FunAdvice Advice from: brownieex3

Re: Do my dreams tell me something?

brownieex3 — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 21:09:18 -0700

GO TO DREAMMOODS.COM I love that website, and I think it will be able to help you out

Re: What is the worst song you have ever heard?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:58:20 -0700

Big girls dont cry... AHHH!! GROSS!!! D:

Re: What are some really good love songs?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:57:04 -0700

Here are some good bands if you like techno/alternative music: -A Rocket to the Moon -The Secret Handshake -Metro Station -Cascada Most of their songs are about love :)

Re: What if my best friend hates me because I'm a cutter?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:49:01 -0700

Hes not your true friend if he is mad at you that you cut. End of story.

Re: Anger.

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:47:58 -0700

It looks to me like your anger issues are more than just because your mom bugs you. That may have something to do with it, but we all get sick of our mothers every once and a while. You might have some kind of disorder, like bipolar or borderline. Thats nothing to be ashamed of either, I know quite a few people that do have those disorders and when they take medicine, its like anger and frustration doesnt even exist to them anymore! I think you should look into that. Write a note to your mom or something if you are too afraid to talk to her in person. Or talk to another adult that you trust. You cant just sit back and do nothing. Each day it will get harder and harder for you to function, Im sure you've probably already realized that.

Re: What if I love him and he hates me?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:41:21 -0700

I think you should write him a note, or call him. Just straight out tell him that you like him. But dont say that you love him, because it might freak him out a little haha. Like seriously, what have you got to loose?? The worst thing that could happen would be for him to say that he doenst like you back, and then you would need to focus on getting over him... but I think its worth the try. You will hate yourself if you dont and you will always be wondering, "but what if..." Never pass up an opportunity :) go for it girl! good luck! <3

Re: Is it normal to fight a lot?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:36:49 -0700

I know im a little young and I dont know anything about marriage, but me and my ex-boyfriend used to fight every single day just like that. But I stayed with him because I loved him... Eventually it got so bad that he broke up with me, and now we are just best friends (yes it was really hard to get over him). We never fight anymore because we would always be arguing about our relationship and such. Sometimes taking a break is what you need to do to get those 'new love' feelings back that you had at the beginning of the relationship I wish I had the chance to go back and do it all over again though. If I would have known that our silly arguments meant not being together anymore, I would have listened to him more and I would have tried to stay calm when something he did bugged me. You just have to look at the big picture. Is fighting about how much time he spends with his friends or what restaurant you want to eat at or even about what happens in a movie or something REALLY worth loosing the relationship forever?! Just remember that next time you guys start to fight, and try to come to an agreement. I wish you the best of luck, and I really hope you two are able to work things out easier. <3

Re: Is it normal to argue and fight everyday?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:35:01 -0700

Me and my ex-boyfriends used to fight every single day just like that. But I stayed with him because I loved him... Eventually it got so bad that he broke up with me, and now we are just best friends (yes it was really hard to get over him). We never fight anymore because we would always be arguing about our relationship and such. Sometimes taking a break is what you need to do to get those "new love" feelings back that you had at the beginning of the relationship :) I wish I had the chance to go back and do it all over again though. If I would have known that our silly arguments meant not being together anymore, I would have listened to him more and I would have tried to stay calm when something he did bugged me. You just have to look at the big picture. Is fighting about how much time he spends with his friends or what restaurant you want to eat at or even about what happens in a movie or something REALLY worth loosing the relationship forever?! Just remember that next time you guys start to fight, and try to come to an agreement. I wish you the best of luck, and I really hope you two are able to work things out easier. <3

Re: When did you have your first kiss?

brownieex3 — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:27:15 -0700

I was 12 and I've been making out with guys LOTS since then :) I am 14 now, haha no you are not to young to kiss. Your parents just want you to stay their little baby girl forever :/

Re: Am I a slut for having sex at 14?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 22:12:25 -0700

If you were in a committed relationship, no.

Re: How to get him back?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 21:32:05 -0700

Dont let him know that you are so crazy over him, act confident and happy and make him think you are fine on your own and that you dont miss him. But when he talks to you or asks you about it, tell him the truth. He WANTS to hear that you still love him... Just be slow about it, if you know what I mean.

Re: Is this sexual assault?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 21:28:27 -0700

I have no idea what you are talking about. What do you mean by "pleaded to come round" And what is with this window?? I am really confused. Maybe you could try re-phrasing you question?!

Re: I JUST CANT TALK I DONT KNOW WHY I THINK IM AFRAID THAT I'LL SAY SOMTHING STUPID ..

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 20:46:54 -0700

Tell him to ask you a question :)

Re: Should I let my son have a Myspace?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 20:39:43 -0700

yes, but if he ends up spending too much time on it set a time limit for him because it can get addicting.

Re: How to tell a girl you want to have sex?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 19:54:10 -0700

If you are dating her: Talk to her and tell her that you are wanting to do more than what you already are doing with each other. And if she asks "like what" then just tell her you have been thinking about having sex. But let her know that you respect her and dont want to do anything with her that she doesnt want to do!

Re: How do I know if my teen daughter is doing drugs or having sex?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 19:49:55 -0700

Sit her down and ask her. If she lies, then she lies and there is nothing you can do about it. But its worth a try. And by you asking her about it, she might be worried about getting caught or nervous about why you think that, so maybe it will cause her to get enough of a conscious to stop.

Re: What is the purpose of life?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 19:45:06 -0700

To survive and reproduce. I think everything human are worried about these days are pointless because when we die, school, work and everything else we work so hard for wont really matter. But if we reproduce, we have done the world good :)

Re: What makes girls unattractive?!

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 17:46:16 -0700

I meant like personality wise. I cant exactly change my appearance. What are some things I could do to be considered annoying, rude, ect?

Re: What does this crazy dream mean? (again)

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 17:26:56 -0700

To dream that you are at a prom, represents cycles and the passage of time. This dream signals an end to something and the beginning of something else. This dream may also signify your anticipation of your own upcoming prom in real life. To dream that you are drinking punch, represents vitality and renewal. To dream that you have been raped, suggests a sadistic expression of sexual desire. You may be expressing an unconscious desire to be violated, conquered, or forced into forbidden territory. It also indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite sex. Alternatively, it suggests that you are feeling violated in some way. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. Dreams of rape are also common for those who were actually raped in their waking life. To dream that you are waking up in your dream,� indicates that something is missing or lacking in your life. There is an aspect of your life that you are not utilizing to its fullest potential. You are not recognizing your abilities. To dream that you are awaken, represents a spiritual rebirth. You may be acknowledging and embracing both your feminine and masculine aspects of Self.� You are utilizing your fullest potential. Consider who or what awakened you. This is an indication of what is lacking or missing in your life. To dream that you are riding in an automobile, signifies that even in pleasant situations, you will still be restless and uneasy. To see a canyon in your dream, represents your unconscious mind and hidden feelings. It may point to emotions and relationships that you did not recognize. If this cameron is your boyfriend: To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him. To dream that you are in or see a cabin in your dream, indicates that you succeed via your own means. It suggests that you are self-reliant and independent, yet still remain humble. You prefer the simpler things in life. To dream that you are tied up in ropes, signifies that you will let your heart guide you contrary to your better judgment. If you are being laughed at, then it indicates your insecurities and fears of not being accepted. To hear evil, demonic laughing in your dream, represents feelings of humiliation and/or helplessness >>I get all of this information from dreammoods.com! That site is amazing!!

Re: What does this dream mean?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 17:14:38 -0700

go to dreammoods.com that site interprets your dreams for you!! it is amazing!!

Re: All my guy friends want to get in my pants.

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 17:05:46 -0700

When I tell them that I just want to be friends with them, IT MAKES THEM LIKE ME MORE AND TRY EVEN HARDER! because it it natural for people to want what they cant have. It sucks.

Re: what are good questions to ask a girl

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 17:02:38 -0700

Ahw, I like you :) I wish I could find a guy that wanted to talk about something besides sex! Tell her that you would prefer not to talk about sex all the time!! She might respect you more. You could talk about your childhood, music, school, friends. Or if you know her really well you could have good conversations about religion, what you want in life, ect.

Re: Unknown

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 15:34:07 -0700

Do everything you need to get done first. Or do all the bad or hard stuff first... And then you have time to relax and do what you want to do :)

Re: Why should I care what other people think?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 14:35:04 -0700

thats just it. we shouldnt care! just have fun in life and make good friends that love you for who you are. thats all that should matter. really, people dont care about if you are cool or not, they just care about themselves and trying to make themselves fit in. its pointless to me.

Re: Are Rockstar energy drinks good for you?

brownieex3 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 14:32:28 -0700

I dont drink anything but water because everything else has at least something that is harmful to you. I've heard that if you drink and energy drink every day, you will have a heart attack by the time you are 25. I dont know how accurate that is though. My friend did a research project on energy drinks for my english class. She used to drink them all the time and she was going to try to prove in her project that energy drinks really arent as bad for you as everyone thinks they are. But she ended up finding out that energy drinks, espeacially NOS, are wayyy worse for you than she thought. hah. Also, did you know that they use COKE to clean car batteries? YES, coke-a-cola! Because it has so much acid in it. My dentist gave me that information. Hah, gross!