http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/bywordofmouf en-us I think you are confused he is not my boyfriend just kinda like a beneficial friend...and I care for him alot but don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because I like her. My boyfriend I was talking about at the time was "Lynn" and me and him have been apart for about a month. Me and "Jim" have lost that everynight routine of talking to each other, but within the past two weeks he has been asking me to call and come see him, but he hasn't called....don't know if that helps clear up my dilema but I hope so bywordofmouf Thu, 27 Apr 2006 09:22:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/torn_between_two 12255 Yes you are young, but people engage in different activities at all ages. So I think that only you know if you are ready to handle sexual contact and what not. But just because you are ready does not mean your girlfriend is...she is younger than you and might not be so excited about leaping forward. Sexual activities lead to intercourse....Always. so just remember that whatever you are "trying" you need to realize the responsibilities that come with all forms of sex. also becareful on how you rub the "sertain part" you can cause damage to her clitoris that will give her an infection. Just use your head and if she's ready for you she'll let you know. bywordofmouf Thu, 30 Mar 2006 13:07:00 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fingering_my_girl 10522 It sounds to me that you are insecure...but you want to know what you have a right to be. I don't want to stereotype guys but usually if they have female "friends" that they only talk to when you are not around something is up. Try inviting them over for dinner, or even suggesting ya'll go to a club, or out. If he acts weird or shady then these are more like booty calls then friends. I'm not saying he doesn't love you and these aren't his friends...just becareful and protect your heart. If he is cheating the truth will come out in the end. But if you do love him you must trust him, but there is a difference between trust and being insecure! Only you can determine the status of your relationship with him, but for his benefit don't jump to conclusions but also don't be stupid. bywordofmouf Wed, 29 Mar 2006 11:26:02 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_does_my_boyfriend_need_so_many 10371 Sounds to me like this guy did have strong feelings for you but You have to remember that guys react differently to problems then Girls something that seemed small to you might have meant the world To him. Also you need to realize that you can't have your pie and Cake too. Relationships are hard work and if you are not ready for The task then thats okay. Breakups are hard even between friends if You truely care don't give up, let him know you are sorry and he Will apologize too. Relationships also take compromises, if your not Willing to do this then I'm sorry it's over! bywordofmouf Wed, 29 Mar 2006 11:10:09 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_over_between_us 10370 Some girls don't expierence orgasms until they have had many sexual expierences my friend lets call her "apple" didn't have orgasms and she slept with three different partners. It was with her third partner when she had her first. Sometimes girls have orgasms but they are too small to be felt or they are your first and you are not sure what that "funny" feeling is. The partner is very important, and so is your strain of thought. But don't worry all females have them they are just on different levels but you will know soon enough what an orgasm is. bywordofmouf Tue, 28 Mar 2006 11:47:40 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/orgasm_301 10301 I know life can be difficult and confusing...I'm not sure of your age but it sounds like you are probably a young adult. Listen you need to find out if you want to be his friend for real, or is it just a "high school" lust thing. Your friend did you wrong but that happens...you can learn from it or let her double cross you again. If this guy is worth your friendship God will make it happen. bywordofmouf Tue, 28 Mar 2006 11:42:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_him_to_like_me_bak_at_least 10298