http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/emmaroo91 en-us hi i can relate to you loads and loads with your post i have always had an extremely low confidence level and realy , realy hated myself (yh you may think im not not fat but really i am) to be honest who is pathetic enough to call someone ugly or fat .. those who feel it themselves and i have always been the "fat friend" too lol or "hey fat one i wanna shag you" but im soo over it now you just have to tell yourself that you are beautifull and pick out one thing you love about yourself e.g- eyes or chest me i think i have a pretty face and am not ashamed to say it :) now but at one time i cried whenever i looked in a mirror and it used too take me 3hours in the morning to prepare for school (crazy isent it) i would also suggest buying so self help books and just google and you will find some easy enough to download amazon or ebay (i got the fat girls guide to life the other day :O amazingg .. anyway MOST OF ALL DO NOT LISTEN TO SOME HORMONELY IMBALANCED SHALLOW TEENAGE BOY whos trying to make you feel bad cuz he proberly has features he dislikes such as a small nob! JUST LOVE YOURSELF because i have been in your shoes and i know it is possible too :) .. take care - Emme p.s i hope this helped in some way too emmaroo91 Thu, 28 Jun 2007 09:07:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_ugly_and_fat_help_me_5085 67066 from someone whos had both good & bad experiences with eyeliner listen up! if you want to va va voom look on your lashes to make them appear huge use a normal koal eyelines softly on the top eyelid just ontop of the eyelashes and then i suggest using a liquid eyeliner over this ( be warned though be sparse with liquid eyeliner cuz it can get very icky) just most of all keep practising & you will perfect the eyeliner look your going for. hope my advise is usefull :) xx emmaroo91 Tue, 26 Jun 2007 13:21:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_to_do_with_eye_liner_on_the 66705