http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/fatchic en-us I was in the same situation even while in college. I graduated 15 years ago, have a wonderful husband and 2 wonderful kids, but still go through depression about it. My father was extremely abusive (physically, emotionally, verbally) on top of being controlling, invasive, and possessive. All I can say is that you WILL get through it. Also, one piece of advice: you may have a tendency to let loose and enjoy newfound freedom in college, but don't screw up your grades like I did. fatchic Mon, 07 Jan 2008 12:12:56 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_t_live_my_life_with_strict_and 179924