http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/chocolate66 en-us Why do you think you want to do it? You need to seek help, because your weak when it comes to self mutilation. It's okay to seek help, you need to do so. Seek professional counseling. People think they get relief by self mutilation. They think it takes away the pain and thoughts providing relief. That's far from true. What happens is after you do it, your mind is put on cleaning up and hiding the evidence and that's where the relief comes in. You had a few minutes to take your mind off of you and your problems and put it on cleaning up or hiding the evidence. Don't allow your mind to take control, learn to resist. The more you do the stronger you'll become. Begin a journal and annotate, when you get the thoughts, what was happening prior to or during, and what did you do to get past thinking about it. Keep this journal, read and re read it. It strengthens you. Most importantly seek help. chocolate66 Mon, 05 May 2008 07:14:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/uhm 336017 Why do you think you want to do it? You need to seek help, because your weak when it comes to self mutilation. It's okay to seek help, you need to do so. Seek professional counseling. People think they get relief by self mutilation. They think it takes away the pain and thoughts providing relief. That's far from true. What happens is after you do it, your mind is put on cleaning up and hiding the evidence and that's where the relief comes in. You had a few minutes to take your mind off of you and your problems and put it on cleaning up or hiding the evidence. Don't allow your mind to take control, learn to resist. The more you do the stronger you'll become. Begin a journal and annotate, when you get the thoughts, what was happening prior to or during, and what did you do to get past thinking about it. Keep this journal, read and re read it. It strengthens you. Most importantly seek help. chocolate66 Mon, 05 May 2008 07:12:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/uhm 336014 First of all, if you really look, Beyonce don't have a big butt. Start noticing! If you look at the last show she did on television and she had on those coochie cutter shorts, it really shows that she doesn't have a big butt. Personally I think when she's in dresses she puts on a padded girdle or something. It changes. Because a butt doesn't change in size from outfit to outfit. You'll have a big butt no matter what you have on. Different clothes looks different, but the butt should be there, but her's isn't. Besides, NEVER want to be like someone else. Love you and if you don't LEARN HOW TO. chocolate66 Mon, 05 May 2008 07:06:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_need_help_479 336000