http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/cinnamon en-us Trust me - you are not in love with this yahoo. You sound to be more infatuated than anything. Don't put too much stress on yourself trying to figure out what is wrong with you and how to keep this creep around. The reason he bolted when you said you loved him is because he doesn't love you, he just thought he could "play" you and didn't bet you'd fall like that. Ignore him, if he starts to get friendly again, he's a true jerk and better off back in the shallow end of the pool, face down. cinnamon Thu, 19 Jun 2003 00:33:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_about_my_relationship 404 Trust me - you are not in love with this yahoo. You sound to be more infatuated than anything. Don't put too much stress on yourself trying to figure out what is wrong with you and how to keep this creep around. The reason he bolted when you said you loved him is because he doesn't love you, he just thought he could "play" you and didn't bet you'd fall like that. Ignore him, if he starts to get friendly again, he's a true jerk and better off back in the shallow end of the pool, face down. cinnamon Thu, 19 Jun 2003 00:31:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_about_my_relationship 403 What is wrong with you? Have you ever been in this guys shoes? If not, I can understand why, anyone who would give crappy advice like that couldn't possibly have anyone but their mother love them. cinnamon Sat, 14 Jun 2003 14:56:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_cheat_on_my_wife_why_not 365 That's the thing, our marriage isn't bad. We get along pretty good, but it's all the same. And I'm not sure sex or even intimacy is the issue. It's newness I think I am craving. Just the thought of being with someone new, even in conversation is stimulating to me. I want to desperatly talk to him about this but I know if I do, he'll probably think I've already done something, which I haven't. I even consider at times asking him if he would like to be with someone new, I don't think that would bother me all that much, I would understand. He has constantly wanted to have a threesome, which in guy language is cheating but your wife knows because she's there. As long as we both understood that it's not a relationship breaker we're looking for, it's just newness. I love my husband very much but the day to day is driving me crazy. cinnamon Thu, 12 Jun 2003 18:39:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/married_seven_years_getting_the_itch 361