http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/bracelets_03 en-us I know what shy is all about because I could never go up t a guy and say.."I like you want to go out on a date" I think the best thing to do is talk to him but the other thing is if he is a client...if there is something that states you can't date him then either forget about it or if you two talk and decide to see each other maybe he shouldn't be a client. Just ask him if he would like to go out sometime for...coffee and see what goes from there...just talk bracelets_03 Wed, 16 Nov 2005 11:39:17 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_wanna_date_him_badly 5192 Maybe he is just scared to show any interest in you because of his friends. Maybe he doesn't want them to know he likes you because let's face it some friends take interest in the people you like if they know you like them... I guess the best way to know is the next time you guys are alone talk to him. Do it kind of in a not noticable way... name one of your friends and ask him a question from his point of view like..."So and so thinks so an so likes her because they talk all the time and he genuinly seems interested in what she is saying but when there are other people around he hardly talks to her." He gives you his answer and then I guess just asking him if he would act the same way. I know it is hard to read guys...the one I am with was kind of hard to read but in the end he came out and told me how he felt...just ask! bracelets_03 Wed, 16 Nov 2005 11:18:42 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_he_interested_471 5191 There is enough room but it is kind of hard to do so when his underwear kind of makes it harder to do. You could gently massage or run your hand up and down his penis like that but again the underwear makes it harder to do. The best way to know for sure is communication let him know you would like to try it and ask him how he would like you to do so. You don't just want to reach down there and grab it. The way you could lead into that is just basically making out and just slowly start sweeping your hand up and down his chest and then down by his abdomen and then just by his hips. Then just gently start using your fingertips touching him there and slowly working your way to using your full hand but on tips...nothing is better than asking him how he likes to be touched. bracelets_03 Tue, 15 Nov 2005 22:45:12 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/handjob_178 5165