http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/jools95 en-us em sorry sweetie but if this is true your going to have to tell them i mean there going to find out sooner or later espically if they see your expanding bump,you really should let them or some one know and i would also go to the cops if your boyfriend raped you then thats assalt he cant be walking around free after doing something as horrific as that!!! please let some one know about the rape and pregnancy! xxx jools95 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 15:54:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnant_65 8021 well im from america so i dont know what "chavs" are but im assuming you dont hang around with "chavs" so to try ang get this girls attenion smile at her and say "hey" when you pass her in the corridor and huny if she still blanks you then shes stuck up and not worth it! it dont hurt to say "hey" back,i say hello to everybody.hope i helped xxx jools95 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 15:48:48 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girls_668 8020 honey i honestly think you should just take his mom aside sit her down and you should both just tell her how you feel yes she might be upset but dont delay it any further because it will only make things worse and harder to say,just explain that you apperciate her effort but you both arent ready to commit yet and marriage is a big thing tell her you would rather wait untill yous were both fully ready she should understand! the best of luck! xxx jools95 Tue, 31 Jan 2006 13:16:16 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfreinds_mom_is_literally_getting 7446 well im not to sure? im 17 and im 5 5 and i weigh 8 stone so i dont know? jools95 Sat, 28 Jan 2006 07:21:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/overweight_obese 7305 listen i seriously think you need to talk to your friend dont tell her what to do otherwise she will get wound up and tell you to mind your own business but what you should do is tell her your really worried about her and you really care about her and how she is,tell her your there to help and then tell her if she then wants to talk you will be there to listen i mean she probably really needs you right now so just be there for her dont judge her just listen and tell her what ever she wants to do you will help her along with cuz she will only go to an A.A meeting when shes good and ready so dont force her! jools95 Tue, 17 Jan 2006 13:57:22 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_think_my_friends_an_alcoholic 6964 well she did ave a boyfriend but doesnt any more,i think she might be a little scared of losing me thats all! jools95 Mon, 09 Jan 2006 13:37:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boyfriend_trouble_with_best_friend 6600 yeah of corse its possible!! jools95 Sun, 08 Jan 2006 16:01:18 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dont_kno_how_2_answer_this 6556 yeah of corse its possible!! jools95 Sun, 08 Jan 2006 16:01:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dont_kno_how_2_answer_this 6555 well yes you do have to tell him he is going to see you walking around with a bump hun and he does have a right to know hes going to be a father and as far as you dont want him in your life or the babys you will have to tell him that and if he wants to see the baby he has every right to and it could go to court! xxx jools95 Sun, 08 Jan 2006 13:41:47 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnant_and_broken_up 6545 this is where as your giving head "oral sex" to your partner when he cums in to your mouth the two of yous make out "kiss" (after he ejaculates in your mouth) and the sperm is shared between you and your partner jools95 Sun, 08 Jan 2006 13:35:12 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/snowblowing_answer 6544 okay its when you get a wax that leaves you totally bare down there and in alot of pain! jools95 Fri, 06 Jan 2006 09:47:48 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_the_hell_is_a_braziallian_wax 6464 hey girl! i know the main song that i love 2 lap dance to and its got 2 b n.e.r.d "lapdance" cuz as the words go "well you can this lapdance here for free!" i love that song! and trust me its one of the easiset songs to actually lapdance to cuz its actually about lapdancin! jools95 Fri, 06 Jan 2006 09:37:10 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/lap_dance_music 6463 thanks you guys yeah i took it later on today so hopefully il b okay! xxx jools95 Fri, 06 Jan 2006 06:38:15 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/could_i_be_pregnant_forgot_the_pill 6458 god honey you poor thing i honestly think you should get your self to a doctor and dont be scared bring a really close girlfriend along with you and it wont be as nerve racking! and your right dont let him talk you in to havin an abortion i know every one has there different views on that subject but i dont agree with it! just see if your pregnant first i know a freind that took 3 home tests and they all came out positve and then when she went to the doctors he confirmed she wasnt! good luck sweetheart and let me know how you get on xxx jools95 Fri, 06 Jan 2006 06:33:56 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_help_me_pregnancy_crisis 6457 well i use to go horse riding and that broke my hymen then from using tampons and being fingered and shit like that but anyways i know i didnt bleed the first time i had sex and thats not only because i was alredy broken because my friend dint bleed either her first time and she had never done anything that might cause her hymen to brake ya know! xxx jools95 Thu, 05 Jan 2006 17:16:15 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/virginity 6409 i dont think you would class fingering or handjobs as sex sex is sexual intercorse and thats that i think but i do know peole that refer to blowjobs as sex not oral sex just sex now thats kinda mad! jools95 Thu, 05 Jan 2006 16:57:51 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_sex 6408 well i personally think that if you and your mom are close if your sitting down with her one night bring up the subject about pot b like oh mom theres this girl in my school and she smokes pot what do you think of that? u know say dat kinda thing and c what her reaction is then let her know that you think its bad and she might wanna give it up! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 17:30:14 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/a_few_days_ago_i_found_my_moms_stash 6372 hey! i know this might sound sick but me and my ex watched porn together before and we both got really turned on so turned on we fucked the foreplay and moved straight on to sex or pretend to be strangers and are only after meeting! or you know what last year for my ex boyfriends birthday i dressed up as a french maid and he loved it! hope i helped a lil! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 17:06:46 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_get_her_to_try_new_things 6369 god yeah your right hun y dont you replace the computer cuz no matter how hard you try you aint going to stop him lovin porn every fella does he will probably still masterbate to it though! jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 16:13:05 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/porn 6365 you could do 69 or doggy style? my favourite is the plumber you stay up all night and nobody cums! (just kiddin!) but no seriously get a karma sutra book or sumtin my ex bought me 1 last year as part of my xmas present and it really spiced up our sex life! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 15:53:06 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_some_new_sex_positions 6361 hey dude! what a lil biatch! shes probably just taking advantage of you cuz you seem like a decent guy! shes a bit of a hypocrite if shes going around doing all this slutty stuff her self then calling your friends sluts and whores thats not on! dont put up with that type of bullshit i know i certainly wouldnt!! you should sit her down talk to her and let her know how you feel! hope i helped! let me know how you get on! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 15:16:16 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girlfriend_is_using_me 6355 OMG! sorry but my friends lil sister is 14 and her boyfreind is 18 (we didnt know about this at the time!) and she was dating him in secret like she didnt even tell any of us and 1 night he got her really drunk and totally took advantage of her and took her virginity and she was no way near ready! when we found out we went mental at him!we havent let him near her since and she doesnt wanna go near him either! but i dont know do you trust him thats what you should ask yourself! he could be just really in to you but what 18 year old want off a 14 year old? maybe it is sex maybe its not im not sure i dont know the guy but just be wary babes! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 15:01:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hes_18_im_14 6350 the only way you can be sure is if you are 100 percent totally ready and if you feel like your also mentally ready aswell! and seen as though your having doubts i wouldnt go through with it if i were you also sweetheart think about wether or not you really wanna lose your virginity to an ex that was only kinda using you 2 get his bit! hope i helped! xxx jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 14:35:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_ready 6347 thanks! i actually was out with a few girlfriends today and i saw him and he said hello it was weird! but maybe its because my friend nikki with out telling me told me todat that recentley she was talking to him and she told him that he was being a total jerk ignoring me and that i was really upset and now hes being okay with me? jools95 Wed, 04 Jan 2006 14:25:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_522 6346 i dont agree with that i was with a guy (he was my boy friend)and im only 17 and i lost my virginity to him last year when i was 16 and i was ready it wasnt great but first time sex never is,but we were with each other for along time and i really loved him and i know he really loved me too i think it all depends on how mature you are and on how mentally able you are! xxx jools95 Tue, 03 Jan 2006 15:52:20 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_are_you_ready 6293