http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/cavanuk 44 year old single dad of 2 working in IT en-us Jealousy :) Ignore them! cavanuk Mon, 24 Sep 2007 13:09:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/that_really_hurts 102924 As parents we have to consider our childrens safety and sometimes their privacy comes second to that. You can get something like WebWatcher to see what they are looking at, what they are typing etc. All the best cavanuk Mon, 24 Sep 2007 12:57:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_view_my_childs_private_myspace 102918 "But do you really think it's ok for grown adults to be giving s*x advice to children?" Who is most likely to have been through it and seen the results? Along the lines Llewellyn says its ok, I think. cavanuk Mon, 24 Sep 2007 12:24:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/irresponsible 102897 22 divided by 7 cavanuk Tue, 21 Aug 2007 12:36:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pi 88133 Just tell him your last sentence in your question :) U really love him. cavanuk Tue, 21 Aug 2007 12:34:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_keep_him_wanting_more 88130 Thanks :) I don't want to stop her being affectionate. It's lovely. Just this wierd behaviour drives me crazy sometimes! :) cavanuk Tue, 21 Aug 2007 12:24:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_my_cat_doing 88126 PHP allows you to create non-static pages and interact with databases. PHP is a scripting language that is embedded in an HTML page. HTML provides the basic structure and simple non-chaning elements of a page\site while PHP allows you to display different content to different visitors or on different days. It also allows you to collect information from visitors and store or display the results. An example would be a guest book. cavanuk Mon, 20 Aug 2007 11:00:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_the_difference_between_php 87478 I agree with rnealw. People come here for advice and we should provide it where we can. Not everyone has the same intellectual ability and understanding of the world. As pointed out, there are also visitors from all sorts of backgrounds and cultures. Some in which the most obvious things are not discussed. We should try not to judge others against our own background. cavanuk Sun, 19 Aug 2007 04:46:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_up_with 86930 maxypoo, If so, your dr is an idiot. cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:52:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/are_hickeys_bad_for_you 85887 Yeah, happened with me :) Just takes time to settle back down. cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:37:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_stopping_medication_to_blame_for 85872 If Adam and Eve were two people - who did their first child 'marry' and have children with? cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 14:33:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/did_humans_evolve_from_ape_or_were 85829 The world is basically a molten ball of rock with a thin skin on it. As said above the gravitational pull of the planet pulls roughly equally on all points of the surface so it ends up as a ball. Incidentally, a cube would spin equally well in space. How a cube would come into being would be a different question - because of the above. cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 14:08:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/world_round 85820 Gasman "Well, if you believe in Christ as Savior and Lord, repent or turn away from this witchcraft, sorcery" "No second chances after death, no bargaining, no reincarnation to try again, no pergatory. " These are your beliefs, as is your choice to believe in the bible. Hopeless (and anyone else worried by such pronouncements), No one here has the answer. God is unknown, except in your soul. I do not believe a supreme being would hate you for confusion. And you do seem confused. You are Wiccan and Druidic but worry about the Abrahamic God? Search your heart and soul and if you truly believe what you are doing is 'right' then it probably is for you. Good luck in your search for the truth. cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 13:47:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/being_who_i_am 85813 Most parents might yell at least for a little while :) but I seriously doubt they would hate you! I don't know your age but if you are worried about telling mom I assume quite young. If you may be pregnant you do need to find out as soon as possible. Your mom can be the greatest source of the support you need. It's probably best to wait for a quiet time to tell your mom when you can talk together. all the best - good luck cavanuk Thu, 16 Aug 2007 13:16:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_54 85794 Just to follow up a few points made here. 1. Sperm doesn't have to reach ovaries 2. Not everyone knows everything! See 1 above :) Aren't we all here to learn and to share what we know. If you disrespect people asking questions you think are 'stupid' you miss the chance of helping someone and show yourself as a little stupid? cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:58:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_woman_be_pregnant_from_this 85176 Cam s*x - as in both of you mastu*bating via web cam? I wouldn't think you would be classed as not being a virgin. cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:40:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/cherry_broken 85175 Either he chickened out, was playing with you or something happened to him! cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:25:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/1st_time_stood_up 85170 I doubt whether it is serious but if you are worried then you could see a doc. However depending on how long it has been since it happened, you probably know if there were any consequences by now. The only thing likely to happen is that you got a bit of an infection. cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:18:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/condom_problem 85164 Sweet girl cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 09:49:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dating_577 85156 As already stated, whether you lose weight and how much is your choice. However, I assume you asked your husband because you wanted his opinion, so he gave it. Speak to him and ask him what he meant. It sounds as if he does love you whatever, which is special. Maybe he is concerned for your health if you gain more? It's also true that we all have preferences. He says he likes you as you are but maybe his preference is not for skinny women or very fat women. There is a big difference between love and attraction. Be honest, anyone reading this, you may still love your partner but would you still be so attracted if they put on a great deal of weight? cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 09:11:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_if_3789 85148 Hi, All you can do is ask her straight when you do get to hang out again. She might be feeling vulnerable. She might just not like you that way. If not then it will hurt to find out but you need to know. and if the answer is no then you can move on. At the moment you are just stuck. good luck cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 08:54:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_show_the_love_of_my_life 85143 There is no reason why an*l sex should cause internal bleeding if you are careful. Many people do it successfully :) So, if that is the only reason you are worried then you shouldn't be. If there are other reasons then you shouldn't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to. Sex of any sort should be about being comfortable together. Only doing what you both wish to. There is the issue of health to consider. It's not advisable to practice an*l if you have an STI. After an*l it is also advisable to wash before doing anything else. cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 08:48:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/an_al_sex 85140 Your daughter is going through a great deal of change in her life and finding things difficult. It is natural for teen girls and their mothers to fall out to some extent. You only get one chance at life. It's what makes you happy that is important. If you think this guy is the one you want to be with then stick with him. It would be such a shame to break something special. If things do go wrong with the relationship then your real friends will still be there for you. If they are not then they weren't worth knowing anyway. Your daughter will probably start to settle in 5 years or so whatever the issues. I say stick with it and I wish you all the best of luck cavanuk Wed, 15 Aug 2007 08:42:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/nobody_likes_my_boyfriend 85138