FunAdvice Advice from: jazlovestoskate http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/jazlovestoskate hey im jasmine. i am very open minded. and i love skateboarding!! its pretty much all i do. i am also a skateboard collector, with around 66 in my collection so far. i have 36 peircings, with more to come. as well as that i make goth,horror and punk dolls, clothes, shoes, jewelrey, bags and just about everything else, im also obsessed with the finnish band HIM. i know a lot about a wide variety of subjects so im just here to give you all advice really. i also dont believe in "god" and dont want to hear anything about being saved, going to hell, blah, blah, blah i accept people for there beliefs but shove your religion down my or someones throat, and your in for a rude awakening same goes if you attempt to insault me en-us Re: Confused and Dissatisfied your not being selfish and anyone who breaks up with someone for 5 minutes osunds stupid I really dont think shes taking the relationship seriously ...if she was I would have said you two should communicate more, tell her how you feel ect theres lots of other ways to keep in contact with someone other than with the phone but if she only does it when it suits her best shes not really respecting anything you want as I said it doesnt sound like shes taking the relationship seriously so you might want to think about were being with her is going if its not making you happy, dont continue the relationship jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 06:52:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/confused_and_dissatisfied 428651 Re: Shiny pokemon in ruby edition I dont think you can unless you already have one for example if you hve pokemon silver, gold or maybe crystal even the red garados at that lake is a shiny pokemon then once you have a shiny pokemon you can breed them at the breeding center in silver and gold, either with another of that kind, or a ditto if you can get a shiny ditto then you can breed it with any other pokemon and they should have a shiny baby pokemon then you can trade them into ruby or leaf green with the link cable jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 05:28:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/theupqph34uheojewq9q3429hewiupqwpoeqiuhr2 428603 Re: Sex, please help dont worry its very likely that he DIDNT hit anything down there he most likeley did however rip your hymen (which doesnt just rip from sex...also things like tampons, sports and horesriding) thats why you bled, because your hymen was ripped if it hurt it probably meant that you werent 100% comfortable and relaxed ...you need to relax and not tense up, or sex can hurt more any pain you feel now should go away in a few days if it doesnt though, you should see the doctor just to be sure everything down there is ok also I hope you two used a condom otherwise you could be pregnant or have an sti/std jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 05:00:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_please_help_2811 428583 Re: Can I be pregnant and still have a period? yes, you can be usually if you were the period would be pretty light but its still possible to get pregnant and have your period its just not as likley as any other time of the month but still possible because sperm can live in your body for up to 7 days jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:57:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_i_be_pregnant_and_still_have_4945 428580 Re: Sex before period yes a girl can get pregnant at ANY time of the month its just NOT AS likely to happen if shes on her period but its still possible sperm is also in pre-cum guys have no control over that as well as that sperm can survive in the body for up to about 7 days so it is extreemely likley to happen if no protection or method of birth control is used jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:55:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_before_period 428579 Re: How to look older/fool club bouncer? you need id proof of your identity and proof of your age they generally check that and they can also generally pick out who happens to have a fake id at 15 I dont think your should try to dress/act any older then you already are the clubbing scene isnt just filled with dancing ...a lot of promiscuouse stuff goes on in there not to mention drugs and also drink spiking, which occurs now all too often if thats the kind of thing you want to get into though make sure you know how to take care of yourself, your freinds and be resposible and safe eg. dont take a lift somewere or home with people you dont know or have just met sure, you probably dont want to hear all this crap now but clubs can be dangerouse, and a lot of bad things can happen once your inside the bouncers/batrender ect dont make any effort to see how "safe" the people are acting or being jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:52:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_look_older_fool_club_bouncer 428576 Re: Harry potter, the films and books I only read the first book...I dont really read books because there too long! but I though the first movie was very, very good the others that followed however just kept loosing the plot and by the end really made no sense and had a rediculous storyline...and some equal rediclous special effects but I thought the first movie was great jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:43:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/harry_potter_about_the_films_books 428569 Re: Who's sick of jonas brothers questions? I dont like them at all and YES!! im sick of there questions NO ONE here or anywere knows there email, numbers or things like that no one but them, and the people close to them NO ONE knows how to contact them, exept there manager I peronally hate the "stupidness" of the questions asked eg "omg the jonas brothers are so hot, nick is my fave blah blah blah, if anyone has there number you have to give it to me" ect I also hate whn these kids say "hating them means your jeouse" because no it doesnt, it just shows how overly obsessed you are about something but really...its just like back in the 90's when everyone like the backstreet boys to a lot of young kids, this is a faze music tastes change over time and majority of the people who love them now wont in another 2-5 years theyll move on and love the next popular hot looking thing that jumps on the celebrity bandwagon jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:40:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/who_s_sick_of_jonas_brothers_questions 428566 Re: Should I tell the truth whether I'm emo? just tell the truth you have every right to feel the way you do or label yourself as that just like everyone else labels themselves as say a gangster, jock, prep, nerd, goth, punk, ect, ect and you shouuld never feel embarrased or ashamed of who you are or that you have to hide it be honest with yourself and to other people of course not everyone will understand and respect it theres people who like emos, theres people who dont no one all likes the same thing so tell the truth, youve got every right to jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:27:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_truth_184683 428553 Re: Whats the best way to hide that you're emo from your folks? if its who you are you should waste time in hiding but just know that self harm is self harm and it has nothing to do with being "emo" if you like the style, music ect then dont hide that sure not everyone is going to respect ot but stay true to yourself dont follow a steryotype though just to be "cool" or because you think people will understand you more, ect im sure your parents love you ...just tell them, im sure theyll just think its a fze or something and let it slide if you seriose about catergorizing yourself as emo, tell them that your parents generally love you, no matter who you are, what you do, or what you lable yourself as jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 02:28:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hiding 428458 Re: Is size 10 in skinny jeans for a guy fat? your girlfreind sounds a bit materialistic sixe 10 is not fat were not talking about size 20 ...were talking about size 10 which is a pretty average and very common size many people are a size 10, many other people wish rthey were a size 10, ect and size 10 doesnt always mean size 10 all stores sizes are different with one brand you could be an 8, in another you could be a size 12 even clothes arnt reliable in dtermining how "fat" you think you are so no, your not fat jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:51:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_size_10_in_skinnie_jeans_for_a 428438 Re: Old woman dating advice hmmm you could maybe try a part time job at someplace like a checkout, food/ resturaunt, a bar even, ect a lot of older men hand out around there ...if you really want to find one quick you could get a part tme fob at a liqure store! no doubt there will be lots of older men there! also maybe yo could volounteer at places you knwo therell me man ...you could also try hanging out at common places like a newsagent, or were guys usually need to go to get there everyday things hope thats helped a bit! jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:48:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/old_woman_dating_advice 428436 Re: Isnt it supposed to be the guy to ask the girl out? theres nothing wrong with either gender asking someone out you cant always just expect someone else to do it you need to sum up the courage and take the step just as much as men do because there not always going to ask the girls out an if fact, most guys would prefer that a girl asked them out instead of the other way around jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:29:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/me_vs_friends_isnt_it_supose_to_b 428426 Re: Cherry poppage yep, sounds like he ripped your hymen (aka popped your cherry) your hymen is a small peice of skin down there however it can also be broken from things like tampons, sport, horse riding, ect jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:27:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/cherry_poppage 428424 Re: If we were to have sex, what are his chances of dumping me? are you sure your both 100% ready? or do you just want to have sex in a hope that it will keep you together? men like girls who wait but really they are just happy waiting for the girl untill shes ready...no matter how long or short that time amount is. I would advise you to think about this some more not every relationship works out, no matter what you think you could do to save it so if you both have sex and later break up you could un up with a regret so think about it first dont just have sex to keep your relationship going and as for getting pregnant thats what condoms are for they protect you against both pregnancy and sti/stds if used right theres also many other forms of contraception and birth control you and him can also use so search around, google things learn about stds, pregnancy, contracpetion and birth control learn how you could get them, what they do, how effective they are, ect and try to learn whats a myth and whats a fact jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:21:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/curiosity_killed_the_cat_71243 428422 Re: Am I a terrible person? first off you need to get help for your eating disorder ...right now you need to tell someone about it because this isnt something you can get over yourself or something that can just be put aside...tell your mum, a doctor, councellor, ect you must get help with that first if you want to give your baby the best chance in life if you continue not eating right your baby can have many health problems and if you done eat, its not getting any nutrients and nothing to grow on so your baby can easiy die if you dont eat this is why you MUST get help, right now its probably seems scary but the sooner you get it over and done with the better chance your child will have at life you really do need to talk to the doctor to make siure your body can even handle the baby because depending on how long youve had the disorder for and haw bad it is... your body might not be able to keep 2 things living at once so do talk to someone about it and get help ...your not a horrible person, you just have an eating disorder and if you get help for it thats the best thing you can do jazlovestoskate Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:06:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_a_terribel_person 428414 Re: Is it weird for a girl to skate? no, I love skating! it is weird though when people do it for attention or just to get guys or something jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:12:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/skating_55441 428251 Re: Skateboards in my opionion Blind is the best and really strong too but it depends if your just starting out or already know how to skate it might be easier to get a k-mart or wallmart skateboard first instread of fork up $200+ for a good setup because you might give up or think this isnt for you so id say get a cheaper one to practice with then if you love skateboarding and want to keep up with it, geta more expensive one also second hand stores can sell skateboards they usually have some good random set-ups for under $100 jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:11:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/skateboards 428248 Re: Game boy advance questions no, you cant send messages to people in the same room the link cable is only for things like trading or battling someone else its not like a phone or anything and no, it doesnt connect to the wii and you can still save your games and data its just that if the battery dies in the middle of you playing and you didnt save your progress THEN it will be lost its pretty much like having a gameboy but with some better games jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:09:12 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/game_boy_advance_questions 428244 Re: How do I get my hair to poof? teasing or backcombing is what you do get a section of hair, start near your crown and comb backwards towards the roots starting for about 1 quarter down your hair backcomb the same section a few times and use hairspray to keep it in place also try to remember majority of those "scene" girls are photoshoped and dont look that "perfect" or "flawless" in real life jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:06:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_get_my_hair_to_poof 428240 Re: Black Outs it happens to a lot of people sometims it due to sitting down and then standing up really suddenly its also likely to happen when your out in the sun and say were playing sport or are dehidrated and havent had a drink in a while so try to avoid that and keep hydrated with water also when you black out you should go back to normal after just have a bit of a rest were you are and then drink some water jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:03:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/black_outs 428236 Re: Is this normal? it depends I could either go away in a few months or it coud be an infection or its your skin probably due to the back of the peircing sinking into your skin or something jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:01:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_normal_1454 428234 Re: Almost Famous Movie yep I've seen it, I like it, and think its a good movie its also good because it doesnt exactly have a happy ending ...youd think kate and the journilist would end up together at the end but they dont! they just go there seperate ways jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 22:00:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/almost_famous_movie 428232 Re: My sister is 15 and she weighs 91 is that normal ? it depends on what you mean...kilos, peunds, ect? if its pounds then no, thes is quite a bit underweight and its not normal, or healthy she possibly might have an eating disorder too especially of shes constantly worrying about food, her weight, and cutting food out of her diet or not eating to try to get thinner but if its kilos then she might be a bit overweight also depending on her height though jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 21:58:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/calories_8530 428228 Re: How much will it cost me to pierce my tongue? they can cost anywere from $40-$70 depending on were you go $60 is a good common amount to pay and lower or higher then you might want to look around and see if it looks profesional jazlovestoskate Tue, 15 Jul 2008 21:45:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/grosss_157379 428208