http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/erin182 hi, i'm Erin :-) i'm from england, but i've lived in australia since i was 11. i live with my boyfriend of 5 years, Dylan :) technically, i'm an only child, but i have a step brother, but he's as good as a real brother. i'm 19 this year, studying at university to be a lawyer, i love kids, and i can't wait to have them but i want to wait until i've sorted my career out, but if the time came, i'd still be very happy :) i work in a hair salon, i love doing peoples hair, and my own. my perfect day is a lazy morning in my apartment, in my pjs, with dylan, then lounging around on the beach all day, burger king, then a dvd back at home, bliss. i love giving advice, and ill help anybody i can with anything i can, so feel free to funmail me or anything like that (: en-us I thought it happened when the times right but seen as I just found out today I'm pregnant before I went into my last exam to leave uni, not the best time! :) have a chat with your gp, or maybe your boyfriend has a low sperm count? it could be a number of reasons but it'll happen :) erin x erin182 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 19:03:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_come_i_am_not_pregnent_yet 272405 you are not a slut, been pregnant doesnt make you a slut, you have to do whatever you feel is right, for you and the baby, whats meant to happen will and whats meant to be is, don't let someone tell you to do something you dont want, it'll be hard but, at least you'd be doing what YOU feel is right x erin182 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:46:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_in_desperate_need_of_help 272152 mine healed in about 3-4 weeks? and it didnt hurt at all, the only thing that was painful was the clamp and that just feels like a little nip :) erin182 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:26:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/belybutton_piercing 272125 as far as I know the only thing that makes your boobs bigger is a boob job, a push up bra, padded bra or gel pads in your bra, NOT flexing sorry :) erin182 Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:25:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/flexing_your_boobs 272121 not bad cheek for a '9 year old' eh! I'm a smiley ! half english half australian and live in aussie, nearly 19, live with my boyfriend, laugh all the time, but I get in trouble for my gob sometimes because I say what I think, not always a good thing! :) why what are yoo like seen as yer added me? xx erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:09:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_are_you_like 265322 noo I bloody well dont missus I want opinions to help me! because whatever I do I want to stick to it and that be it so I want to be sure! :) erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:05:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hair_colour_7202 265313 I've got pictures of me when I was blonde and when I was brunette but I duno? :S erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:02:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hair_colour_7202 265305 I know where your coming from, I've lied to my boyfriend dylan about it before, because I have a few male friends and he does get really jelous so we argue a lot when I love my friends as brothers and nothing more, and I said I was going out with just the girls, but I met my friend toby for a dribk before, and he saw us sao it looked V.BAD. just explain the mix up to him and he'll understand, say you know your lied and that your sorry but he has to think to his self why you did lie. you'll get sorted out I'm sure of it (: erin x erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:48:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_show_him_i_care 265284 well, you could try and make a move, and judge things from there by her reaction, it could be a number of things, she could be playing mind games, she could be trying to be polite, showing off, shy, nervous, or telling the truth, could be loads of reasons. yeah she might be scared, that your going to end up like all the guys who havent treated her right, if you do make a move and she acts positivly towards it, make it clear how much you care about her and your not going to be like these other guys, and all that she has to do is give you a chance, if she genuinely does just want to be friends, I think shes been careless and cruel if she is flirting with you and comparing you, so if she does want to be friends and friends only but still compares you, make it clear that she shouldnt be comparing you because your only friends, or just come right out and ask her on the spot if she likes you because you like her. you could write her a letter with everything you want to say and either mail it or let her read it infront of you, at least that way you have had time to thin kabout it and you wont forget what to say. tell her your not been pushy or clingy but you simply want to know if shes interested or not, and if she isnt you can move on with your life and find someone who is. hope this helps, good luck and let me know how you get on :) Erin x erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 07:06:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_have_a_problem_please_help 265141 it does hurt but its over so fast you only feel it for a little while, the only thing I dont like is that you can hear it, but it really is over in seconds and it'll just be sore for a few days like any piercing would be. erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 06:55:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_it_17740 265127 erm, its nice but a bit plain just been honest, you'd of got a bubbily comment normally but I don't like people who brag about things and are full of theirselves, weather its great or not. erin182 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 06:53:14 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_my_hair_gorgeous_or_what 265122 awww your gorgeous, ignore nasty comments, just jelously! good luck! x erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 14:32:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_think_im_ugly_21923 261065 I think of myself as english because I was brought up there, but my dads english and my moms australian, I moved back t oaustralia when my mom and dad divorced when I was 11, my boyfriends half italian half australian, so seen as were both mixed I dont know what that would make our kids if we ever have them! erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 11:08:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hmm_just_out_of_curiosity 260786 bloody hell you should me in my shoes for a day I eat everything! I'm not very weight concious though because I dont care, I dont pile it on heavy because im always running around at work and at home and running after someone doing something etc, but I do love to go swimming, thats great exercise, and its fun :) erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 10:39:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/13_and_i_weigh_70kg 260758 sambuca is nice, or malibu and coke! cocktails make good party drinks, get a cocktail book and they tel lyou the best ones and how to make them erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 09:11:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wats_tha_best 260645 you wont go to hell, ignore the religion when it comes to this, as long as you have one before three months, lemmalism3568 said, its just a little seed at that point, you wont go to hell, if people say you will then why is god in heaven for allowing his own son who was an actual life to die in such a horrible way? erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 08:03:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_abortion_murder 260575 then get off this website then because people do on here! erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:53:07 -0700 260560 ignore these jerks! ITS AN ADVICE WEBSITE. why be on it if your going to be total idiots. why not put them in a summer cap for some space? day care? youth clubs? get a babysitter so you have some space? go on holiday with your husband and leave them with someone you trust, I know you love your kids, but every mom needs a break once I a while! erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:50:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/3_kids_and_alot_of_stress 260549 I used to make blu-tac men when was little. but I don't know who invented it. sorryyy. check on google erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:47:13 -0700 260540 shes your mom and she loves you, so expect it im afraid! I'm nearly 19 so younger than you, and I've just got an apartment with my boyfriend, my mom wasnt so bad about the idea because we've been together 5 years, but if you look at my asked questions, I mentioned that she wouldnt leave us alone! and I felt like id never moved out because she was always there, and I know she meant well but I needed my own space. I have moved out quite young, but only because I have been in a relationship for a long time, and my moms now remarried, so she isnt on her own, I couldnt of ever left her on her own, but look at the advice on the question, explain to her one day you will fly the nest and you'd rather do it with her support erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:41:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/overprotective 260522 why do you want to deep throat a CARROT?! :S erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:36:38 -0700 260513 I agree yeah, but what does the colour of ones skin matter and how does that make a difference to an actual person? my boyfriends italian and my step brothers girlfriends black, there people in their own skin and I love them, I dont see how been black effects someone, or I dont see how been white makes you a different person erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:35:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/racust_people 260507 I'm not going to give you a bashing about this at all Dan, I have been with my boyfriend 5 years, we both work hard, I'm studying to get a career, thats what I want before marriage, we love eachother and we can't afford a fancy wedding right now with so much to pay for, I am confused about god, but I see it as we love eachother, so what does a few papers matter right now? I think I'm too young to get married, I want to wait until it feels right, and I do want to have kids when I am married, but many people have different beliefs, I'm from england originally, and people over there live together as a sort of first step really, when they have been together a long time, it makes sense as my mom lives on a farm and I want to stay in the city to see my boyfriend more now she's remarried, and I do give my whole self to him, I'd do anything for him, I respect religion and iwant to find whats right formyself on that score but I dont see the harm in living with your partner? :S anyone else agree? erin182 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:30:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/they_won_t_leave_us_alone 260501 I've wore a write dress to a funeral before, and I wore black heels and like a long showl draped round my sholders, I know blacks for funerals but I think the person thats died wouldnt want it to be all dak and dismal, I want nobody in black at my funeral! just wear a black jacket or cardie or shawl with your dress erin182 Tue, 11 Mar 2008 18:50:08 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/clothing_136604 259991 well I don't drink, because it goes to my head so I prefer not to, nor do I get high, but if I have a friend over my place I love nothing better than to get a take away, lots of dvds and have a good girl night, face masks, girlie gab and junk food, does the trick for me but whatever floats your boat! erin182 Tue, 11 Mar 2008 18:23:16 -0700 259950