http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/judyy22 en-us always be yourself[: judyy22 Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:34:38 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_30_seconds_2_mars_an_emo_band 248259 Always be yourself[: judyy22 Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:33:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_to_do_when_your_parents_hate 248255 sucks for you. you wont ever get there trust back . ha unless you marry her or take her mom on a really expensive shopping spree[: judyy22 Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:22:55 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girlfriends_mom_caught_us_what 248239 maybe he is trying the 'im-going-to-be-mean-to-you-and-like-a-jerk-so-you-can-see-I-like' type thing or maybe he really is jerk.lol judyy22 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:52:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_guys_who_fancy_you_act_like_idiots 230870 maybe he is not interested? or maybe your smuthering him. or maybe he likes you too and does not know how to act around you. Act like he is not there and see what his reactions are judyy22 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:48:37 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_like_a_boy_752 230863 get a girl friend or boyfriend. judyy22 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:42:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/mastrubating_4164 230857 Although, I am not gothic or emo or any stero-type fr that I fact I find your question very amusing. its funny how you would care so much about you being blonde and wanting to be gothic that you would post this question on the internet for people to tell you what is okay and not okay. be yourself not what everyone else wants you to be. be UNIQUE. that is the beauty of life, that people can dress however they want and not have to worry about what other people think. if toue mother doesnt approve of you dying your hair black there is a reason. her reason must be: she wants you to be yourself and not to copy the 'stero-type' that people follow. I know some people that are gothic and dont have black hair, they dont wear black everday, in fact they sometimes where more color then I do. I think that what you are trying to do is a little poser-ish. all of the sudden be gothic. why? do you even know what gothic means? what is goth? there really is no true definition and if you want to be 'goth' you can and should be able to define it yourself. I understand that you are 13 and are just trying to find yourself. here is a tipp: wear what you want, listen to what you want, do what you want and dont listen to what others have to say. Just think about it, do you think Avril Lavigne woke up one day and said "I want to be Punk Rocker"? and goth is not something you be come in a couple of months, its not about being depressed and alone and cutting yourself its about BEING YOURSELF. and you dont need to pick and stero-type to be youself. judyy22 Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:40:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/style_question 230854