http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/carolina2 en-us girl..trust me you dont NEED him to like you. I know this sounds hard but forget about him! you dont want to be with a guy who is so shallow! you guys can still be friends. at least you've already shown him your true self and who you are, and since he doesn't like it well to bad for him!dont try to turn into something or look like something thats in HIS taste, I mean I would rather have a guy not like me for who I am instead of love me for who I 'm not. and let this be a lesson learned that you dont wait so long to find out if someone likes, because if he doesn't it will hurt because you've liked him for all these years. so next time find out early so it wont hurt so bad if hes not interested. :] I really hope you'll feel better..and there'll be plenty of other guys for you who will be much much better than him:]] carolina2 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 12:03:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_me_519 262310