http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/jmc201824 en-us how close is close? and did he finish close to you? it might be just because you are making yourself nervous about it, so your making yourself feel sick and sore. but those symptoms are also symptoms of your period. if you feel like it could be the real thing take a test. sperm can live in you for up to 7 days. so "conception" might not even happend to you that night, if at all.i have never honestly heard of anyone getting pregnate when you havent actually had sex but just because i have never heard of it doesnt mean it cant happen. ya never know. take it from someone who psyced herself out when i thought i was preg. the more i thought about it and worried about it the more symptoms i had. and then i got my period....lol.. relax, take a test and beleive those results. hope this helps jmc201824 Sun, 02 Apr 2006 18:51:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dizziness_ect 10781