FunAdvice Advice from: butterfly_kiss3z http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/butterfly_kiss3z ummm... not much to know about me really... except that the more you get to know me... you'll see that I'm carefree, open minded and hearted, and open to new things =) I love helping people out as best as I can, whatever the situation may be!! So feel free to fun mail me or mark a comment... anytime you like!! Most of the advice I give is from personal/life experiences... but it mainly all comes from the heart!! &hearts; I have a heart for kids... and my sprit is always lifted when I'm around them!! I duno why, but I just feel that I can sense them and understand them. I really wanna work with children one day...and become an elementary teacher, early childhood educator or a child and family therapist =) I'm an only child, and although people think I'm spoiled rotten... I'm really not... it's actually quite lonely =( But I've got my friends to keep me smiling, an amazing boyfriend that truly loves and cares for me, my family who's always there for me and ofcourse God, who watches over me!! ohhh!!... LOL and though my name may sound Italian or Spanish... NO!... I WISH... but I'm not mixed!! LOL Pure ASIAN - Indonesian and Chinese (people call me "chindo") Fav Quotes: * Life is short, so make it sweet. * Love dosen't have a happy ending, that's because love dosen't have an ending!! * Love is like the wind, you can't see it, but you can feel it <3 en-us Re: P.s iluv you ahahahaha... I love that movie!! =) made me smile and made me cry... but nahh... I've already got myself a viet lad <3 butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:55:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/p_s_iluv_you 441967 Re: Braiding!!! why not check it out on youtube?... just type in braiding hair... and see what pops up... if not, I'm sure google can help =) butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:53:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/braiding 441958 Re: Hair color.. ahaha... we'll once your roots grow out, they grow out... I know it sucks, but I normally, just let it grow out on it's own, there's really not much you can do... sure you can keep on dying it.. but I once had a situation where the colors didn't match... and I just made it worse!! - plus if you have fast growing hair... it can be a waste of money! dying your hair is fun... but when it comes to going back to your natural hair color, it's time to go back! butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:47:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hair_color_146556 441936 Re: My three year old ahaha... I feel ya!! tho I'm still 17, without any kids... I babysit and I've done co-op in a kindergarden class!! sheedwwe is right, being firm and showing her you're serious and not playing around is key!! - don't scream, and don't tell her that she's bad, it'll discourage her and make her feel worse and act worse towards you, instead, take her by the hand, and tell your daughter that her BEHAVIOUR is bad!! - and explain to her why! for example - screaming can give her a sore throat, and if she gets a sore throat she'll have to take medicine, stay in bed, and not be able to play!!- plus it gives mummy a headache! if she dose things, like grabbing things and throwing them around - tell her she'll have to clean it up OR lead her into something she can do - like watching a movie or colouring!! threats also work well.. tell her she'll have no dessert, you won't take her to the park, you won't give her a surprise... ect. when she dose something bad! I know it's tough... hang in there!! she's at her stage where she's able to talk back and it's your job to teach her what's right and what's wrong! you'll be fine! you're one heck of a super mum! =) butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:38:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_three_year_old 441902 Re: Do you remember the show.. ahahaha... from all the shows you named, I only know All That and Are You Afraid Of The Dark :P maybe it's cause you live in the states?... ummm do you remember: The Amanda Show Saved By The Bell Goosebumps Family Matters Fresh Prince Of Bel Air (I think it's still on tv...lol) I love Power Puff Girls (it' still on!!) Sailor Moon!! Doug Johnny Brovo Monster By Mistake Archie's Weird Mysteries!!! (I still have some of their comics!!) What's With Aronld? Recess Rugrats!! (I miss that show so much!!..lol) okay... can't think of anymore... ahaha :P butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:19:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_remember_the_show 441864 Re: if your happy and you know it ahahaha... eventhough it's raining mad where I am... I'm HAPPY =) tnx for this cute post solamon! butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:05:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/if_your_happy_and_you_know_it 441835 Re: girl masturbating make her lose weight? nah... I don't think it's possible if you masturbate... tho I've heared you can lose weight through having sex! - cause you move around much more than when you masturbate alone. butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:20:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girl_masturbating_make_her_lose_weight 441733 Re: V shape haircut ahaha... that's my hair style =) I normally tell them that I want my hair layered all around, and they normally get me. if not, do what jazlovestoskate and steph had said, and get a pic of the cut that you want. btw, if the hairdresser dosen't cut your hair the way you wanted him/her to, you should complain, and tell him/her the way you want her to cut it! - don't just pay and walk out... ahaha that's what I do - and they'd give me a discount :P butterfly_kiss3z Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:18:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/v_shape_haircut 441725 Re: The g-spot how do you know if you found it? yupps... place two fingers up the vagina and press it on the upper wall... as princexx has said, it about 2 inches deep and it's about the size of a coin... and when you stimulate it when you're "wet" it feels like... WOW :D butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 11:22:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_g_spot_152651 439509 Re: Guys Masturbation. ahahaha... well at night before I hang up with my boyfriend, I moan for him and we have phone sex... lol it really turns him on and gets him horny... so if he has a girlfriend... he might want to try that! if not... the shower head is always good... ahaha, well that's what my boyfriend said. ummm... he can watch porn or look at a sexy pic of a girl while he jerks off... lol... he can do an apple pie like Jason Biggs did in American Pie...LOL!! there's plenty of stuff he can do... tell him to be creative :P hope I've helped =) butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 10:38:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guys_masturbation 439396 Re: My friend is annoying me you can just simply say that, you understand how hard it must be on him, but it really makes you feel sad to hear him repeat himself all the time. I understand how annoying it may get, but death is never an easy thing to get through with, you being his friend, should understand how he feels, be there for him, and listen to his feelings! butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 10:32:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_friend_annoying_me 439381 Re: Who loves r&b a lot? sean paul and sean kingston are more towards reggae... I love them too though =) I enjoy r&b, I heart jojo... though I dunno what happened to her :P butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 10:05:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/who_loves_r_b_a_lot 439352 Re: Girls only: Heavy discharge ahahaha... I agree... I hate pantyliners!! well... I dunno, do you have like "sexual" dreams? (that can be what makes you wet in the morning when you wake up) do you masturbate?...don't worry oh so much about it, if your discharge isn't smelly, thick and yellow, you're a-okay!! ummm... but if it still bugs you... why not try checking it out with your family doctor or something? maybe he/she will know what to do! butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 10:00:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girls_onlyyy_seriously_dudes_will 439347 Re: Do you like stagight hair or curly hair better? I have straight hair... but I want it curly!! lol... but I think I like living with straight hair, just because I can do a lot of stuff with it :D butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:50:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_like_stagight_hair_or_curly 439335 Re: Do you find this joke funny aghhh... not something I'd laugh about either :P butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:44:16 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_find_this_joke_funny 439324 Re: Is this poem good? beauty dose go far beyond apperances =) *smile and thumbs up* butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:41:45 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_poem_good_171525 439317 Re: The man who can't be moved I checked it out and I fell in love with it!!... tho I'm having trouble downloading it :( but it was definitely worth the listen :) butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 06:46:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_man_who_can_t_be_moved 439092 Re: My best friend's missed her period again as princexx has said, it seems that your friend loves the thrill of it all... and dosen't think straight, when it comes to her safety... as much as you try to tell her she's pregnant and still denys it, it's most likely cause she's scared you're right, she knows you're right, or she hates herself for not listining to you earlier!! try to get diffrent friends to convice her into seeing a doctor and getting herself tested (better now then later!) - if she dosen't listen to you, maybe she'll listen to someone else! - I sure hope she dose! good luck =) butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 06:42:26 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_best_friend_s_missed_her_period 439084 Re: Funeral Song ummm... I duno why but the song popping into my head is Bryan Adams - Heaven, though I like DJ Sammy's slow version of it better =) either verison is good, the song is just so touching, and I think it'd be sweet if my future hubby would sing it (if I die before him!...ahaha tho he may be too old to sing =P okay... maybe my daughter... if I have one!) butterfly_kiss3z Tue, 22 Jul 2008 06:34:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/funeral_song 439076 Re: What is worse, drinking or smoking? well, I think that both are equally as bad, and they both ruin lives!! but what ty has said was a good point... tho I think you look to drinking as beer, rather than wine :P thinking deeply about it, I'd say smoking is worse tho, cause a person is more addicted to it!! most people can limit themselves when it comes to drinking... but once you smoke... it's hard to quit! but if you're addicted to drinking and you can't stop... it's all the same! butterfly_kiss3z Sun, 20 Jul 2008 18:25:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_worse 436357 Re: How do I find out?! Help guys advice is needed! well, I'm a girl... but looking at your situation, I think he may just be a little shy... if he kissed you... then hey! there must be a connection! I agree with what angelfire has said, and just be happy with what you've got for now, and don't rush things... maybe if you open up a bit more, share your feelings, and tell him that you really like him (if you do... and if you do, tell him in person...rather than online!) - then see his reaction and what he has to say! hope I've helped =) butterfly_kiss3z Sun, 20 Jul 2008 18:18:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_find_out_help_guys_advice 436342 Re: My cousin and her blankie ahahaha... I have a friend that's 17, and HE has a blankie... and sleeps with it too!! ahahaha... he can't sleep without it!! - but he dosen't suck on it!!... ahahaha... or did you mean your cousin sucks her thumb and sleeps with a blankie? butterfly_kiss3z Fri, 18 Jul 2008 16:22:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_cousin_and_her_blankie 433222 Re: Myspace or FunAdvice? I like funadvice... never had a myspace... but FACEBOOK is where it's at =) butterfly_kiss3z Fri, 18 Jul 2008 16:15:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/myspace_or_funadvice 433213 Re: Paris Hilton: Hot or Not? I dunno actually... haven't heared that much about her... but I live in canada butterfly_kiss3z Fri, 18 Jul 2008 16:14:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/paris_hilton_hot_or_not 433208 Re: Damn I want to know if he likes me or not!!! it seems like he only sees you as a friend, and that he likes your friend instead... but you can never be too sure... that's just the way I see it, looks like he's being friendly to you, to get on your friend's good side! but just to make sure, why don't you drop hints, to show that you like him (if you like him), and if you sense that he likes you, sit him down one day, and tell him how you feel... and see what he has to say back! butterfly_kiss3z Fri, 18 Jul 2008 11:56:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/damn_i_wanna_kno_if_he_likes_me_or 432786