FunAdvice Advice from: emodarling http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/emodarling en-us Re: What are some good bands? wow u have a realy realy good taist in music well here r some kk cute is what we aim for the audition june action action armor for sleep umm third eye blind atreyu and im sure there are more but i cant remember ^_^ emodarling Tue, 24 Jul 2007 17:57:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_are_some_good_bands 73617 Re: What are good bands like these? ohh those bands r so cool well ill list som kk from first to last action action aiden the audition nervana rise against atreyu the photo atlas all american rejects armor for sleep bayside i cant realy think of anymore sry emodarling Tue, 24 Jul 2007 17:53:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/somethin_good 73616 Re: My friend needs help! Plz I need some advice OMG 0.0 first of all the illness is called depresstion and yes its a real thing she might be going through a hard time or mayjor peer pressure or she might have had some stuff happen in her past that not evan u know about 2nd im gonna say that yes she is doing it 4 attention but not like how u think she may not want anyone to know about it only u cuz ur her bf but she maynot have been given the right kinda attention growing up or she just cant get her point across 3rd she may really not care if she does die it may be that she is tired of whats fake and just dosnt wanna deal with things..so here is my advice to u ..if u need a pen and paper to remember go ahead lol..let her know that u luv her and care for her that u dont want anything to happen to her she already knows if she keeps up like this she is gonna die so dont critazize her be there for her whenever she says she wansta die say if u die were would i be or if u die im gonna die 2 cuz i cant live without u or evan say do u really wanna leave me to and see me cry everyday cuz ur not around it will take a lil to get it acoss to her that she is luved but it works be a good friend when ever she needs to talk always and i mean always no matter how mad u r at her always be there for her tell u will never leave her when ever she says something bad about herself be like who said that they r gonna die in seven dayz just b there 4 her and luv her kk..if u need nemore advice just ask i would know how 2 help cuz my friend is doing the same for me --a friend emodarling Sun, 22 Jul 2007 17:59:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_friend_needs_help_plz_i_need_some_3725 72931 Re: How can I stop cutting my wrists? hay man i hate it when peeps say i know how u feel but ive been there and am doing that hun u need help talk to ur parents they can help but some peeps dont have caring parents if ur one of them than talk to a close teacher a REAL friend someone that wont leave u cuz of it balive it or not they are out there and i know this sounds crazy but take every last one of ur sharp objects and toss them make sure there is nothing u can hurt urself with and when u get the urg to cut turn on some kinda music something that isnt depressing with me i just listen to screemo so i can just jump around my room and head bang lmao but find ur inner music it really helps go out side and skate or watch a funnie movie call a friend and caht with them or evan go to sum web sites that u can talk 2 people u dont know like i go 2 vampirefreaks but talk 2 people online they help out alought that is one thing that is getting me through this trying time read comics (exspecaly anime its awsome) draw or write poetry hay u wanna know something i have about 30 poems written cuz of stuff..and about those friends of urs honestly if they r gonna walk away cuz they cant handle u or whatever the excuse is skrew em they arnt the friends u need if u end up with only online friends than thatys better than crap friends i hope this advice helped u and im here to talk to kk -a friend emodarling Sun, 22 Jul 2007 17:43:29 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_an_emo_i_cut_my_wrists 72926 Re: How can I have a life with my parent's strict rules? okay so basicly what ur saying is ur parents are planning 2 put u in a convent lol jk jk kk well ive got a little bit of advice for you. My mom is stricked but she isnt that bad but i think i have something 2 help you. Ok here i go. Being outgoing is hard it took me 13 years to do it but i did it so i think u can too Pretend everyone is teddy bears or think of life like this your probably never going to see the people you meet again and life is short and..if there is a heaven..when you do go there people im asuming wont care so just say random things be loud and friendly talk 2 people if you see someone having a hard day say hello or give them a smile acualy say hello 2 n e one and flash of ur georgious smile..thats the easy part now guyz well im not allowed to date but heres something 4 u to feel a lil in control flirt with guyz that u think are hot when ur parents arnt around and date when ever youd like without telling them they dont need 2 know lol. Find friends that are cool and nice if u wanna listen to a certain music hang with those people that listen to that music like me personaly i luv death metel and screamo and emo crap so i hang with that group..well i acualy am that group lol i made my own group we have loads of fun find ur inner self 2 thats very inportant and unless ur parents go to ur skool be who u wanna be in skool and dont let those rude people get u down i they are mean say something funny like ur gonna die in 7 dayz and stuff or just *whispers* flip them off well if u have n e more questions just come on over and ask away emodarling Sat, 07 Jul 2007 20:33:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_336 69025 Re: Unknown Im not so sure if he knows who u r so i cant really help u there but i can help u with this just talk to him be friendly if he is a total jerk cuz he does know who u are than he isnt worth you. Or you could e-mail him asking if he is mad at u if he says yes ask him y if he says no than ask him y isnt he talking 2 u. But frankly if a guy is not talking 2 u becouse of something as small as ur name than he is not worth it i know its hard to hear someone that u dont know say this about someone u like but trust me ive had enough exsperiance within my 14 years of life to say that u have to watch out 4 yourself and not let guyz treat you like that cuz its not fair 2 u kk emodarling Sat, 07 Jul 2007 20:19:19 -0700 69024