http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/herrinmom en-us great to know i'm not the only woman with these feelings. I ran into a guy last summer that I was so in love with back in my early 20's. We talked for a while and that was it. Then in January he called me and we've been talking and meeting once a week since. Nothing happened until a few weeks ago we kissed and groped like teenagers! Since then we've met more often. Problem, he's married and so am I and we both have kids. He know's now how I felt about him all those years ago. Neither of us want to end our marriages, but neither of us is in love with our spouses. We are holding on because of our kids and we don't want to break up our families. We both want to advance this to sex, but we are both scared of the consequences and if we will be able to stop at some point. (like before we fall head over heals in love with each other) He makes me feel so good and sexy. Something I've been missing for so long. My husband is a great lover, but I don't love him. Truth be told I don't know that I ever really did. What a tangled web we weave for ourselves. herrinmom Sat, 29 Apr 2006 19:05:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/married_and_wanting_to_have_an_affair 12363