http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/jlamb3 en-us its really a decision for you to make. if you feel like your really ok with her going out and having her "fun" break then u can do it. a lot of times though these fun times can be brought up in arguements and often makes things worse. you should try out some fun too and see how it works. my ex and i have been broken up for almost 6 months now but have talked off and on the last 3. she says she still is madly in love with me and dreams of marrying me and having a family but is scared to death of our relationship. in the beginning i was a very jealous person and when i got a grip she was so used to it that it just went more and more downhill. well twice we got in a really bad fight and i yelled at her and said terrible things. i really wish i could fix this but i dont know how. she tells me that she is afraid i will try to run her life when i have no intentions of doing that. i have only the intent to love her the best i can, i just need her to believe me. how do i gain her trust back? jlamb3 Fri, 14 Jul 2006 19:23:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_i_still_love_my_ex_girl_friend 16579