http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/ctucker en-us if I was you, I wouldnt know what to do either. you need to tell them no matter what. try to tell them in the way that will keep them the most calm. before you do nething, make sure that you are the dad! im really sorry about the situation that you are in. dont give up on your life. make sure you finish school and do as much as you had wanted to do with your life as before. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:27:43 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/imma_be_a_14yr_old_daddy_help 180590 your mom is just trying to protect you. she is probably just saying those things so that you will stay out of trouble. she does these things because she loves you. if this is not the case and you think she would ever try to hurt you, then you should try to get help asap. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:24:26 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_scared_of_my_mom 180585 you should wait for sure. it may seem like the right thing to do now, but it will wreck your future. you should wait until you are at least in your twentys. please, dont get pregnant now. if you have a baby now, you will always love the baby, but you will most likely regret it in the future. maybe you should try to get a chance working with kids or babysitting. but dont make this make you want to have a baby even more. it is much harder when you have a baby at home day and night and you have to wake up in the middle of the night tons of times. its not fun. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:21:37 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_14_and_really_want_a_baby 180580 I think you should adopt a puppy that does not have a home. we adopted a puppy, we went on petfinder.com. she is a cockapoo, and she is the cutest most friendly dog I have ever met. she is very humanlike. it feels great to rescue a dog. you should get a dog for sure. they cheer people up, and keep them company. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:17:29 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/buy_or_adopt 180575 I love and beleive in god. I understand what you are saying. I dont swear, and I try not to go against god. I do wonder what god thinks of a lot of people. a lot of people might make fun of kids that go to church more than once a week. there is nothing wrong with that!! ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:14:15 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_anyone_beleive_in_god_anymore 180571 I agree with you. any kink of abuse is horrible. the worst thing about it is that it will never be stopped. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:10:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_people 180569 I like sydney, alexis and kayden. if you are having a baby you should try to pick an original name. most of those names are hard to pronounce. it will be easier for someone to get a job if they have a more origional name rather than a unique and different name. I do like the names, but the original names sound more professional. hope that I could help a little. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:08:04 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_you_think_of_these_baby_names 180565 chances are that if you tell her no that she will end up getting one anyway because she is able to get on the computer. you could not let her have a computer in her room and have it somewhere where you can keep an eye on her. if she is younger than 14, then I would not even consider it. on myspace, people cannot talk to you or get your information unless you say they can. but if she has poor judgement then I really dont know. you could go to myspace.com every once and a while and go to search and type in her name, and if you find she has a myspace then you can have her delete it. im sry I dont know what else to do, but I hope I helped somewhat. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:04:19 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/raising_grandchildren 180554 chances are that if you tell her no that she will end up getting one anyway because she is able to get on the computer. you could not let her have a computer in her room and have it somewhere where you can keep an eye on her. if she is younger than 14, then I would not even consider it. on myspace, people cannot talk to you or get your information unless you say they can. but if she has poor judgement then I really dont know. you could go to myspace.com every once and a while and go to search and type in her name, and if you find she has a myspace then you can have her delete it. im sry I dont know what else to do, but I hope I helped somewhat. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 19:04:17 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/raising_grandchildren 180553 a sign is if they are very friendly around kids. this does not mean they are child molesters! but if the child is always sitting on their lap, and the adult seems to be rubbing their legs or doing something a little strange. the best thing to do is to not leave a child alone with this person at any time. and make sure there is a phone around incase of any emergency. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:57:55 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_you_spot_a_child_molester 180541 the best thing to do is if you find out or think something is going on, then you should get help right away. dont wait, because if you do, by the time you decide to tell someone about it, it just might be too late. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:55:14 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_you_stop_a_child_from_being 180535 the name is very unique. but its not a name that I would pick. its not that I dont like it, but that it is hard to say. when your child grows up and tries to get a job, a name like David will get picked much before Dadrian. the name just doesnt sound very professional. you should try to pick something more origional. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:53:37 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/baby_names_11641 180529 no its not weird. I feel hungary a lot of the time and I kinda like it. but I only eat when im really bored. I try to keep myself busy. and when I cant then I just try to eat healthy. fruit salad is good, just mix it together and put a little sugar into it. ctucker Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:50:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_weird_that_i_like_feeling_hungry 180522