http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/dixiesoccerchik29 I am in the US ARMY... I also currently am attending Central Texas College Online, working towards my bachelors of Criminal Law. I am also looking very forward to having my baby girl Trinity Jadyn. en-us Well, long story short, a lot of girls go through what you are describing! I went through the same crap... I was with my ex for 3 years before I got up enough nerve to leave him... Like you said, while I was with him, there was this awesome guy that I was attracted to in a way... Well, I wound up getting married to him, and now im very happy! Look its up to you, when you want to get out! If you think you love him, one day it will come to you that what he is doing is not right, and you should'nt be treated like that! No one deserves that! I was forced to live with my ex in his moms trailer for 2 years! He beat me and said things that made me feel like I was nothing, it took me a while to gain my confidence back up! It was not healthy at all... He would beat the crap out of me, everytime he got mad, he would say that I deserved it. Well, now im recovering from the past I went through, and my husband is helping me! Its been 2 years since then, and im still not completely confident.. Look, its up to you, but like you, he helped me through some bad stuff, but it all weighed out to him being bad... If you want to talk to anyone hit me up, I have lots more that I could say but its not everyones business... dixiesoccerchik29 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 07:00:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/love_50_50 267766 Like the person said above me, cocoa butter only works in the beginning... Im using revitol right now, and im preg, I have no stretch marks... I've used it from the begining of my preg. You need to use something that has ingredients in it to make your sking stretchier... Also for old scars and stretch marks, I've heard that mederma works very well... The results will take about 4-6 months... dixiesoccerchik29 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 06:47:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/stretch_marks_6496 267758 LOL Yeah, I know where your coming from. My husband knows that I talk to him, he trusts me fully, as I trust him. The only prob. that he has with it, is how the other guy used to treat me. Thats my main prob. My ex was a very mean guy, and inside of me, I hate him! But somewhere deep within me, I still want to talk to him, I dont know why. Plus, to make a long story short, I kinda left my ex for my husband. My husband is a wonderfull man, and I left the ex for a reason. Bad thing is, that he contacts me at the wierdest times. Like he is the one looking for me even though time afrter time I've'e told him that im not ever going to leave (or cheat) on my hubby with him. He just doesnt get the pic! I really want to stop talking to him, but were both on the same mil base, therfore I see him a lot. Im not really a mean person either, so I cant just be like "dont talk to me" HEL P! dixiesoccerchik29 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 10:27:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_married_but_my_ex_came_back_help 260740 what do you mean by "freaking"? Do you mean arguing? dixiesoccerchik29 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:57:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/marrige_8393 260570 Thanks for the answer, I think it is awesome that animals CAN tell... Well some of them at least! Anywho, it kind of wierds me out when my alarm goes off for me to wake up, because he'll come running, and start meowing at me... Then he'll jump on top of me untill I start to pet him... Its cute I guess, but with all the preg. hormones, sometimes it just pisses me off.. LOL dixiesoccerchik29 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 07:56:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pets_knowing_if_your_prego 260568 Hey they recalled the BUMBO seat, go research it... They said that they were having problems with people putting their kids on like a higher surface(couch,table, etc) and they were getting out of them and dropping to the ground... Just letting you know... dixiesoccerchik29 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 06:19:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/bumbo_seat 260458 Oh yeah, and by the way to everyone that says, "I dont know if I want one", is a good sign not to have one. Guess what, you are wrong!!! Way wrong, when people make a big decision like this in their lives, they ask themselves multiple times if they want to do it, and this and that. I agree with the poster on this one, if you dont have a child, or you are under the age of 19 DO NOT write this lady! She wants advice not a 13 year olds opinion!!! dixiesoccerchik29 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 06:15:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/urge_to_have_a_baby_at_19 260456 Well, seeing how its still freakin cold outside, a lot of the attractions are not open right now. I drove down last weekend, and brrr... it was cold! Also, there are lots of military around, so just dont get in trouble! Especially if you plan on going after june! Then most of the brigades will be back from the deployment! They are going to want to party... I know before we left, we partied a lot! So, just be aware of your surroundings at all times! But hey have fun... MYRTLE is a great place to go and have fun... theme parks, museums,haunted houses, rides... all year long(mostly) dixiesoccerchik29 Mon, 10 Mar 2008 10:03:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/myrtle_beach 257693 your 14, be glad you have as much as you have! Your body will not stop maturing for a while... Oh yeah, and like some of the above comments be glad you dont have huge boobs... They can even sometimes lead to back problems... dixiesoccerchik29 Mon, 10 Mar 2008 09:48:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_how_can_i_get_naturally_bigger 257677 Look, when I was 17 my mother cheated on my dad. It wasnt pretty, to make the situation worse, I had signed up for the ARMY already. This all hit at the worse time possible, and my father hit rock bottom. Seriously, it was not a walk in the park at all. My mother and father would toggle me back and forth and would be very child like, in the fact that they would argue over who would get to see me. It was horrible, and being the only child that made it worse. My father was devistated, and I was by his side as much as I possibly could be. These things are tough, but you just have to do whats best for you! Both of your parents will love you no matter who you pick to live with. Its not your fault all that happened. Frankly they should leave you out of it, but like I said do whats best for you. dixiesoccerchik29 Sun, 09 Mar 2008 07:53:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_to_help 255832 I think that you are going through " baby fever". Thats what I call it. But see, im 20, and im 7 months into my pregnancy, and loving every moment of it. I am in the military and so is my husband. I have a stable job, and I have learned so much already about my unborn. I am also currently attending Central Texas College Online, working towards my bachelors degree in Criminal Law. Look, I dont think it has to do with "oh you haven't lived yet, for god sake you havent even turned 21." I think it has to do with what level or "stage" your at in your life! Look having a child is one of the toughest things you will EVER do, but it is one of the most rewarding. Do what you think is right, and what you are ready for... You need to have your future planned, so that your child will have a great future as well. Thats my opinion, everyone is entitled to one! dixiesoccerchik29 Sun, 09 Mar 2008 07:45:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/urge_to_have_a_baby_at_19 255827