can't reach orgasm silly question but... how do you guys do it then? kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:02:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_44 274691 Re: Does mail run on good friday? Hey, they should but it depends where you live... I've just got a parcel ;P kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:59:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/good_friday 274685 Re: What is a good way to get a zit gone without popping it camomile is also great. I dont know but maybe you can buy it in a drug store (in a box like a tea sachet) kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:52:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_277 274676 Re: What is a good way to get a zit gone without popping it http://www.google.ca/search?hl=pl&q=get+rid+of+zit&meta= I would suggest to use a lemon ;) kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:50:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_277 274673 Re: What is a good way to get a zit gone without popping it http://www.google.ca/search?hl=pl&q=get+rid+of+zit&meta= I would suggest to use a lemon ;) kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:50:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_277 274672 Re: How to feel better after my car was towed? you wrote "Today I went to the a Shopping Center on the Blvd. I admit I did not see the signs saying 'If you are not going to any of the stores in this shopping center you will be towed' I had to go across the street to the a store" So I have just one question- did you or did you not go to this shopping centre? And next question - how long did it take to you to realise your car was gone? and Finally how did they know that you were not going to this s. center ??? You shouldnt have paid! you could say you was going to go there and spend all day there (because this is what you are allowed to do acording the information on the signs) Or maybe I am wrong. Dunno. If you want, just write more about it. kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:41:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_advice_can_you_give_me_to_make_214187 274661 Re: Clitoris All right then...you are probably done with this problem but I will say a word in case someone else will looking for an answer. I know exactly what you mean. First of all the clitoris is the most, I say it again- the MOST sensitive place on woman's body. You cant play with it like it would be a nut to bite. Its very delicate and fragile. And its not about not touching it or suck or something, not at all. The point is to know how to do it. And this is good advise- never open the clitoris and touch it directly because its a "nerve" (not literally!) its too sensitive for it. thats why clitoris is situated under the skin. Covered by skin I ment. The top is a cover for clitoris. Lets call it a house. And if you open it to look inside and you are not delicate enough - it simply hurts. It is some kind of feeling like tickling but woman cant stand it. But you should remember one thing- not every woman feels the same. Maybe some girls like it. Dunno! So the best is to ask her about it. Ask her and be patient. I say it because the same thing happened to me. It was the worst experience in bed for me. My ex did it and it was sucha horrible feeling. I have never told hiom because he was very sensitive. I was afriad he would have a problem with it later. But I can say it hurts a lot and first its like tickling but you cant really stand it. And if anyone wants to play with clitoris, for god's sake dont do it like this. Please! It is really bad way to do it. So guys, good luck! kanka Fri, 21 Mar 2008 08:15:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/clitoris 274626 Re: My boyfriend In Jail Hi! Looking at the date you're probably done. Anyhow I want to say something too cause I have the same problem. Actually its not a problem for me. I've met a guy and I saw him once. It was 15 December 2006 and in march 2007 he've been locked up. Since that day we are in touch. We have been writting to each other for almost 7 months plus he has been calling me all this time. He calls me every day actually. I just want to say that I have never been happier. He is the person number one in my life. so silly how life can surprises you. Sometimes is's hard, sucks...specially that I can not meet him there. I am from europe and he's from canada. But I'm telling you guys, I havent been so happy with any of my ex boyfriends. We both agreed that if it wasnt for this we would probably have never met! And so at this point we are happy. We spend life together. I hope it will never change. Good luck everyone! kanka Wed, 19 Mar 2008 09:28:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_in_jail 271470 Re: My boyfriend In Jail Hi! Looking at the date you're probably done. Anyhow I want to say something too cause I have the same problem. Actually its not a problem for me. I've met a guy and I saw him once. It was 15 December 2006 and in march 2007 he've been locked up. Since that day we are in touch. We have been writting to each other for almost 7 months plus he has been calling me all this time. He calls me every day actually. I just want to say that I have never been happier. He is the person number one in my life. so silly how life can surprises you. Sometimes is's hard, sucks...specially that I can not meet him there. I am from europe and he's from canada. But I'm telling you guys, I havent been so happy with any of my ex boyfriends. We both agreed that if it wasnt for this we would probably have never met! And so at this point we are happy. We spend life together. I hope it will never change. Good luck everyone! kanka Wed, 19 Mar 2008 09:26:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_in_jail 271468