http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/grimreaper78 en-us I did mean the site and not the people in general. My bad for not conveying my thoughts properly! It is silly though. They aren't bad or even rude words. That ARE there proper names! grimreaper78 Thu, 17 Jan 2008 19:26:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_really_is_a_douchhe 191404 Skin color doesn't matter! Try looking into the exotic gypsy look. It looks fantastic on more exotic people! It's a good look for some white people too! grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:55:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/gothic_look_on_dark_skin 190291 I've been using Almay liquid eyeliner for years! Practice makes perfect! grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:45:36 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/eyes 190284 There are groups of Christians that are into the gothic subculture. They have web sites and you can find them if you look hard enough. I saw an ad for one in the back of Gothic Beauty magazine. grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:42:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/goth_christianity_is_there_such_thing 190281 Look however you want to look! There are many different gothic looks. We don't all have black hair and wear all black although that is the popular color! How would mom feel about platinum blonde? It's smooth and striking but also alittle more main stream. It could be a good compromise and it looks great against darker clothing! Do a image search for goths and gothic and just see what strikes you as beautiful and just be true to yourself. I've been doing this for over ten years and it's NOT about evil and depression. We like to laugh and have fun just like everyone else! grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:38:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/style_question 190277 Goths had to be more creative back in the day. We had to go to thrift stores and/or make our own clothes. I still do. : ) Hot Topic open it's first store in Montclair, CA. when I was in high school and it was waaay more goth back then! It was kinda cool seeing stuff we liked in the mall of all places! It sucks now as you might have knowtased but there was a time when it was kinda cool. grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 17:44:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hot_topic 190112 That sperm could have been well on it's way to it's destination while you were sitting there wondering. There are BILLIONS in one load! Sperm can also survive in your body for up to 2 weeks waiting for an egg. Get your self a book and read up on your body! grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 17:30:06 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_i_be_pregnant_1907 190094 Alright, peeweelee. You said you came from a prejudice family and you never said that you yourself did not share your families views. Therefor your distaste for him was suspicious. It still seems like race is still an issue here. He doesn't sound like a winner but to be fair, I really don't think most of us knew exactly what we wanted in life at 20. I don't balme you for wanting more for your daughter. Hopefully she has some sort of positive male role model in her life and that this guy is just a phase. grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 17:23:30 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_white_girls_want_to_date_black 190088 I have Epilepsy and brian8you is right about trying to get them on their side. I say "try" because if they are having a grand mal seizure, all of the muscles in their body will be tense and ridged so it might be difficult. Never, and I mean, NEVER try to stick anything into the persons mouth. I know a lot of people have heard that you should try this but don't. They will bite right through it and it could become lodge in their throat and they could die. Especially never your fingers. You will loose them. After she comes out of it. Start by asking her very simple questions like, "Do you know who I am?" or "How old are you?" If might take her awhile but don't be alarmed if she doesn't answer right away. Her brain is trying to make itself right again. Seizures are like little electrial storms in the brain. Neurons in the brain firing off at the wronge time in the wrong place basically. You sound like a good guy so hold her and tell her she will be alright. It's hard to deal with sometimes. Trust me, I know! grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 17:01:28 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/seizures_and_epilepsy 190078 It's bottle that is usually filled with warm water and vinegar and it is used to "clean" the inside of the vagina. However, there is really no need. The vagina is a self-cleaning unit and unless there is something going on down there, it isn't nessesary. One popular myth is that if you douche after having unprotected sex, you can't get pregnant. This is NOT true in case anyone was wondering. One more thing. Vagina isn't a bad word. Neither is penis. Why are people using *'s in these words. Dumb. grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 16:35:41 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_really_is_a_douchhe 190045 Well, go by yourself a test and see what it says. Your 24 so you're not TOO young to have a kid but that doesn't mean your ready. Have a friend go with you for emotional support and relax. There's no use in getting worked up until you know for sure. One step at a time! Get one of the tests that has two tests in a box just in case. Good luck, kid! ; ) grimreaper78 Wed, 16 Jan 2008 16:25:49 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_know_if_i_am_pregnant_11986 190032 Who knows why your daughter prefers black and mexican men. Have you tried asking her in a non judgemental, non racist manner? If she's young she could very well just be doing it to piss you off and wherefor it might just be a phase if that's how she was raised to view other races. Unfortunatly... I don't understand why people have color preferences at all. Who a person is on the inside is what matters. Not the color of someones skin. We shouldn't still be having this conversation in the 21st century! Try taking a look at why you think he's "worthless". Are you sure it's not just because he's Mexican? It sounds like it is. Ask youself honestly: Have I really given this guy a chance? grimreaper78 Mon, 14 Jan 2008 21:43:23 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_white_girls_want_to_date_black 187974 Everyones is different. Some guys prefer small breasts, some like large ones, but I think most guys will agree that a nice handful is just right. They just like boobs in general. That's just an estetic preference though. It's only one small part of a much bigger package...You! Whatever size you are, to some guys they will be the perfect size! grimreaper78 Mon, 14 Jan 2008 21:22:34 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/boobs_92771 187955 It's totally normal. It's just something guys do. They're usually alittle more subtle about it the older they get. I tease my boyfriend when I catch him in the act! grimreaper78 Mon, 14 Jan 2008 21:01:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_i_do_if_i_think_my_bf_is 187935 If your fantasy is to be raped by a man, you are not "100% straight". Sorry. Do some soul searching. Maybe you're just bi but even if you're gay, so what? grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:43:12 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_to_be_raped 180603 A doctor wouldn't tell anyone that. It's totally false! It's not even less likely to get someone pregnant in this position! She's playing you for a fool! It sounds like she wants you to get her pregnant. I think she's flat out lying to you on purpose. Keep an eye on that girl, that is a HUGE RED FLAG!! grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:24:06 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_answer_is_this_true 180584 Let's look at the word "normal" you've been throwing around. It seems that what is normal for you is to be gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay and I hate to break it to you, but if you try to make yourself straight you will be miserable. Do you want to marry a woman and have childern while living with this secret? Do you really want to live a lie like that? It doesn't sound fun. If you're friends and family love you they will except the truth in time. It might take a very long time and it won't be easy but it's better to be true to yourself then to lie to yourself and everyone around you. To the people that have shown you so much love and support in other aspects in your life. If these people are as wonderful as you say they are, they deserve the truth. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:53:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_eliminate_this_confusion_about 180531 If you were born 1/3/1995 when you're 13 years old. Nice try but I can add, thank you. Both you and your cousin are too young to be having sex just yet. You need to start with the basics. At 13, you should be exploring your own body, not someone elses. It's part of growing up. Read up on your body. Knowledge is power. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:39:33 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/first_time_having_sex_i_need_help 180501 Come on people! Sure, the way in which he chose to ask was abit off color but it's still a valid question none the less. Grow up! To answer your question: Everyone is different. Some girls do it everyday and some girls don't do it at all (but they should) It's a perfectly normal thing for a guy of any age to wonder about. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:32:05 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_often_5719 180488 Perfectly normal. Don't waste another minute worrying about it! grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:23:28 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_my_penis_supposed_to_be_more_then 180465 Your hymen is located at the entrance to your vagina, so yes, you can see it from the outside. Virginity line? That's a new one to me. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:16:07 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hymen_or_virginity_line_are_they 180457 There was actually a 5 year old in South America. Very sad. She and the baby did live though. No joke! Look it up! grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:13:08 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_youngest_u_ever_seen_sum1_pregneat 180450 You're 13. I hope to god that you're joking. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:11:43 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/group_sex 180449 Sometimes if you have questions or advice about sex it's better to talk to someone who is alittle old than you. It's ok and perfectly normal to talk to other girls your age about things that are on your mind but with some topics it can be a case of the blind leading the blind. Us older girls where all 15 once too and remember what it's like. Just something to think about... grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:09:46 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_talk 180444 First of all, why aren't you using condoms anymore? Second, you shouldn't keep condoms in your wallet for extended periods of time because it could get damaged and be less effective when you do use it. grimreaper78 Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:02:13 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/comdoms 180428